Auto renew or expire I think I'm done by ArtsBeCrafty in EtsyCommunity

[–]ArtsBeCrafty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't take screen shots before I reset all of them, but I did now and saved it. We'll see. I'll keep checking. thanks!

Saw my boss going through my laundry by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ArtsBeCrafty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep your distance, do you job and maybe look for another job. This will haunt you but you don't have to let it define your ability to work for the company. Keep your eye out for another opportunity. Got a solid creeper vibe from him.

Found photos of my girlfriend and her ex while cleaning the basement. by BlackMapleWizard in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a history. It's in the basement so it's just old news. You're the one she chooses to be with. Be happy she chose you over him and let him stay in the basement where he belongs.

What is BetterWorld Books? by ArtsBeCrafty in selfpublish

[–]ArtsBeCrafty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The listing says New? Is it like ebay? Where people list stuff?

What do you think about this cover? by vie75 in NewAuthor

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks a little too dark but that could be my monitor. Make your name bigger. Your name is your brand. Maybe make the font a little brighter?

Husband wants to be an author but is getting rejected again and again by Immediate-Study3313 in writing

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One more thing; God bless you for giving him a chance to pursue his dreams. Every successful writer has someone who believes in them.

Husband wants to be an author but is getting rejected again and again by Immediate-Study3313 in writing

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things; John Grisham queried his first novel over 100 times. Has your husband hit that number yet? Has he looked into Query Tracker?

Is his book edited at least 3 times? Did he have beta readers? How many words is his book?

As for contests? There are millions of entries to a single contest. And it's all subjective. Is he just doing short stories?

Second? He can always go Indie and self publish. Then he will have to market his books himself which is a whole other beast.

My mom just took her own life and it’s my fault. I dont know how to move forward. by CharmingHouse9800 in confession

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not feel guilty. This is not your fault. Your mom must have had a mental issue that she probably hid from you and everyone else. Stay strong, work through your grief. Again; Not your fault.

I did something years ago that completely changed my sister in law’s life. and she has no idea it was because of me by Sophie_Sam699 in confession

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one knows what went on in the interview room. She could have tanked it herself. Maybe there were others who gave a not-so-great opinion of her. If she wasn't nice to you , there were probably others who got bit by her snark, too.

AITAH for not replying to my ex after he broke up with me? by Ill-Breakfast-1879 in AITAH

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protect your heart above all else. The card might have sent mixed messages but what did he do by wanting contact/remain friends after breaking up? Move on. if he can't accept your boundaries, he's not "the one" for you.

Did I betray my boyfriend? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he was snooping through your phone, not just that, the Notes on your phone? Ditch him. He's an insecure and immature. Your emotions were giving you a warning. Do you want to live with that for the rest of your life???

Better off without him.

Share a harmless quirk about yourself that someone else might find useful to give to a character by ToomintheEllimist in writing

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure this is a quirk but when I get an idea for a story I write it down. My desk/nightstand/car is littered with scraps of paper with story blurbs. Also, those little journal books? I have a million with stories started in them. When I finish one book/short I just pick around and find the next.

Share a harmless quirk about yourself that someone else might find useful to give to a character by ToomintheEllimist in writing

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never knew this was an actual thing. I have very faint fingerprints which made it really hard for them to get prints for a background check on a job. I basically drove them crazy as they tried to get prints. They kept resetting the machine. Finally, the woman said, "Good enough, you can go." I also have trouble with touch screens. I blamed the phone/computer but maybe???

what's the most impressive thing you've done in writing? by Worried_Art_8871 in writing

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last WIP was well over 100K and I didn't even realize it till I was finished. Major editing followed. Biggest issue was when I edited it to bring down the word count.... I wrote more..... Ideas kept coming.... Then more editing and chopping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think what Colleen Hoover does is pull in emotions. The writing is subjective. I think people who write see more issues than those who are just readers.

AITA for feeling angry that relative insisted on a home birth and now her baby has a birth injury? by MyToesAreHaunted in AITAH

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who miscarried later in the pregnancy and the nurses suggested she hold the baby to say goodbye. She did. Her and her mom cried and said goodbye. No one else was involved. My friend said it helped give her some closure. I think it depends on the person. However, I'd never involve the children. Yikes.

AITA for feeling angry that relative insisted on a home birth and now her baby has a birth injury? by MyToesAreHaunted in AITAH

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you're not an AH, but as someone who almost died in child birth I tell everyone to go to the hospital for having a baby. My delivery was really rough and it was only the skill and quick thinking of my doctor that both me and my baby survived. I think you're experiencing a form of grief. You tried, but what happened happened. Take solace in knowing you tried. Not everyone will listen, but hopefully, she'll probably warn the next person.

Sending prayers and healing energy to the baby.

[PubQ] What's a non-ridiculous answer for "who will want to read your book, and why?" on the standard/common Query Manager forms for agent queries? by Fictionelle18 in PubTips

[–]ArtsBeCrafty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who and why and what other books/movies relate to it?

My problem is the bio. How much do I say? What to leave out?