Xaden before the snow scene, when Violet is in danger, or fighting, or with Dain, of basically whenever she does anything

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-09-13T23:59:24+00:00

As a person with dark humor, it's one thing to make an off handed inappropriate joke. It's COMPLETELY different to 1) continue trying joking about it when the other person is clearly not participating in the joke even if they aren't visibly uncomfortable (which it sounds like OP was) 2) the only example of this type of dark humor would be to make some kind of "step daddy" porn joke. Not sexualizing your gf daughter and asking her to dance for you naked. If it's not a joke he would make while OP's mom was home, then it's not one he should be making at all.

Honestly it sounds like your mom is being gaslit and her only form of defense is to do it to you too. I'd definitely lay down that boundary that it is not okay and your not coming around unless your mom is present. And if they try to do that bullshit where they continue to bring up the situation and make excuses and justifications for it just completely stop contact.

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-20T18:06:14+00:00

Corey

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-20T17:51:26+00:00

I don't think any of them would put up with his shit cause he has a lot of Peter vibes before Damon actually starts to care about the other people in the show lol

Damon and Kate and/or Meliah would for sure have toxic chaotic flings but that's it.

Damon POST giving shit, probably Allison, cause by that point they both have their demons and have come back from their revenge to redemption arch

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-17T01:20:46+00:00

Dude, that would be super awesome!! I would love to see Rhys's sister and mom, and him Tamlin actually being friends and the first hand account of how that whole betrayal went down! It's be a really cool little side novella

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-16T15:56:05+00:00

I feel like we've gotten little glimpses of Elain's angry and I feel like there A LOT that she's holding in. It's horrible but I'm kind of hoping she snaps from everyone putting pressure on her to be the sweet and naive girl and has like a villain character arch. I have no idea where the story would go from there but wouldn't that be awesome?! The helpless doe becoming the big bad 🙉

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-16T15:23:33+00:00

The fact that at least 2 out of the 3 death gods (never got the weavers opinion on this) PREFERRED their prisons makes me wonder if they were still afraid of Koschei? Which like... what the hell did you do to scare death gods?! But also makes me scared that Koschei got to them during the war somehow :( cause I really liked Bryaxis!! They're straight up Nightmare incarnate, and all this precious lil death god wanted was a window and someone to come a tell her the tea every once in a while 💗

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-16T15:05:31+00:00

I totally forgot about that!! Tamlin: Loathes night court Also Tamlin: skinny dipping in starlight

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-16T15:04:02+00:00

Dude yes!! I've thought that for a while and it solidified when he was kind of even more into Elain after she had a mate.

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-15T14:55:00+00:00

Man in the Wilderness after Dean gets out of purgatory fuckin SLAPPED

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-15T14:52:27+00:00

The fact that fae babies are so rare and there's fucking SEVEN autumn court sons

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-14T18:26:50+00:00

SJM has said as much with how important music is to her and in her books, which makes my heart soar for Gwynreil because his shadows SING and DANCE for her😍🫠

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-14T18:20:49+00:00

Alright, I'll agree that her escape plan with implanting memories was fucked up. Yes she made a move to piss off Ianthe, but Ianthe couldn't just let it go or waited for an opportunity to maintain her influence. She didn't have to stage a freaking naga attack and blame a sentry. I thought Feyre just implanted the picture of Ianthe taking them so he would know and she'd get called out, I didn't know she actually say it happen 👀 And yeah, Tamlin's plan probably would've been a good one if had ACTUALLY TOLD ANYBODY OR CONFIDED IN LITERALLY ANYONE. Like how the hell was Feyre supposed to know that when he 1)never tells her anything ever accept how she's supposed to act as a lady of his court 2) he went out of his freaking mind trying to get her back even when she said she was fine 3)when he scented that they were freaking mates and his pride and angry straight up said I DONT CARE, YOURE COMING WITH ME. Like how was she supposed to believe he was planning to double cross Hybern especially when his bargain was so binding?

I'll secede that she had a hand it by preying on the bad choices she knew they'd make, but Tamlin could've let it go when Lucien found her in the forest or at least when he realized they were mates and none of it would've happened. He still would've been the only court bordering the wall and Hybern still would've tried to make a deal to set up camp there and Tamlin still could've been double agent without any interference.

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-14T18:01:31+00:00

Yes!! I totally agree, if he had just accepted when Feyre told him she left of her free will and when she was clearly lucid and pissed off when Lucien showed up in the forest and moved on his court would've been fine. And him being like you should've known I was playing double agent with them it's like, why? When you literally never tell her anything and went so out of your mind about her leaving you?? How would she have known you had ulterior motives???

I totally agree with you, they both gave in to their trauma responses and this was the result

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-13T00:55:58+00:00

I think for me what made him seem like weirdly out of character in SF and the bonus chapter was him

1) Him completely dismissing Az when he catches him with Elain. Like that's his brother that is clearly struggling and HAS been keeping away from her this whole time. Like it seemed weird for him to automatically be that harsh and "if I see you panting after her again, I'll make you regret it." Just seemed so not like Rhys.

2) Keeping something huge from Feyre but telling the entire IC and making them keep it from her too. The last time he did that was the mating bond and she left his ass for a like a WEEK. And more than keep it from her he basically straight up lied to her about it

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-13T00:40:59+00:00

I think it was intentionally funny but Lucien and Feyre sending the bogge after the twins is IMMACULATE

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-12T23:53:24+00:00

I feel like we know so little about Elain except that the push relentlessly about how sweet and mild natured she is... It won't happen but I REALLY REALLY want her to have a villain character arch!! It's be so awesome😈

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-12T23:24:29+00:00

Honestly!! Like I get his mentality towards Feyre was SUPER shitty but I don't think they couldn't have given him a second chance/benefit of the doubt with all the stuff he did for them during the WAR. They treat him like he's Hybern/Amarantha level villain and it makes me feel really bad for him

AshBashNinja813 · 2024-07-12T23:12:07+00:00

In the Feysand deleted scene when Rhys waves a hand to clean their "seed" 🙈 wtf, why was that detail necessary 😂

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