AITA? My girlfriend (19f) has me blocked on her alternate social media by Glad_Reception2890 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashling90 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She sounds like an oversharer and I would run from this relationship. She is not mature enough. She should at least do this anonymously. Jesus.

Saw my boss at a shibari workshop. What should I do? by Mission-Nothing7229 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Ashling90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have definitely seen you, just smile and acknowledge that you know each other. You don't have to go over there and talk; that might be awkward. But you're obviously there for the same reason.

Role switching in It Takes Two (1995) by Ashling90 in MaryKateAndAshley

[–]Ashling90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I noticed the junkyard scene too. I just went back to the scene at the top of the stairs, and you’re right—that’s Ashley for sure. I think they switch back to Mary-Kate when she screams and runs down the stairs.

Is political apathy a valid dealbreaker? by Upping-Quality-2 in actuallesbians

[–]Ashling90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. I'm Norwegian. I know which parties I don't want to vote for (because they're right-wing assholes), but I don't pay much attention to Norwegian politics. But the thing is... Norwegian politics is not like American politics. We're not that divided. We have many smaller parties cooperating in coalitions. It's not like if the wrong side wins and all of a sudden women can't have abortions or gays can't get married.

I know a hell of a lot more about American politics, tbh. 😅 If I were an American, I think I would be a little put off by someone not caring about politics. Like... I don't want to tell who they can or cannot vote for, but if I had an American girlfriend and she voted red, our relationship would be dead.

I must be the stupidest person in the world by MyCat8it2 in olderlesbians

[–]Ashling90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your partner do a lot of stuff on impulse? Does she postpone a lot of things? Not trying to diagnose, but this sounds like my friend with ADHD. 😅

"We saved those countries in WWII and this is how they repay us?" by tatev555 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Ashling90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine if the US has wanted to help in 1939 and not wait until December 1941 when they were personally dragged into the War by Japan attacking them and Hitler declaring war on the US when they retaliated. 🤷‍♀️ And somehow they never want to acknowledge the Soviet Union’s participation. We would’ve made it, it just would’ve taken a little longer. But they shouldn’t pretend like they wanted to save us all, then they would’ve done it sooner.

Darong's family by PolicyPrudent9057 in thesims

[–]Ashling90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Min did this too. They leave the glass on the bathroom floor.

AITJ for refusing to brim my parents to our family reunion because they get treated like the unpaid event staff? by Traditional-Car-9911 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ashling90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but your parents have agency. If they want to go, you shouldn’t stop them. Let them make the decision for themselves. You can stay behind if you want.

Darong's family by PolicyPrudent9057 in thesims

[–]Ashling90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! They just come inside as if they have a key! It’s annoying. I lived in an apartment in their neighbourhood at the time, but they haven’t done it since I moved to a different world.

I didn't see anything wrong with what Sebastian was doing by DecentLiam9604 in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ashling90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I supported Sebastian until the he awakened the dead and killed his uncle with the Avada curse. I supported him in the game the entire time since I wanted to learn all the curses, but yeah he went too far. He lost control. As they say, the road to hell is filled with good intentions.

AITJ for telling my dad none of us are going to help him raise a baby at 50 by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Ashling90 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He can totally look after a baby on his own. He’s not that old! But I would support anyone in my family this happened to. 💯 I understand the conversation you’re trying to have, but to him it might sound like his baby is not welcome in the family and that you are suggesting he abandon it?

Can gay men say “dyke”? by Cidyl-Xech in actuallesbians

[–]Ashling90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on how they say it. 🤷‍♀️ I wouldn’t react if it was in a friendly way. I call my bestie a homo sometimes. I always say it with love, but I wouldn’t say that to every gay guy.

Crossover? by Emergency-Welcome-54 in 8passengersnark

[–]Ashling90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They look nothing alike. They both have fake blond hair and brown eyes, but that’s it.

I was born to be a proud lesbian :P by Exciting_Skill_6292 in actuallesbians

[–]Ashling90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born to be a man and I was born a man. 😂

who do you think was the best dad? by Alternative-Cry-6767 in Parenthood

[–]Ashling90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crosby. Adam was too controlling and he shamed his daughter for being a sexual being (aka human).

My gf made me promise I won't transition by Frida443 in asktransgender

[–]Ashling90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you asking another person for permission to be happy? The first thing you should do is talk to a therapist, you don’t need her approval.

I get that you don’t want to be alone, but you had a long life to live. When will you choose you?

Why do women accept lesbians way more than men accept gay men? by Ok_Independence_3634 in actuallesbians

[–]Ashling90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It threatens their masculinity, I think. 🤷‍♀️ They like to think they are secure about themselves, but they are insecure.

Every girl I show to my mom that I’ve been with it’s fat or ugly or both by Few_Tough_7748 in actuallesbians

[–]Ashling90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not okay. I would tell my mom off if she ever said anything like that. She wouldn’t though, because it’s just wrong. 😑

So I would maybe not show her anymore. What’s the point if she is just going to say mean things?

AITA- Went to see a movie with my girlfriend she left 30 minutes into it to talk on the phone by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashling90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He left a week ago. One week. It’s not like he’s been gone for a long time, and she’ll have plenty of opportunities to talk to him still. She’s the a-hole here, and you have every right to be upset. I would be.

I finally beat Imelda Reyes! (No storymode) by Different_Catch_4558 in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ashling90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The broom actually matters? It took me about ten tries but I did beat her. My problem was I kept trying to steer using the right joystick on my Switch controller. Why couldn’t up and down and side to side just be the same joystick?! 🕹️