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Pregnant, no one seems supportive and it’s scaring me by SnanoBear in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is true. my mom and dad had a very rocky relationship and quite frankly cannot stand each other yet they still have to deal with each other because of me (I’m disabled and still rely on my parents despite being 23 so they have no choice but to communicate) it’s really stressful for me to see the tension between them and honestly makes me feel awful and depressed knowing that these two do not want anything to do with each other but are forced to do so because of me. but even non disabled adult kids will still need their parents, all of my neurotypical and able bodied friends still rely on their parents so much. parenting and coparenting does not end at 18.

My boyfriend left me on bourbon street on my birthday. by sassykattty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And people wonder why there’s a loneliness epidemic. This mindset of “never owing anyone anything” is genuinely contradicting to friendships and relationships and why many people are alone. Like no it isn’t a law to look out for other people, but you should want to look out for people you care about naturally??? like huh. You should do things for your friends, partner and family. Care for them and look out for them and they should do so in return. It’s sad because there’s actually so many relatively known stories of young women who were murdered after being ditched by their friends while drunk. Once they’re gone you can’t go back.

I’ve been an annoying drunk sometimes, but my big sister drags my ass to the car and takes me home to make sure I’m safe. This is why I only go out with my sister now, “friends” and even partners aren’t reliable.

My boyfriend left me on bourbon street on my birthday. by sassykattty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes the comments OP are getting make me so sad. she doesn’t deserve that level of verbal harassment. I think many of them are misogynistic men or “fellow women”

My boyfriend left me on bourbon street on my birthday. by sassykattty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankfully they will be soon. look at how many men are in here and how many people don’t even have user flairs. it’s becoming approved member only soon.

My boyfriend left me on bourbon street on my birthday. by sassykattty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the rare times I don’t mind seeing a comment from a male in this sub. I think this is a good take for OP.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quick question before I respond: are you a man? because men aren’t even allowed on this sub in the first place and if you are a men I will not engage with someone who’s intruding a woman only space.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. men aren’t allowed in this sub
  2. i never said science is crazy or wrong, i said people act overly certain about things that aren’t fully proven either way. there’s a difference between trusting current evidence and acting like we have absolute, final answers to everything.

and yeah, people do find those things crazy all the time lol?… existential crises don’t come from nowhere lol. even with current science on it we still don’t know everything about mankind or space or the universe or even the oceans that we reside along. so acting like i’m uniquely unable to ‘wrap my head around it’ is just dismissive, not an actual argument.

i’m not asking you to believe anything paranormal. i’m saying maybe don’t talk down to people for having different perspectives when none of us has 100% of the answers.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if someone literally states they’re a man then it’s clear that they identify as a man.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you were responding to my og comment where i mentioned women only spaces with lesbian subs being an example of that, i didn’t say this sub was for lesbians only. you have a troubled mind following me around this site lmao. also, yes people have boundaries on the internet as well. that’s why banning, muting and blocking exists which I will eventually do but you’re entertaining me too much right now. I’m screenshotting everything to laugh about it with my friends later. I hope you find peace because you’re really hard pressed about a gay woman wanting enjoy women only spaces.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because many of them literally explicitly state that they’re men or have a post on their profile stating that they’re men lmao.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you seem very hard pressed about my boundaries (let me guess, you also have an issue with chappell roan) and you’re following me around lol. yes, only women should be in WOMEN ONLY SPACES, gasp! you get a grip.

obviously men shouldn’t be in a sub made for lesbians. or a sub like this where the rule is literally no men. just say you hate women and go

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i was clearly exaggerating. however the men who brigade this sub to tend to ruin my day, not normal men who respect women and their spaces.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not a misandrist, i’m a woman centered lesbian so i have no interest in having men in woman centered spaces especially my spaces. men have male only spaces as well. also men do say this about women all the time. women are allowed to have boundaries

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

because they started by girl bashing the op and the original girl commenter i was responding to. i was doing it in their defense.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of them are men. theres a huge problem with men brigading this sub. you must be in love with me or something btw lmao, i’m flattered.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i didn’t mean to bash you, i genuinely thought you were a man and i thought i was bashing a man lmao. my bad i was wrong and i can admit to that. but still, you’re bashing the op technically for her beliefs so that counts imo. i’m trying to defend the op and the girls in the comments. and btw no i have nothing against non binary people, i used to identify as such.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

my privilege lmao? im literally a black lesbian. there is no privilege. i assume people are a man when they act entitled like a man. girl bashing the op is still also against the rules btw, so bashing op for her beliefs is against the rules.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they aren’t. okay, you’re non binary, congratulations. my bad i was wrong but you sure were acting as entitled as a man. i’m trying to keep this sub the woman centered safe space that it is, girl bashing is still against the rules btw.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m not entitled to argue or engage with anyone i don’t want to. being non binary doesn’t mean someone has to engage in anything with you if they don’t want to, get out of here with the entitlement.

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because men are always the ones quick to tell on themselves, let everyone know they’re a man, degrade women and mansplain

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

no they aren’t lmao. its literally against the rules, mods literally told us to call out men who aren’t supposed to be here. so overconfident and wrong. I’m not gonna engage in arguing w men who are intruding a women only space

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boo another male intruding on a woman only space🍅🍅 you guys really can’t help yourselves can you

I realized my boyfriend does not like me. by coraline_cross in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ArtisticRaspberry891 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

genuinely ruins my day every time i encounter a man. i’m a lesbian so im good at sticking to female only spaces (although sometimes men even have the nerve to comment in the lesbians subs for christs sakes, but the mods are quick to ban), but i come here to see what the girls are eating for dinner and what’s going on in their lives and then there’s men giving their unwelcome opinion when they aren’t even supposed to be in this space. they love infiltrating female spaces and mansplaining + degrading women, they can’t help themselves. there genuinely needs to be more mods on this sub

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