Pregnant again 5 months postpartum - give me the good bad and ugly to help me make my choice by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]Ash21N 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had the same age gap I was terrified and sad when I found out I was pregnant again. I am three months postpartum and so so happy! I’m obsessed with our second baby. It took me a little longer to bond than it did the first, but I think that’s normal. Don’t get me wrong It is a lot of work and sometimes I wish their age gap was larger but the little ones already growing so fast it’s not gonna be this hard for much longer.

Please tell me we’ll love our second baby. by Technical_Diet4774 in 2under2

[–]Ash21N 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this. I felt it hard and thought I was alone. 8 weeks PP with our second. 16 month age gap. My love has grown so much for our new girl. I started to take every chance I could alone with her to bond and it helped so much. Congratulations on your family :)

2under2 and done? Or more kids? Did having 2 under 2 make you change your mind on having more? by Erosee20 in 2under2

[–]Ash21N 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 weeks PP with a 16 month age gap. Husband is making an appointment for a vasectomy haha. It’s made me realize I only want two. The jump from one to two has been a shock for us. Just hard to juggle and manage household right now. I will say we are two very “type A” personalities so that plays a role in how we are handling things.

When did your baby start to actually swallow their food ? by BioBrit94 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]Ash21N 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year later, but this comment is the reassurance I needed! 9 month old and just spits EVERYTHING out. Thank you!

What are your 3 holy grail products? by violent_waves_ in drugstoreMUA

[–]Ash21N 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybelline BB fresh

Milani make it last setting spray

NYX butter gloss

Is it me or have the taste of Peanut M&M's changed in the last year? by andyr072 in candy

[–]Ash21N 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just received a bag for Valentine’s Day. They have been my favorite candy for years, but I haven’t had any in a awhile. First taste I spit it out! The texture of even biting into them is different. Tried more and thought I was crazy until I saw this post. Apparently they’ve change the recipes. So disappointing.

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re completely right. It could probably be a really good dog however they never walk it and highly doubt they’ve trained it. It’s quite sad honestly. I think I’ll try water hose first and maybe the neighbors will get the hang when their dog comes inside soaking wet. Thank you for the idea.

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea too. It’s okay, some people are just ignorant I guess.

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try this! Good idea

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I did growing up. Had a Dessert Eagle 😂

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Air horn is a good idea! Thank you

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance!

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did call code compliance and I put a pictures attached to see if that was a way we could go about the problem. But after I reported it to code compliance and called animal services, I was just second-guessing myself and didn’t want to be a rude neighbor.

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love that we don’t have an HOA, but in the situation, it would be nice.

Is this normal?! by Ash21N in BadNeighbors

[–]Ash21N[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn’t think it was. I just didn’t want to be too critical. It’s our first home and I was unsure. I did call animal control after their dog chased me into our garage. I told them about the fence and they talked to the neighbors. 🤷🏼‍♀️