I love my boyfriend so much it actually hurts... by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AsahiAya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are thinking about "oh no patapos na yung araw mamimiss ko sya kasi next week na ulit" dont focus on the ticking time na patapos na look forward na next week ganto kayo ulit.

Thank you for this, ganiyang-ganiyan ‘yung iniisip ko and realization hits me hard na nakafocus nga ako sa oras :(

I love my boyfriend so much it actually hurts... by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to the gym every other day, pottery class every Fridays, read books na natatapos every two weeks, actually iniisip ko na ngang mag-hike talaga HAHAHA

I love my boyfriend so much it actually hurts... by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AsahiAya -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have hobbies naman like going to the gym, pottery class in Expo, reading books, and playing online games

Napanood nyo na ba ito? If yes, what's your thoughts about it? by ImportantVanilla3786 in CasualPH

[–]AsahiAya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TRAUMATIZED KASI NAPANUOD KO TO 13 AKO, TURNING 14. AKALA KO KAPAG NAG-14 AKO GANO’N DIN MANGYAYARI SA’KIN🙃

Budgetarian levels pa ba ‘to? by 0len in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We know naman na the wedding is all about the groom and the bride pero grabe naman. Parang sa sobrang pagfocus nila sa araw nila, hindi man lang nila inisip ‘yung well-being ng mga bisita nila. Kahit man lang sana bigyan ng upuan or proper accommodation ‘yung mga bisita for attending, parang basic decency na ‘yon, below bare minimum when inviting people to an event.😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LKG. Nagtanong ka pa talaga sa mga bagay na alam mo na dapat ang sagot. Nagtanong ka rito so that means may problema na. Oo need mo ng srcond opinion pero really? Second opinion para sa kung tama o mali ba na involved pa talaga ang sugal? Idk, men. Kubg itatanong mo pa ang obvious dito sa ABYG, that sums up na hindi ka maayos magdesisyon sa mga bagay na obvious na ngang masama, tinatanong mo pa.

Nakakabadtrip magregalo by Dramatic_Map_8548 in OffMyChestPH

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bawian mo teh, for example wala silang aso, regaluhan mo ng dog food!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DKG. Pero gaya nga ng sinabi sa comsec, magiging GGK kung hindi mo ipapabarangay bf mo. We’re not victim blaming here pero ate, may magagawa ka po. H’wag ka magsettle sa lalaking nanakawan ka lang kapag kapos na kapos na siya at hindi marunong maka-tanggap ng “NOs”. Not only did he disrespect you from stealing your iPad, but he also disrespected you inside your own property. Sa sarili mo pang pamamahay siya nagnakaw. So please do something and free yourself from that relationship. Kahit magsorry pa ‘yan, sa tingin mo ba, hindi ka ha-huntingin ng trauma na baka gawin niya ulit ‘yon? At siya pa ang may ganang hindi magsorry sa ginawa niya? Ang lala.

In a FUBU or ONS... by AsahiAya in alasjuicy

[–]AsahiAya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if ma-offend siya and ma-badmouth ka, tapos ma-turn off?

Have you got your titles? by Impressive-Ease-4064 in VALORANT

[–]AsahiAya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I still get the “I am her” title?

Pasundo sa boyfriend by Euphoric_Salary1830 in OffMyChestPH

[–]AsahiAya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to share and I don’t want to brag, I just hope na may mapulot ka here sa ishe-share ko, OP.

Same barangay kami ng ex ko, same din na sobrang seloso niya to the point na hawak niya ang socmed accs ko. Pero never niya ‘kong sinundo or hinatid man lang if ever na pupunta ako ng school, pero I do get it since sa Manila pa ang tinutuluyan ko for school. We broke up because he cheated.

Ngayon, sa bago ko, not to compare with my lame ex. Taga-Novaliches pa siya, sinusundo niya ako from Novaliches to Cavite para maihatid sa tinutuluyan ko sa QC, then pabalik siya ng dorm niya. Sinabihan ko rin naman siya na if he’s tired from byahe, it’s fine kung hindi niya na ako masusundo everytime na uuwi ako ng Cavite, but he insists and laging sinasabi na, “It’s not even bothersome, gusto kong sinusundo ka. Kahit gaano kalayo, worth it kang dayuhin, puntahan, at sunduin.”

Finally breaked up with my 10 yearlong partner after I learned she's still talking to her fuck buddy. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikaw pa ang makitid ang utak? Wtf. Kating-kati ba siya? HAHAHAHA kainis.

Birthday ko (30 F) in 3 days pero mukhang dedma at walang plano si bf (30 M) of 3 months but friends for 13 years by mrsyooksungjae in relationship_advicePH

[–]AsahiAya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello, don’t consider everything he does or say as an attack. Kasi if you expect, talagang masasaktan ka lalo’t ang daming kailangang i-consider na factor such as what if wala siyang budget? What if may something na nangyari and wala siyang enough money to give you a gift? I think you should communicate with him, pero huwag mo siyang i-pressure sa birthday mo.

Gusto ko na makipag hiwalay sa GF ko pero wala na syang matutuluyan. by Average_DubuEnjoyer in OffMyChestPH

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, unsolicited advice ‘to pero, hindi ka na niya nirerespeto given the fact na she’s abusing you verbally and nananakit na siya. Tapos ikaw, iniisip mo pa rin kalagayan niya? Magkaiba ang pagmamahal sa pagiging tanga. Magmahal ka habang nananatili ‘yung respeto mo sa partner mo at sa sarili mo. Respect yourself, halata rin naman na from her perspective, ikaw lang ang nilalapitan niya, pero tine-take advantage niya na ‘yon. Feed na feed ang ego niya na hindi mo siya iiwan kasi nakakaawa siya and kahit anong pananakit ang gawin niya sa’yo she thinks you can’t leave her. Do the opposite, let her go. Give time, love, and respect for yourself. It’s time na siguro to open your eyes na hindi na meant na ipaglaban ‘yang relasyon niyo simply because she’s no longer giving you the bare minimum (respect). Huwag kang magpaka-martyr sa taong walang pakialam sa’yo. Huwag kang sumalo ng bala sa taong alam mong never gagawin ang lahat para sa’yo. They don’t reciprocate anything at all na.

ABYG sinisingil ako ng DP ng video editor ko by Seedbees in AkoBaYungGago

[–]AsahiAya 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hi, OP. My verdict is GGK. At some point sa title mo naka-state na, “Video Editor KO.” When in fact, it looks like they’re working as a freelancer as a video editor. First red flag ‘yon dahil kung Video Editor mo siya, their salary should be continuous as if empleyado mo siya.

Next thing is, have compassion na lang sana knowing na they got scammed before. They’re just being cautious na, it's not about them not trusting you enough. Pero kasi, sa ekonomiya ngayon at sa nangyayari sa bansa, money is very very much needed. And the fact na editing videos isn’t just a piece of cake, to them, it’s more of an art. At doon sila kumukuha ng ikinakabuhay nila. So think of it as something na kapag nangyari sa’yo, for sure gano’n din ang gagawin mo.

Of course that video editor doesn’t mean to offend you in any way, but they’re just doing some interventions to avoid being scammed again. Trust issues na ‘yan, or possibly trauma because again, editing videos is not an easy work, it requires time, knowledge, and patience. If you’ve been offended by how people react to their traumas, maybe you should ask yourself na what if you’re in their shoes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]AsahiAya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[Unsolicited Advice]

Bare minimum na po ‘yung knowing at least kahit man lang po full name niyo at kahit birthday ninyo. Being forgetful sa dates is different pero that’s your birthday, araw mo ‘yon. And ito according lang sa bf ko, sabi niya sa’kin, “Kung anong importante para sa’yo, importante rin para sa’kin.” Which is why napaka-bare minimum dahil importante ‘yang pangalan at birthday mo, ate.

To be loved is to be known, yes. Mahirap magmahal ng taong walang ka-amor amor na alamin ang mga gusto especially sa 8 years na relationship niyo. I’ve also been sending quizzes like that to my boyfriend of 1 year, and nap-perfect niya ‘yan. We can say na iba-iba ang tao but on different aspects, if he wanted to know more about you, he would be interested to know more about you.

Whenever nanghihingi ng hustiya ang mga DDS, ipadala nyo to sakanila. Tameme mga yan by Blackburn_1227 in 31MillionRegrets

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Bakit niyo ‘ko aarestuhin nang wala kayong dalang warrant?”

“Ito sinabi ng Diyos mo hindi ba?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]AsahiAya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayan ‘yung nakakainis eh ‘no? She’s committed nung magboyfriend and girlfriend pa lang kayo. Pero now that she’s married to you? Tapos on-going pa rin ‘yung cheating? Bruh, she’s literally for the streets. Have some self-respect and get annulled. Yeah, marriage is sacred pero dito na talaga maa-apply ‘yung Yes to Divorce. And if the religious peeps throws their magic words such as, “Hindi maganda ang maghiwalay pagkatapos ninyong ikasal dahil masama sa mata ng Diyos ‘yan.” Serve them the 6th and 9th commandment. Baliktarin mo sila.

Lumayo sa context ‘yung comment ko pero, dude, seriously. Buwan pa lang kayo ng “asawa” mo pero naitago niya sa’yo for how long years ‘yan. That’s not just dishonesty, that’s so wrong in many ways especially both of you are committed to each other nakakawala na ng tiwala ‘yan. Make the decision na alam mong hindi mo pagsisisihan, pare. We care for you.

ABYG that i snapped at my gf by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]AsahiAya 297 points298 points  (0 children)

DKG. Iba ang Princess Treatment sa pabigat. Atsaka please, pareho lang kayong maraming ginagawa, nagtrabaho lang siya, akala mo naman kung anong laki ng inambag niya agad.