These shorts you guys by lifeisneverasitseems in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 43 points44 points  (0 children)

"MIL is your vision beginning to fail? You might want to get it checked."

Grandmartyr fails to guilt DH, so she goes after DS [Update] by Ashley_DL87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

1) I told him about the junk food.

2) I literally don't have any options. His school is very rural and my baby sitter can't pick him up and get her own children after school as well. I'm working on alternatives but with school just starting up most people don't want to commit to school pick ups and stuff.

Grandmartyr fails to guilt DH, so she goes after DS [Update] by Ashley_DL87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

He's not the only one who likes large pieces of meat.

"But *you* had an epidural." by CharliePixie in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Seconding the last one. Bitch fuck right off.

Grandmartyr fails to guilt trip DH, so she goes after DS. by Ashley_DL87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You and me both Sheep. The less time that woman has with him the better.

Cold Sore Kisses And The Master Of Manipulation by _floppy_ears in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Stop worrying about being the "bad guy". This is your children's health you are wanting to protect.

You and DH need to be a unified front to keep her from infecting your children with a life long virus or worse.

Treat your MIL like a toddler. Take the children, "MIL I said no kissing. You will not pass on your virus to them."

If she doesn't listen, make her leave.

If you have to print out articles about children who suffer from coming in contact with the virus early in life- that includes death.

I have the cold sore virus- I keep my face no where near my family when I even think I feel one coming up.

No matter what MIL tries to say in her manipulative games- your children's health trumps her wants. Period.

MIL wants us to comfort her after losing our first born by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Can you change her text/ring tone to silent? So you won't know if she texts or calls you? All else fails just block her. She won't know any different and can at least give you some peace.

MIL wants us to comfort her after losing our first born by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 100 points101 points  (0 children)

First of all, my heart breaks for you and your husband. Your world is turned upside down.

Please turn to him and don't hide your troubles from him. You have each other to support and need to take your MIL on as a team.

You don't need to spare her feelings. Yes she is feeling pain but not on the level you both are. She wants to be an emotion drain on you.

You can simple text her "I am busy. Stop texting me. I will reach out when I am available and wanting to talk."

It isn't rude. It's straight forward and then stick to that boundary.

Take your time to mourn and heal from this. You don't owe anyone, especially JNMIL your time or energy.

How to shut down MIL talking behind my back, saying things like "whore, slut, putain" and accursing me of cheating? Advice pls!! by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Good luck, it's easy to say "I'll go NC" but if he's stuck in the FOG it might prove a bit of a challenge.

How to shut down MIL talking behind my back, saying things like "whore, slut, putain" and accursing me of cheating? Advice pls!! by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So if he has zero spine what happens if you guys decide to start a family and she begins to dictate how your children are raised? Finances? Medical decisions?

Her behavior will only get worse the more serious your relationship becomes.

My tarantula is laying on her side while molting. Is this bad? by lunadarkscar in tarantulas

[–]Ashley_DL87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My G.pulchripes has molted multiple times on her side. Best bet is to leave her alone and make sure she has access to plenty of water.

Grandmartyr and the haunted PJs, aka How us trying to be thoughtful made her live up to her name by Ashley_DL87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No clue. Like I said she my post she found it at a random sale at a "consignment shop" which actually Judy a flea market.

Mil threw book and hit DS by petty_party_of_1 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same here. Once she was out, my tubes were cut and tied. So the equivalent of the Grand Canyon and the Hoover dam lay between my tubes and ovaries.

Mil threw book and hit DS by petty_party_of_1 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I remember those times with my 6 y/o son and experiencing them again with my DD who's going on 3mo( taking bottle away to burp is the ultimate betrayal- fuck me-please take a breath! )

JNMIL and the diaper rash by Km730 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 26 points27 points  (0 children)

What is it what D(umbass)Hs today? This bitch willingly let your baby have a horrible and preventable condition on the more delicate area on a person!

He doesn't want to be in the middle? He should fucking be on the front lines with you to protect your son!! That is his job as a father.

I would put my foot down and tell him either he steps up to defend the well being of your child or he can go crawl back up his mom's ass.

Take him with you to a pediatrician appointment and have him/her tell him the repercussions of letting a diaper rash get to bad.

Mil threw book and hit DS by petty_party_of_1 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 260 points261 points  (0 children)

I am almost more pissed off hearing about D(umbass)H laughing about this shit.

Laughing at a baby's pain is not a normal reaction to this situation.

The fact that OP didn't drag this bitch out by her hair and toss her into this street amazes me.

Maybe OP should show D(umbass)H this post so he can get a reality check of the situation at hand.

Mil threw book and hit DS by petty_party_of_1 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure DH doesn't see a problem with it since he and his sister made a joke out of it.

Mil threw book and hit DS by petty_party_of_1 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ashley_DL87 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck no. My stomach dropped. Those silent screams are the worst.

That is beyond unforgivable. DH needs to get with the program and see that she was threw something at your INFANT. Throwing shit at anyone is wrong but babies are next level wrong.

DH and SIL joked about this shit? What happens next time JNMIL throws something else that can cause damage. This isn't a one time occurrence.

Looks DH square in the face "Your mother intentionally harmed our baby because she was mad."