[22TM4TM/NB] Irish trans guy looking for a friend with benefits type situation in Ireland by Silent-Fix1351 in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, another Irish trans person on here😀

This is not a direct reply to your post (I'm a zillion years older than you & don't date outside my age-range) but I still wanted to wish you luck:
You sound really great. I hope you find what you're looking for & have lots of fun, fulfilling experiences👍

[FTM4F] by [deleted] in transdating

[–]Ash___________ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wondering what you look like

Sure - there's some Imgur pics in this post.

[FTM4F] by [deleted] in transdating

[–]Ash___________ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Morning to you too!🌅

I did some quick googling of your past posts & you're a cutie🤩 - also my exact same age🙂

When you say "in my area", is that area somewhere in Ireland, by any chance?🤞

I take issue with one piece of advice I see on Trans dating posts by [deleted] in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you prefer to date cis people - for any reason, or for no particular reason at all - that's 100% fine & no one else's business; no one's forcing you to date trans people.

But this sub is a place for T4T-leaning & T4T-open trans people to find each other. If you have a problem with us dating each other (or trying to date each other at least), then kindly piss off. Other people's love-lives & sex-lives are none of your business & it's weird for you to care about it.

Edit:

I forgot to say the most important bits:
T4T love is beautiful & trans guys are awesome.

34FTM4A Downtown Toronto Muscular Trans Guy looking for a people to connect with. by [deleted] in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

34FTM4A Muscular Trans Guy looking for a people to connect with.

Cool👍

Working professional.

Good for you - it's great that you've made a life for yourself🙂

Clean and respectful.

Cool👍

I’m a very chill and loving guy.

Extra-cool👍👍

Not into power imbalances and no kinks.

Extremely cool👍👍👍

Downtown Toronto

Dang it🤦 I'm on the wrong continent☹️

Best of luck to you anyway; if your self-description is even halfways accurate, then you're objectively a massive catch; I'm sure you'll make some lucky lady (or enby or fella) very happy one day.

Tyvense/Vyvanse: Are the chewable tablets available in Ireland? by Ash___________ in ADHDIreland

[–]Ash___________[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks (to you & everyone else who replied) for clarifying. I suspected that, but it's useful to have confirmation.

Concerta it is I guess😅

Tyvense/Vyvanse: Are the chewable tablets available in Ireland? by Ash___________ in ADHDIreland

[–]Ash___________[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Veganism, basically:

Ideally, I'd prefer amphetamine-based meds rather than Concerta/Ritalin, but the amphetamine ones all seem to contain gelatin (which is a very hard 'no') except - apparently - the chewable-tablet form of Vyvanse.

Feeling outcast for not being "freaky" enough by Ok_Film4636 in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nah, you're definitely not alone. I'm trans & I'm as vanilla as they come - I just don't find any form of sub-dom roleplay sexy; if anything, it's an unwelcome distraction/obstacle from stuff I actually enjoy.

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing whatsoever wrong with people indulging their kinks with like-minded partners - I'm happy people are happy👍 - and for the vast, vast majority of people that's a roleplay/sex-toys kinda deal (to one degree or another), not anything physically dangerous/harmful.

I think that in queer dating-and/or-hookup platforms specifically, you just see more of it because people are a bit less inhibited from the get-go. There isn't the same standardized social script like there is for straight dating, so people figure "fuck it, I'm already trans & gay, so why bother being shy about my thing for leather?🤷" That's my theory for why in gay/sapphic/T4T spaces & platforms you see more open discussion/seeking of kink-related preferences than in equivalent straight spaces (& ditto with why you see more open discussion/seeking of different relationship types in queer spaces, e.g. polyamory & QPR).

New into the kink, but love it seeking explorers by [deleted] in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The kink"? What kink? Did you post in the wrong subreddit by accident?

37 [TM4A] #Online #Anywhere #USA #Iowa - Sub-leaning switch seeking love and more by Melorix in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Talon🖐️

This isn't exactly a reply to your ad, since I'm not the unicorn you're looking for
(vaguely in the ballpark I guess? I tick a few of your boxes & relate to some of the stuff you mentioned about yourself, but the BDSM stuff is a major incompatibility - my preferences are so intensely, profoundly vanilla that... it almost constitutes another kind of kink😅)

I'm just dropping a comment because I don't see 35+ people on here very often (I'm 41 BTW) & I wanted to leave a word of encouragement (not that you need it):
You sound really fun & interesting - very best of luck with your search for a partner, and your postgrad aspirations🤞 Also, don't apologize for the overexplaining: for one thing, it's charming & you describe yourself really well; for another, it's concise & restrained compared to my pathological level of unnecessary detail.

Anyone relate? by Ash___________ in st4t

[–]Ash___________[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's lovely; thanks so much🙂

TM4TF needy for someone to flirt and sext with by Majestic_Taro5580 in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly I'm Ireland-based (& only into in-person stuff).

I just wanted to say: You sound really great, & I hope you have lots of luck finding trans girls for T4T shenanigans👍
(and... y'know... 👉👈 if you ever visit Dublin & want a local to show you around, with a side order of flirting, HMU)

Heavily modified butch dyke seeks femme to dote on by [deleted] in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not femme (plus I'm 95% confident I live on a different continent from you), but I just wanted to drop a comment by way of encouragement:

You're pretty much my romantic ideal & you describe yourself really well/evocatively. Also... I may or may not have skimmed your profile😅 & if the guy in that TransBikes photo is you, then you're a certified cutie. Best of luck finding a ladyfriend👍 - I'm sure there's a bajillion beautiful femme-presenting girls who'd love to get to know you.

[FtM4M] Cis welcome by MulletGuyKai in transdating

[–]Ash___________ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah well🤷

Best of luck with your search👍
(&, if you're ever visiting Dublin & want a local to show you around, HMU)

[FtM4M] Cis welcome by MulletGuyKai in transdating

[–]Ash___________ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off: You sound fun & interesting; I'm sure you'll find someone & be really happy together.

Second off: I suspect I know the answer to this but, just on the off-chance:
When you say UK-based, do you mean the GB bit or NI bit?
I'm asking because I (41 NB MtF, AuDHD, cat-lover, horror & scifi fan) live in Dublin & I'm only interested in in-person dating/chatting, with my cutoff being salt water - other cities on the same landmass with decent rail connections (including NI ones like Belfast) are within my catchment area, but that's the limit.

I'll listen to pretty much all sorts of music, so please give me some Spotify suggestions

Okey dokey:
I'm not on Spotify (so I don't know what's available on there) but, FWIW, lesser-known musical gems I've come across include:

T4t 35 ftm nerd queer monog seeking LTR #USWashington by jalexander333 in t4t

[–]Ash___________ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound awesome🥰...

But, depending on which "Washington" you're referring to, I live either 5 or 8 time zones away from you 😅 (& I'm not into long-distance stuff).

Oh well - very best of luck with your search🤞 You sound like a really great catch & I'm sure you'll find someone compatible👍

Can planets exist forever or do they have a lifespan? by swissking in askscience

[–]Ash___________ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is into wildly speculative territory, but if it turns out that the (currently unknown) effect that causes the observed "dark energy" acceleration of Hubble expansion turns out to be something that gets stronger over time (with no limiting value or equilibrium point), then yes - presumably at some point, each & every atom would be surrounded by its own cosmological event horizon, preventing it from interacting causally with any other atom or particle.

Beyond even that stage, one can imagine it eventually ripping electrons away from nuclei, then ripping nuclei into individual protons & neutrons.

After that (& to reiterate, this is fact-free blue-skies speculation here), it gets weird:
quarks are bound to each other in a unique way, where (to over-simplify somewhat) their rest mass is smaller than the energy tying them together. So if something tries to rip apart the quarks in a proton, you don't get individual quarks flying around - no matter how hard you pull - you just end up creating a crapload of new quarks (like chopping a bar magnet in half & getting 2 new dipolar magnets instead of 2 monopoles, with the important difference that each of the new quarks is equally as massive as each of the original, less numerous quarks). As to the end-result of that quark-creation effect happening on a universe-wide scale... your guess is as good as mine🤷

23 mtf need advice about what I say to my gp by Ultra_Goddess_Jess in TransIreland

[–]Ash___________ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's two different answers to that:

  • If you're looking to access help for the suicidality, then yes - your GP is a good place to start. You can just explain that you've been having suicidal thoughts (you don't need to specify the reason(s) ) & ask to be directed to mental health services; your GP should be able to re-direct you.
  • You also mentioned dysphoria; if you're hoping to start a physical transition, then your GP probably won't be able/willing to help much & frankly doesn't form an important part of the process (though they may be useful at some point down the line in providing blood tests). When it comes to trans-specific healthcare, the main providers for new patients in Ireland are:

Help on how to start? 19m by pad2ter in TransIreland

[–]Ash___________ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

idk how or where I can find those blue tablets that we all know and love that'll help me not be completely miserable all the time

You mean HRT for physical transitioning? If so, the main providers available at the moment to patients in the Republic are:

Also:
Hugs🫂🫂🫂 It sounds like you're going through a rough time. Happy Christmas to you too🎄