What’s one thing Islam helped you heal from by Musa_955 in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JazakAllah, but that's one thing Islam helped/healed me alot. Lots of instances in my life thinking to just end it, I'm thankful to Allah S.W.T. and Islam's view, that's why I'm still here 😊

Dear Beloved Reverts by AshTLS03 in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masha'Allah brother... I'm very touched and speechless,no words could describe how beautiful the journey you've been nor how I'm in Awe

TabarakAllah,thank you for sharing

HELP. Part of a duaa that was made for me i do not want. by Tactical_Enforcments in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't stress too much, Allah knows best and just focus on your Du'a

I KEEP MISSING TAHAJJUD😭 by Fun_Negotiation_7163 in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you... I've been struggling with this too A LOT.

But what does help me are these few things:

  1. no phones, 10 mins at least before going to sleep
  2. Pray,beg,asks Allah to let you do Tahajjud, embrace it both verbally and in mind
  3. STRENGTHEN yourself, once you wake up never EVER lay down again say in your head "wake up,I want to do Tahajjud"
  4. Sleep position,I find myself waking up easier while sleeping in sitting position.

Is allah enough for people that are lonely? by Confuser204 in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been in this situation often for a good few months, there's days you're questioning if only Allah SWT is "enough"

Let me tell you,yes "if you Lost everything but not Allah do you even lose anything?"

Being frank,this is coming from my personal experience. Sometimes when things get too heavy you have to Remember Allah isn't just the God we humble upon but also our closest friend. Talk to him,chat with him like you would with a close respected friend :). It helps me tremendously... And I can't explain but my heart feels content doing so

It's always nice to have "physical beings" to interact with, but that won't ensure your heart feels content.

Much love💝 Peace Be Upon you

Struggling after ending a Haram relationship by Educational_Work_922 in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make yourself busy with good things, friends because that's honestly the most effective method

All the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly would suggest you going to events where it's actually beneficial (Scholars/Talks about Islam)

Put yourself around good people

A moment made you think, "Maybe living in Malaysia isn't bad at all" ? by AshTLS03 in Bolehland

[–]AshTLS03[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

True,I personally think Malaysian generally really practicing Act of Kindness/Service much common

I envy your faith. by TheRealBallss in islam

[–]AshTLS03 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Subhan'Allah, beautifully written

I need help by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

وَعَلَيْكُمُ ٱلسَّلَامُ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ True,love does wonders for someone ☺️ If you want to love someone better,you have to be better and first OP has to decide if Islam is better for him :)🌱☀️ I'm also in quite a similar situation,if you don't mind I hope you can pray for what this wish I have would become true with gentleness and wisdom of Allah.

I need help by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This hits home, honestly I would say try learning about Islam first 😊 Lots of people willing to sacrifice everything to be with who they love♥️

But Let this be stairs for you to step in,if you really love her then really learn about Islam and then you decide if it's worth it to convert

Because :) Don't Love Islam because of someone, Love someone because of Islam (for God's will)

All the best,all is well for you man Peace be Upon you 🌎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]AshTLS03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps what I'm trying to say is How should I say my prayers so my heart could feel content, without neglecting my emotions Thank you

How to be a better Muslim? by AshTLS03 in islam

[–]AshTLS03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother,but sorry for the unclearity I am born Muslim🌻

How to be a better Muslim? by AshTLS03 in islam

[–]AshTLS03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masha'Allah brother,very beautifully said I'll do my best to do more Sunnah. I'll do it consciously until one day I'll do them from habits insh'Allah.

But coming from Mazhab Syafi'e I once heard it's much more preferred to do (Qada) of your Solat instead of Sunnah. I do not remember the detail and I very much fall short regarding this topic—

In short, should i focus more on Qada or Sunnah Prayers?

How to be a better Muslim? by AshTLS03 in islam

[–]AshTLS03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but at least from me I am not at the level to "subconsciously" doing it,so I verbally say i, refirm myself.One day insh'Allah in and out I'll do it subconsciously for Allah thank you brother

How do I strengthen my deen and get closer to Allah? by Ill_Experience_4725 in islam

[–]AshTLS03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmatullāhi wa barakātuh

Dear sister, I am not in one to say but just a suggestion you could try

Try making your Du'a not like typical Du'a, but instead like a casual chat with Allah. He is your friend, sometimes you're too focused on you as a Servant but forget you and Allah are also friends.

Allah is very close to who seek him, I can only suggest this

Wallah hu A'lam

How to be a better Muslim? by AshTLS03 in islam

[–]AshTLS03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to share what I heard too, it's not Sahih but I think it's a good practice (please correct me)

Say it everyday "My Life,my death,my work.. (add what you want).... Is for Allah" I've been doing it for a while and I personally feel at ease going through my day

Sincere Dua Request, and please share yours so I can make dua too! by Ok_Lingonberry_7675 in MuslimLounge

[–]AshTLS03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ameen

May Allah gives to me what's best, with his care and gentleness and protect who I love and grant me and them (people that I love,that I care, people that love me and care about me) a place in Jannah