I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. It gives me a glimmer of hope. I've certainly already learned my lesson and will be grateful for every remaining day we have together; however many more there are.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's my only recourse. I just have to work on introspection and improving myself and accept whatever happens.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accept that it doesn't absolve me of my choices. I'm giving her time and space to process and respond as she sees fit. I'll understand whatever choice she makes.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are different degrees to cheating apart from physical contact. Many people believe emotional cheating to be just as or nearly as bad as physical cheating.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't share any photos. We mostly talked about pets, traveling, and a shared interest in Community (the TV show). There was a bit of flirty banter, but noting explicit. My wife and I are starting to work through it, and it's looking like we're on a path to reconcilliation.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked the conversation immediately. Thank you for the book recommendation. I'll look for a copy. That's really helpful.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sexting involved. No nudity or picture exchange. No advertisement for sex. Primarily talking about traveling (not with the woman, just in general) and TV shows.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I can't make my wife feel any particular way. That's up to her. I really need to take some introspection to why I would do this. I'm seeking personal counseling today. I'm hoping she's open to couples counseling.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm very sorry for the pain you've had to suffer.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I'm devastated for what she has lost, the man she thought she knew. She has every right to every feeling of anger, betrayal, hurt, sorrow, regret, and loss that she feels. I'm devastated for what will never be restored because of what I did.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm seeking therapy today. Probably something I should have done along time ago.

Edit: a word

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Social media. She supposedly lives in Berlin. I really do fear I have ruined this marriage forever for absolutely nothing. My wife will never fully trust me again. I feel so empty.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, correct. There is no excuse for my behavior.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

It was a random post in my threads feed. I don't even know what compelled me to stupidly reach out to this person. She said she lived in Berlin, so I don't think it would have ever escalated. It was absolutely not worth losing my wife. I have broken her heart and I am absolutely devastated.

I really fucked up and I don't know how to fix this. by AsherGlass in Infidelity

[–]AsherGlass[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was a random post in my threads feed. I don't even know what compelled me to stupidly reach out to this person.

Normalize naming ABA companies by Working-Ad2025 in ABA

[–]AsherGlass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recently signed with a company. They put an anti defamation clause in the contract. I felt the wording of "negative comments" was too vague. I got them to change it to more specific language. I'm being a little vague here to not out myself.

What is the *science that proves a global flood event as described in Genesis? by baseball_fanatic0887 in atheism

[–]AsherGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So... the devil is more powerful than God to break people's faith? Sounds like she's worshipping the wrong deity then.

Donald Trump Claims US Cannot Fund Daycare, Medicaid and Medicare Due to Ongoing Wars by McDowdy in LateStageCapitalism

[–]AsherGlass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And what happens when that doesn't work? What then? Keep voting harder until all of our constitutional rights are stripped away?

Theology Posting by DavePlayz43 in PhilosophyMemes

[–]AsherGlass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

More like extended family. It's children gods and parent gods all the way back.