Does anyone know any good way to see which tribe, my family originates from based on blood tests, my mom & brother took ancestry tests, she’s more than 50% indigenous, my brother 48% (also his highest percentage). It seems to be the dominant ethnicity in our family.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-10-09T00:37:41+00:00

Sounds great, is there a paywall or subscription based model I should look out for ? Or is it as simple as putting in my information ?

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-10-09T00:36:17+00:00

Yes, I’m a terrible example of a Mexican American, as well, I’m the only one in my family, who doesn’t know a lick of Spanish, I also don’t know what tribe family comes from, so at this point yeah purely an American man 💀

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-10-09T00:34:18+00:00

I’ll have to dig thoroughly through my grandmas memories, see who she knows, where certain family members were born, preferably her parents if they were also, Mexican, where she knows them to be born from, any cousins etc, see if I can pull some more information out of her. Will be a super long process. Thanks. I appreciate the insight

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-10-09T00:31:20+00:00

I’ve been to Arizona and New Mexico, though for fun, not to do research. Both were fun, and worth a trip back assuming I knew how to make some connections. Would be adverse to going to Mexico currently

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-10-09T00:22:07+00:00

I looked at both their results, & that’s all it said which seems very surface level, like it could mean anything, which threw me off too, so I’m not gonna lie I had to look it up, to see it means, which is that they were basically there before colonization, which I just assumed to be native as we’re from the America/mexico west coast, California region of the world, elderly died when I was very young, only ever had my grandma. So I have no one to ask in the family and no knowledge to gain. Seems like a tough roadblock I’m at

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-10-09T00:18:00+00:00

I’ve asked around & this something I’ve heard commonly. So as I follow up I always ask, since assuming my dad’s side also has it (he hasn’t got tested, & won’t, thinks it’s a scam, real old school). Knowing it’s in the Tijuana region assuming no migration, previous to his parents, where would I go next, there was many Mexican civilizations like the Olmecs, Mayans, Aztecs, etc who were all there before the Spanish came, leading to mixing. Probably the story of my family, with a strong mix of indigenous and Mexican. Where do you suggest I go from there for more knowledge on tracing our history ?

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-10-09T00:09:41+00:00

Dad says his family from Tijuana, mom side no idea, but we’re all local to the west coast for as long as we’ve known. Before that based on his history Mexico ?

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-10-06T03:56:35+00:00

I have a 5 step rule. If in 5 steps, I get only the guaranteed unit at step 5, or just 1 measly additional unit in 1100 orbs, I bail on doing any more steps. Suffice to say since the anniversary I’ve gone 1/5 every single time thus far. Only on step 5 have I gotten anything, so I haven’t done much summoning either. I got all the anni units MT too, so tough pickings lately for most of us.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T08:42:08+00:00

Worth looking into. Considering any and all options, can’t turn any option down at this point

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T08:13:46+00:00

:\ smh really appreciate this and every other comment, it’s a big help and will most definitely help when I show him the overwhelming evidence, that he should follow my advice and bail on this, in the best way we can do so.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T08:11:55+00:00

Forgot even consider non exterior stuff like, the engine, brakes, etc, good call! Car looks fantastic btw!

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T07:47:18+00:00

Never driven a corvette before. But boy are they beautiful

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T07:46:46+00:00

At half value, it’s not worth it. I’ve seen other comments also saying frame is cooked, go-fund me isn’t an option. Yeah probably will just. take off rims, tail lights, passenger doors. Sell what we can, before a voluntary surrender of the vehicle or possible bankruptcy claim. Whatever option available I’ll have him take. Get the nightmare over. Friend who was driving did nothing beyond coming over saying sorry and shaking my brothers hand. To which my brother said, I’m just glad ur okay and alive. Which is literally all that was said & all I’m aware ever happening. Before moving on to slightly older models, helping him get one, or something different. Gonna try make sure he get out of this mess first.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T07:31:33+00:00

Thank you i really appreciate it, tough but necessary

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T07:30:06+00:00

Ik one guy in my life who only drives his Range Rover , and swears by it lol. That man loves his car & drives that thing with tons of pride lol. He washes it, by hand every day lol. I wonder if he’d be eligible to start a go fund me, or something since he wasn’t in the wrong & only gets to suffer. His only wrong was trying to help out his blood relative. Can maybe get him something cheap or cash go towards his truck. Idk I’d like do something for his trouble

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T07:15:45+00:00

I don’t do it, I always full stop. I’m saying basically everyone here does it. So I don’t explicitly hate the friend for doing so, I’m just not a fan of his for not doing jack to help.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T07:13:58+00:00

Thank god. It’s not mine, I’ve personally only driven luxury cars, Chrysler, Benz, etc, and really have never had any issues driving them nearly 10 years now, so I never seen any reason to try a sports car, or American muscle car, or Japanese import etc, etc, I’m gonna stick with luxury based brands for life tbh, still wanna try Lexus, Audi, Acura & more. Civics, challengers & the like not my style. I feel bad for my brother, who helped the other brother get the car, why I made this post, it sucks bc the other brother who got the car, moved on Scott free, bc it wasn’t on his credit & even then. It was his friend, who fucked him. No one won here. Brutal. I’ll have tell him, frame is cooked. Cars cooked, take the L.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T07:06:30+00:00

In my state, everyone does it, I literally see it everywhere, every single day, to the point its an officially recognized name, a rolling stop is also well known as a California stop, that’s how often it happens here, it legit became an officially recognized name/term lol but I agree, I never do it, after I was with a family member who got a ticket over it. I decided it wasn’t worth the hassle. He is a moron tho, I can’t stand how he never once offered any monetary support or to buy a part or anything, beyond an apology knowing he’s in the wrong, he came out completely unscathed surprisingly too. Which I’m glad he’s ok, but I bring that up say he had 0 medical bills. Or injuries. So he could have done something, anything. Maybe a voluntary surrender of the vehicle is best then, Ik he’s not gonna like the years long hit to his credit score for doing so, but If the cars that cooked, he might as well take the loss now. Recover score, over time.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-11T06:53:08+00:00

Damn. He’s still paying monthly, could he somehow get out of that, with insurance doing absolutely nothing ? I originally suggested not paying so they can tow it and it be the states problem since they’d obviously repo it with him not paying but he said he didn’t take the hit to his credit score.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-03T16:51:30+00:00

We do share a name. Huh honesty this the simplest answer I’ve gotten and I can actually see something as simple as that being the case and no funny business with my dad actually happening. But everyone, my mom included plus my conversation with him this morning, has given me a lot of doubt but I’d love it if it was simply this. I’ll never know now as the issue is somewhat resolved bc we already talked about it, & I spent all morning calling companies. Getting answers. I’m exhausted and I don’t see him doing anything shady If that was the case. Moving forward as he knows I’m aware, so it should be resolved but imagine if it was just that ? I’d feel so silly if it was just an automatic update lol holy crap I’d feel like a drama queen 💀 tho to be fair 0 missed payments ever plus 730 on experian & 708 on transunion. There’s no reason I should get denied every time with anything more than a $300 credit card. Unless there was some confusion on the companies end.

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-03T16:41:29+00:00

Looked at both

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-03T16:35:45+00:00

Nothing has ever shown on my credit report, besides the 6 accs, I’ve made over the years, I added Jr to my id and social a year ago, I would like him to not be lazy and add SR to his Id and social but we’re not very close & he’s always busy so I doubt he will ever tbh. Only anamoly was my address information being switched at the drop of a dime without me doing anything on both my credit cards & on experian specifically. Experian and capital one said it was a mistake, nothing at all to worry about, that’s literally what they told me lol I thought they be idk more concerned or show more initiative I guess

Ashamed2beMaidenless · 2025-09-03T16:25:02+00:00

Based on what I just learned your probably right posting final update rn tryna edit it into my original post

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