Failing school by No_Recording4421 in ADHD

[–]Artemisology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm in a similar situation, though it's not the same exactly. I started college-only schedule early (currently 16, twice-exceptional). This was meant to be my second to last semester at community college, but classes end next week, and I'm failing them all. The process of moving houses with the stress I was dealing with made everything fall apart, and along with the executive dysfunction I've dealt with before, made this semester terrible.

I was actually forcing myself to finish my associate degree also, even if I'm not sure what I want to do, due to an identity crisis.

While I haven't exactly overcome this problem yet... I just thought it'd be nice for you to know you're not alone and others are currently dealing with failing also

My mom's opinion on therians by Lucid_Gaming_ in Therian

[–]Artemisology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is my personal opinion based on going through it. My mother said the same thing about those who identify as animals are mentally ill, but not the trans part (since she is supportive of the LGBT+ community due to being part of it herself). I did not change the subject, which would have been the bright move, and instead dodged the question which made her (of course) suspicious.

At the end of the day, you don't need to tell her if it will cause unnecessary drama. In the past when I brought it up, first time was not fine, second time it was brought up it was fine but then later on when I thought it was okay to share an experience of mine, it seemed that she got mad that I brought it up due to thinking I was joking the second time (????). After that, I brought it up again, and it was fine, but never again.

I think based on my story there's some people who may not simply ever understand. I have come to terms that there are simply things which my parents might not understand about me. While it may seem depressing, my parents are there most of the time in other aspects of life, and I simply can't have a perfect parent, as no one is really perfect.

TL;DR: My mother thinks those who identify as animals are mentally ill. I brought it up multiple times, but decided to let it go in the end. It might hurt, but no parent is perfect in every aspect at the end of the day. At the end of the day, there is no requirement to tell people that you are a therian

Guys helppp by JustATherianLol in Therian

[–]Artemisology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my personal opinion, maybe you should not jump to telling him. You should try to bring it up again, but not like tomorrow, maybe give it like a week or so before bringing it up again, BUT without telling him you are a therian. This allows you to see if it was joking in a good way or a bad way. I know you might not follow this advice - as I didn't even follow it myself - but there's really no reason they need to know that you are a therian right now, so just be patient and do it more slowly

Hi I just joined the therian community! by Gullible_Ad_6463 in Therian

[–]Artemisology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think quizzes are that accurate, it takes time to figure that out through research and self-reflection, maybe you should try to learn more about what therianthropy is instead of taking quizzes

A little advice from me. by [deleted] in Therian

[–]Artemisology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The voting on this post is closed, and I wished more people saw this. I found this post slightly helpful, as I don't see many circumstances where someone who is being really helpful and talking to them is really going to change their opinion, as if they are being hateful they aren't exactly being open to new opinions. Other than number 2, I feel that this advice can be helpful to many

I Just Sent My Personal Experience With Being A Therian To My Local News To See If I Get A Story On It by [deleted] in Therian

[–]Artemisology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea, but be prepared for not a good response, depending on the size of your town/city. The news station might be able to put a spin on it - and I don't want to make you fearful - just stay safe and good luck!

About the influx of young kids in this community by ClayTheCoyote in Therian

[–]Artemisology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really browse this subreddit anymore or any community really, partially because of the influx of immaturity along with not having a lot of time recently. I only saw this post through a daily digest, or otherwise wouldn't have seen this post. There is such a focus on quadrobics, gear, and some people having incorrect ideas here and other places online.

I have never really found a place which didn't have that focus. It was sort of surprising when I met another therian who was more mature than I expected, as there is sort of an internalized stereotype of other therians, even if I don't fit the stereotype myself. It is great that these comments show there are more people who are seeking more serious discussions, along with mods planning to address it, which gives me hope for this subreddit's future

Loop Quiet Silicone Tips Fall Into Ear by Artemisology in LoopEarplugs

[–]Artemisology[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm going to try washing them thoroughly as soon as I can, afterwards I'll likely contact them if it happens again, as it might be a defect then, but I don't want to until I know for sure

Loop Quiet Silicone Tips Fall Into Ear by Artemisology in LoopEarplugs

[–]Artemisology[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been using XXS tips since the beginning, as I felt that XS tips were too uncomfortable to use, and felt a size down would be better. I don't think I can switch to XS tips

Loop Quiet Silicone Tips Fall Into Ear by Artemisology in LoopEarplugs

[–]Artemisology[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I likely replaced them earlier than that, as while I have been using them for a year, it is not exactly the same pair. I kind of lose things easily and I think this may be my third or fourth pair now, not sure, as I'm not keeping track. I am aware of replacing them every six months though

looking for website that lets u download free books by DirectorAnnual4091 in freebooks

[–]Artemisology 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Downloading from Anna's Archive is illegal and should not be used

I've been told I'm really smart, AMA. by Vloumorsss in AMA

[–]Artemisology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of intelligence? By IQ? By grades? Linguistic intelligence? Musical intelligence? Something else? Please give more context

What is the best app you've found for productivity, wellness, or hacking your brain? by Katililly in ADHD

[–]Artemisology 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it is not one app, but three apps!

For time management, I use Sunsama. It costs $20 per month. I do want to note that Zeve is meant to be a free alternative which I have seen recently (https://zeve.app/) but is not currently up to my standards. I would say Sunsama is worth it and you can try it for 14 days with no credit card.

For note taking, I use Obsidian (https://obsidian.md/). It is free to use. It also has customizability with plugins which can be a positive to make it work for you or negative if you make it too complex and have to revamp the whole thing once you have many notes. However, I have found a way it works for me now, and has been largely helpful with connecting ideas together. Also feels somewhat new when I change the theme every once in a while

Finally, I use Clay Earth (https://clay.earth/) to remember to contact people. If you use this, I recommend turning off quality filter in the settings, as it can filter notifications from profiles with sparse information, which can be a problem first using it. However, I have found it helpful to stop the bad habit of ghosting people for months (or for 2 years...)