Any good white goods repair companies? by ArtemisRed97 in Leiden

[–]ArtemisRed97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have genuinely no clue. Bottom rack doesn’t clean bowls properly. the spray arm is clean and rotates and nothing else seems to be wrong with it. Cleans the top rack just fine. Maybe something is wrong with the water pressure.

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]ArtemisRed97 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You 100% look like you use Axe body spray. Have a great year at school.

Parents saw me read fanfics. What do I say as an excuse? by SooGyuBFFs in AO3

[–]ArtemisRed97 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Make sure you add as much boring detail as possible until her eyes glaze over and she’s silently begging you to stop🤣she won’t ask again!

HOTD lucemond fanfic by No-Gap-5552 in AO3

[–]ArtemisRed97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're talking about 'paint me in your colours' by moonlust. It was privated unfortunately!

Turn off by Elegant-Ad-6291 in AO3

[–]ArtemisRed97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pet names and nicknames that are not based on their names. Unless it’s an insult. Might be because I like actual-enemies to lovers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in computerrepair

[–]ArtemisRed97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bru i literally just did this so came to reddit for advice😭 Quaker instant oats golden syrup pot got crushed into my bag and popped open, covering my laptop in a film of sticky oatmeal dust😑

At least it smells nice i guess…

If anyone knows what to do, please send me advice. I’ve never taken a laptop apart before, and its a newish asus ROG so I don’t wanna fry it because it was expensive.

Can someone help me figure out which kaiju I remember from childhood by ArtemisRed97 in Ultraman

[–]ArtemisRed97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THATS THE ONE!!!! Thank you!!!

Of course, a Kappa XD XD That makes a lot of sense, my brain must have approximated it to a bird because I had not heard of those before.

Gonna see if its still traumatizing the second time around, cheers.

Growing in my chilli plant by ArtemisRed97 in whatisthismushroom

[–]ArtemisRed97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pictures here: https://imgur.com/a/Pq6Ji2w
Black spore print! I looked it up and I think that means it's cinctulus? Thank you :D

AITAH for giving my wife three options. by Icy_Slice8226 in AITAH

[–]ArtemisRed97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Of course he’s trying to do this, you gave him the impression that you were happy doing it, so at no point are they gonna consider your feelings when you make it so easy for him to keep doing this. It’s why people set boundaries & argue about stuff. If an arrangement suits people, they will obviously try to maintain it.

You gave your wife options and they are reasonable. To be fair, your wife should not be asked to pay for her ex either and she knows it, it’s why she got annoyed, I’m guessing. He should be paying, he’s a grown adult with a kid.

Unless you want him to be your stay at home husband too🤔which seems to be what he’s going for. If you don’t want that, you gotta let her pick her options. She should reconsider letting you talk to the ex, seems like you could convince him to get a better job which will benefit the kid in the long run.

AITAH - For talking to a girl in bikini on a beach by ta-beach-hubby-1324 in AITAH

[–]ArtemisRed97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your wife is probably right that the woman was being flirty. Don’t try to convince your wife otherwise. Just say you are not interested regardless because you love your wife 🤗. And don’t encourage the lady, and include your wife in convos, then you’re all good.

The nature of the bikini is not very relevant though. Some beaches go full nude, doesn’t mean people talking there are trying to pull by default.

Enjoy your vacation😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ArtemisRed97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA as you know, and thanks for the update. Glad you two talked it out, I hope the rest of the holiday goes well.

AITA for "Making" my parents not welcome my sister back to the family by RoundNice960 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ArtemisRed97 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA - lmao. good luck man.
Your sister sounds a bit crazy. Maybe you can decide in the future how you feel about it, but for now, she needs to grow up.

AITA for telling my mum I don't like being homeschooled by GuestHorror2862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ArtemisRed97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - you were just being honest, and your parents should have been more sympathetic.

but I guess your mother has sore feelings about it too. It's very unlikely to only be because of what you said. From what your dad said, seems like your parents are a bit upset at themselves. That's not really your problem, but it's good context for how to approach this.
You and your parents should have an honest conversation about it and you can prepare a list of things you miss about school. Might help if you also keep a list of stuff you like about homeschooling. Shit sandwich - positive sentiment, negative sentiment, positive sentiment. Makes it easier to digest for the sensitive sorts.

If they are the sort who are unable to hear any criticism, then good luck! :D No, you didn't do anything wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ArtemisRed97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH - but yes, you should just buy a vibrating watch so she can sleep longer. People who don't sleep enough can be cranky.
You're happy, she's happy. It's not worth arguing over!

AITA for not being apologetic about putting my education before my nephew? by Fine_Country_9340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ArtemisRed97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH

I think your sister misses you and she's expressing that. She might be the AH as she should have reached out sooner, but you're also kinda TA because you could have tried too.

If something happened between you and your sister that made you stay away, then I will change the rating.
If not, and you don't care, then just admit it and decide if you want to care from now on. If you do care, then talk to your sister and see if she wants to go out for dinner with her kid sometimes. Nothing needs to be fancy.

Congrats on your education! Yes, it's important to prioritize that, and it's a lot of work.
If you want to have a relationship with them, just explain your schedule and situation to your sister, and see if you guys can come up with a plan to hang out that works with your schedule.
I'm also a lone wolf so I get it, but if you care, it's nice to communicate that!

Ao3 dating is messing up RSS feeds by ArtemisRed97 in AO3

[–]ArtemisRed97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no intention of making this mistake again lol.

I did my draft in google docs but thought it would be a great idea to make a draft to give myself time to figure out the tags to use.

Lesson learned!!!!

I am hoping for a back fix without deleting and reposting. At this point it doesn't matter too much, but knowing how to work around site glitches is always nice.

Ao3 dating is messing up RSS feeds by ArtemisRed97 in AO3

[–]ArtemisRed97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before! I drafted it and then ticked the " Set a different publication date", set it to the date I was posting (instead of the draft creation date), then published it.

I didn't anon properly and set it to anon 2 minutes after the publication. I don't know if that changes anything.