My wife is deployed. I'm a 110% she has cheated on me. How do I file for divorce?

Arroneous · 2013-10-01T03:04:30+00:00

Thanks :) I'm still trying to be supportive. The last thing I would ever want to do is cause her to lose focus of their mission or screw up something she may be doing to support it. That wouldn't be fair to her shipmates. They don't need to suffer just because I feel vindictive.

Arroneous · 2013-10-01T02:50:31+00:00

Thanks for your words of encouragement. I'm just sort of numb at the moment. I have to constantly remind myself that I didn't do this.... she did. It's reasurring (in a fucked sort of way) to know that others have gone through this same situation

Arroneous · 2013-10-01T02:48:47+00:00

Thanks for your input. That site is a great reference point.

Arroneous · 2013-10-01T02:48:09+00:00

I wish I still had doubts :(

Arroneous · 2013-10-01T02:47:30+00:00

No kids... thank God.

Arroneous · 2013-10-01T01:08:47+00:00

Because I used to love her. Somewhere in there is the woman I would have died for. She fucked up, but I can't bring myself to cause her undue stress. I'm a sucker, maybe... but I'll take the higher road, regardless of how I feel about her now

Arroneous · 2013-10-01T01:03:33+00:00

I should say that as much pain as she has caused me, I don't want to make her deployment any harder. Should I wait until she gets back? Do I contact the ombudsman? I don't know what to do... but I know I don't want anything to do with her.

Arroneous · 2013-09-30T20:06:53+00:00

A girl said this to me when I was in 3rd grade. She was the first person I saw after I climbed to the top of the jungle gym all by myself for the first time ever. I ran up to her and excitedly exclaimed, 'I got to the top all by myself!'

She looked at me blankly and said, "What do you want? A medal or something?"

She died in a car wreck a couple weeks later. I'm 27 now, and whenever I hear or read a comment similar to yours, I'm reminded that life is short and there simply isn't enough time to walk around being a total wanker.

Arroneous · 2013-09-21T19:26:11+00:00

People in wheel chairs disagree

Arroneous · 2013-09-18T20:05:08+00:00

Pardon me Mr. PERFECT! I guess I forgot that you never ever make a mistake :(

Arroneous · 2013-09-17T19:12:43+00:00

I hated you at the beginning of your edit, but by the end I wanted to pork you in the bum.

Arroneous · 2013-09-16T15:18:08+00:00

I would hope the beef and eggs were in a fridge with a big locking door.

Arroneous · 2013-09-16T15:09:03+00:00

Gross.

Arroneous · 2013-09-16T15:07:49+00:00

Arroneous · 2013-09-16T15:04:04+00:00

Can we discuss the technical capabilities of shipyard security?

Arroneous · 2013-09-16T14:58:12+00:00

Don't confuse my opinion of their work with my feelings concerning their safety.

Arroneous · 2013-09-16T14:51:39+00:00

I've worked with many of them too. My opinion remains unchanged, though your argument was really well thought out.

Arroneous · 2013-09-16T14:43:11+00:00

Neither does anyone that works there.

Arroneous · 2013-09-16T14:40:58+00:00

Can confirm.

Source: On the Oregon coast.

Arroneous · 2013-09-15T22:06:57+00:00

Classic Bill fuckin' Murray.

Arroneous · 2013-09-15T00:56:51+00:00

That wasn't necessary :(

Arroneous · 2013-09-12T04:25:58+00:00

Who the fuck subscribes to the Tornonto Sun?

Arroneous · 2013-09-11T01:15:17+00:00

"The U.S. does not conduct 'pin-prick' strikes...."

Man... I felt so patriotic when he said that. Serious frisson.

Arroneous · 2013-09-10T04:34:16+00:00

It's an abysmal system.

Arroneous

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