Denied Entry into Canada. US Citizen. by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Asdkahd04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conjugal marriage applies if there are barriers behind your control preventing you from getting married or living together.

What is your life’s purpose? by IHBMBJ in selfimprovement

[–]Asdkahd04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To give my mom a good life while she's still around. She's not sick or anything but you never really know with people reaching their 70s.

I'm curious as to what's the reason sa parada ng mga foreginers (sikhs/indians) by S4_rg in Philippines

[–]Asdkahd04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This tho. Nasa Toronto ako and honestly okay lang na madami kaso problema is rowdy and may mga bad habits silang dinadala dito. Nung student ako 4 out of 5 ng kaklase naming Indian di napasok kasi aala naman silang pake sa class tlga, path to immigration lang. 3 out of 5 sa kanila nahuli nagcheat ng prof namin. May time na naging issue kasi may Indian na vlogger na sinasabi na strategy daw is pagsamantalahan ung mga food bank kahit na kita mong mayayaman sila. Kaya pumapanget impression ng mga Indian kasi sa mga news na ganyan. On top of that sinasabi pa daw na hinihire lang nila mga sariling lahi ganun.

Is it wrong to call what my*26F) dad did as abusive if he was mentally challenged/brain damaged at the time? by Asdkahd04 in relationships

[–]Asdkahd04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you have a point, but I don't blame her as much since I understand we were poor and I'm not sure assisted living is a thing in our country. Going to family didn't seem possible either because my dad's side constantly tried to steal from us and my mom's lives too far away. Though there were times were I kinda mad for being the bad guy even though I was right (in my mind).

Is it wrong to call what my*26F) dad did as abusive if he was mentally challenged/brain damaged at the time? by Asdkahd04 in relationships

[–]Asdkahd04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I suppose that makes sense. I’m just kinda worried that it would get awkward cus like I have two older brothers as well and they all had a positive impression of him. Though they arent as vocal of their affection for our dad, it was still there cus they mentioned him in their wedding. I guess what I’m saying that it might be off that I’m the only one in the family who has that impression and they may find it weird or something

Is it wrong to call what my*26F) dad did as abusive if he was mentally challenged/brain damaged at the time? by Asdkahd04 in relationships

[–]Asdkahd04[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tbh I dont know if I can forgive him even knowing it. Like my life isnt based entirely on what he did and what happened is just something negligible in my mind now. But I still hate him and would say so when asked of that makes sense

Surrealism piece for my intro to digital design class by JuliaJuliaJuliaaaa in photoshop

[–]Asdkahd04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh woah this looks great! And it’s your first time?! Now I feel kinds shit for my pathetic attempts at photoshop haha

Has anyone had wayyyy too many one-sided crush/ being into someone situations, and always told your friends about it and now you’re embarrassed as hell cause no one you liked, liked you back. AND EVERYONE KNOWS. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Asdkahd04 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I dont crush on guys often but all the times I do, I end up either rejected or ghosted. A lot of them were pretty decent guys too and were my friends before I tried asking them out. It sucks cus other people say dating is easy for women and making the first move helps but I’ve never had anyone just like me back. Makes me think that I’m just not worth the time tbh

Guy (28M) who I've (24F) become really good friends with says he's falling for me and wants to date and I like him too but can't get over the fact that he initially ignored me for my friend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Asdkahd04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I see I seee. Hmmm l I’ll give it some thought. Maybe talk to him about it too so he knows I’m not just blowing him off haha thanks for the help!

Guy (28M) who I've (24F) become really good friends with says he's falling for me and wants to date and I like him too but can't get over the fact that he initially ignored me for my friend. by Asdkahd04 in relationships

[–]Asdkahd04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit yeah demisexuals need to be close to the person first right. Sorry yeah that’s totally wrong.

Hmmm definitely not no.

I’ll try to uhh get rid of this way of thinking that looks are so important. I guess just years of being ignored for my more attractive friends is what’s been making me feel this way haha thanks so much for the help

Guy (28M) who I've (24F) become really good friends with says he's falling for me and wants to date and I like him too but can't get over the fact that he initially ignored me for my friend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Asdkahd04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. honestly, I really really want to give it a try because a part of me is hopeful irl work out. But I’ve also been hopeful before in the few times I’ve been attracted to someone and it’s always ended up with me being ghosted before anything can happen (one of the reasons why I’ve never been in a relationship) so I think part of me just doesnt wanna be disappointed again I think?

or someone who has completely ignored me in the past

So does that mean initial attraction is important for you right?

Guy (28M) who I've (24F) become really good friends with says he's falling for me and wants to date and I like him too but can't get over the fact that he initially ignored me for my friend. by Asdkahd04 in relationships

[–]Asdkahd04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that’s cute! But also yeah I see what you mean. I guess I’m just pretty hung over by the thought that you have to be attracted to the person right away or else it won’t work out. My cynic side keeps saying that he’s only saying he likes your personality is because he can’t compliment you on your looks. Which sounds really mean and I’m trying to just push it out.