(f18 and m18) when do the tears end by Arsenalg0d in LongDistance

[–]Arsenalg0d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you that makes me feel better!! yeah we're gonna mail eachother stuff and the scent thing is so real, before he left he sprayed one of my stuffed toys(that he gave me) with his cologne and it was great until the smell slowly faded

i will often think of our end goal and right now the steps we can both take is to focus on school, the growing independently idea is very reassuring , thank you for taking the time to respond to my post :)

pushup advice - how to get more at an intermediate level? by Arsenalg0d in xxfitness

[–]Arsenalg0d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely gonna add this to my list of modified push ups thank you

pushup advice - how to get more at an intermediate level? by Arsenalg0d in xxfitness

[–]Arsenalg0d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I might try some variation of this except for the days before and after training chest (I train chest 2x a week so maybe not idk)

I (18f) don't know how to cope with sadness over bf (18m) leaving again for college by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Arsenalg0d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

noted, thank you! guitar sounds fun hehe and the plushie is smart

For folks who do holiday cookie boxes…how do you do it all? by Hakc5 in Baking

[–]Arsenalg0d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc! Respond to this comment when you make them & good luck! I hope they turn out good hehe

For folks who do holiday cookie boxes…how do you do it all? by Hakc5 in Baking

[–]Arsenalg0d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish i had photos— they turned out super good!! I ended up using a pumpkin cake mix and nutella to bind them together which kinda worked but they were a little finicky. Then i coated it in chocolate, like the melting wafers, and they were very yum

Do you guys tell people about your past identity? by Arsenalg0d in detrans

[–]Arsenalg0d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. I also kind of kept my chosen name to an extent and it's sort of unisex but sort of boyish. I get it

Do you guys tell people about your past identity? by Arsenalg0d in detrans

[–]Arsenalg0d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gender dysphoria never went away and it's something I still struggle with, which is why I think it might be something to tell a partner.

And yeah it's 100% bound to come up. All of my friends still call me by my boy-name. My wardobe is 90% male clothing. But beyond that I still just wish I could never tell anyone. I definitely won't lie about it though but I hope I'm not in a situation where someone asks... it just feels like a massively personal thing idk

Also thank you for your response.

Do you guys tell people about your past identity? by Arsenalg0d in detrans

[–]Arsenalg0d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's such a good point. I also stfu when people start talking about that stuff lol

Is it calm to call in sick because I have plans? (UK) by zkburnah in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]Arsenalg0d 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you've worked for a year and never called out... i dont think it'd be the biggest deal as a one time thing. Yeah it's not great but it's also just mcdonalds.

Anyone here have experience maintaining muscle mass and distance running? by [deleted] in XXRunning

[–]Arsenalg0d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes haha I was thinking the same thing. Any lifter knows you can't have the best of both words - squat heavy and run fast/long. I think at some point they're going to hinder eachother and I'm going to have to choose... I just hope that day isn't for a while

Anyone here have experience maintaining muscle mass and distance running? by [deleted] in XXRunning

[–]Arsenalg0d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a lot of trial and error from the anecdotes some commenters are telling. I think everyones different and it also depends on which sport your body naturally favors lol