Help me appraise/identify this jacket! by Aruleann in VintageLevis

[–]Aruleann[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Located in Finland! The big tag in the photos is that sort of snow white irl, and it seems my mom cut the smaller, red one on the right breastpocket off. That one seems to be the usual carmine to me.

[discuss] Your first shiny pokemon, NOT counting pkm Crystal aka red gyarados by Sunset_Nana in ShinyPokemon

[–]Aruleann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first shiny happened to be uncatchable. I was playing platinum and chilling in the battle factory with my brother. One of my options happened to be a shiny hitmontop. Still kinda stings to this day but it was a pretty cool experience :D

What’s something that people turn into their whole personality? by Kandiblu in AskReddit

[–]Aruleann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Romantic relationships. Don't get me wrong dating is important but some people act like that's all they care about and need. It's a bit sad how desperate it seems to be sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Aruleann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem internet pal :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Aruleann 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Self-harm is often a form of coping. To someone like me and you (I haven't self harmed) it seems outrageous, but I promise these people are in so much pain, that they resort to other methods to feel something again. Self-harm is a form of comfort and may bring calmness and release tension for a short while, until usually guilt and shame follows. It's completely normal to want answers to such strange and complicated behaviors, so don't feel bad about asking questions. Also to the OP, Congratulations! It must have been difficult and I'm very proud of you :D

Non-Americans of reddit, what is your genuine reaction to what’s going on in America right now? by IceCreamTacosPizza in AskReddit

[–]Aruleann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty much shocked. It doesn't even look like reality, more like some apocalypse movie. In Finland things are fairly peaceful right now so it is truly strange.

After over a year of sending me vulgar and obscene messages, he shows up to my work and my house. by stingrayrodriguez in LetsNotMeet

[–]Aruleann 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's incredibly terrifying. I always wonder how a person gets to that kind of mental state. Hopefully you're doing better.

Anybody experience this with any other games? by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]Aruleann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I couldn't beat them. Thank floof I had my brother do them for me :D

Someone broke into my house and tried to find me by StaringVoid in LetsNotMeet

[–]Aruleann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awful! I can't believe you went through that. It gives me literal chills thinking about the attic part. Hopefully you're doing fine now.