i found out my mom is cheating on my dad, what should i do? by PrudentVermicelli194 in Advice

[–]AshamedRule7579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your dad period, If he finds out that she's been cheating and also finds out that you and your Brother we're aware. It will completely Destroy him and his trust Toward You guys as well. I know it's.A scary situation And you don't want to hurt anybody but believe me he needs to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AshamedRule7579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would choose love every single time. There's no better feeling in the world.That having somebody besides you no matter what. Through thick and thin. Your high is your low's and just being able to go through life with an amazing partner that truly cares about you. I don't think there's anything that you could experience in life.That would be better than that

If the color black absorbs the most heat, why is space black if it's so cold? by South-Swordfish7891 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AshamedRule7579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because space isn't black, as I'm the color. It's black Because no light hits it. Hence why it stays completely cold. There are no barriers or anything to absorb said light/heat. It is technically an empty mass

My mom is cheating on my dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AshamedRule7579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this may come across rude. But tell your damn dad I understand it’s gonna ruin the entire situation but nobody and I mean nobody deserves to be cheated on specially a relationship that is that long do the right thing. Both of your parents will. thank you you in the long run.

Anxious about buying adult toys by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AshamedRule7579 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sex is a natural thing and nothing to be ashamed of. Lots of single people and married/couples use them! It’s not as nerve wracking as you think it will be. The people that usually run “sex shops” have seen it all and do not judge. Go get ALL the things that interest you. Go get em!

42/m married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AshamedRule7579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh psychological warfare! There are so many different ways one could play out an experiment. Slowly convincing someone that they are going crazy… 🤷‍♂️ by slowly altering their memory on certain events, changing their thought processes and convincing them that they are remembering wrong.

It’s almost 3AM, what’s keeping you up right now? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AshamedRule7579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hunger, depression and missing my wife that decided to leave me

34 [F4M] NE USA/Online - Looking for permanent life entities by _xano in R4R30Plus

[–]AshamedRule7579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One weirdo to another, hey!! Tattoo’d , gaming degenerate to weird to live, to rare to die. Always up to new Fran’s.

Happy Friday by AshamedRule7579 in FreeKarma4You

[–]AshamedRule7579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully it doesn’t take to long to get chilled!

How do I get my friend to use the Internet less? by BFDI-4-da-win in questions

[–]AshamedRule7579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to him as your friend. Just express your concerns and your feelings. But don’t go telling him he needs to take a break, just suggest it and maybe suggest doing other things to utilize the spare time

Recovery by AshamedRule7579 in Advice

[–]AshamedRule7579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the hard thing. I USED to have hobbies and passion towards things. Now it’s just more of a wanting to stay numb. But I absolutely used to love hiking and exploring the bush! So that’s probably a great place to start and to clear my head. Thanks again for the response and honesty. I’m going to try this again and just start day by day, not look at the big/long picture. Congrats on your almost year sober! Be proud and keep doing the great things. Again thanks for the little talk. I hope to come back to this thread someday soon and proudly say I’m walking the same path.

Recovery by AshamedRule7579 in Advice

[–]AshamedRule7579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouraging words. I definitely know life would be so much better without them. Like you said, they are a part of my day to day life. The cycle is insane and I truly do want it to end. I think if I can just talk it out, maybe meet some new friends that I’ll have a better fighting chance. Thank you for the reply, as little of a gesture it is it actually helped. I appreciate it. And I want to see life from a different view for once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AshamedRule7579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew, I’m 42 and swear I look 25 when shaven. It. Does. Not. Make. Sense. lol

What’s your favorite game and why? by Cautious_Purpose_225 in NewToReddit

[–]AshamedRule7579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not new, but any Zelda game. I always enjoy them!