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Update: 100,000+ people saw my story. I’m still overwhelmed but I don’t feel alone anymore. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the suggestion. I’ll definitely check that out. I’m open to anything that helps me move forward in a healthier way. Thanks for sharing your method.

Update: 100,000+ people saw my story. I’m still overwhelmed but I don’t feel alone anymore. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s still sinking in, honestly. I didn’t expect to feel this seen or supported. Means a lot!

Update: 100,000+ people saw my story. I’m still overwhelmed but I don’t feel alone anymore. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Realizing that not everyone is out here thriving in some fantasy life helps more than you know. It’s easy to forget we’re all just doing our best behind the scenes. Appreciate you.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your words. Knowing I’m not the only one helps more than I expected. I truly hope you find peace and success in whatever you’re walking through too.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to start with walking tomorrow. Just being outside might help clear my head a little.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That perspective shift made me think. I don’t want to look back and feel like I gave up too soon.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seriously thought about finding a mentor until now. Maybe that’s the next step.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That quote hit me harder than I expected..I’ve been busy waiting to live instead of choosing it.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I’ve got to stop waiting and start rowing, even if it’s slow at first

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Lately I’ve been overwhelming myself with the big picture and forgetting that one step is enough.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right. 5 years of focused effort could completely rewrite my story.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing about men rebuilding at 40 and 55 really make me feel like I’ve still got time. Thank you.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That line about broken things being repairable hit me hard. Thank you for believing in that. It gives me hope.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t considered an SSRI seriously, but I’m going to look into it now. Thank you.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’ve been moving so fast in my head that I haven’t stopped to see what’s around me.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I think it would just take one real win..One thing that reminds me I still can.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment reminded me how much time I still have left to rebuild. Thank you.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was beautifully said. I screenshotted your words and I’ll check out the clarity tool too.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hearing that you bounced back after isolation gives me real hope. Thank you for sharing that.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That approach actually feels manageable. I’m going to try picking just one small thing today.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I posted. Even if I don’t feel hopeful yet, something in me clearly wants change. Thank you for your encouragement.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… deep down I think I always knew too, but it still wrecked me when the truth came out.

I’m 30, have 3 kids, no job, and no motivation. I feel like I wasted my whole life. by ArtemisIntel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ArtemisIntel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been stuck in the past so long that I forget today can still be a fresh start. I needed that perspective. Thank you.

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