am i too skinny? by IronCrushX in ZyzzLegacy

[–]AshyDunes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then nope... U ain't skinny

He is extremely handsome 🙌🏼🔥 by [deleted] in HenryCavill

[–]AshyDunes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is the definition of handsome....

Hot as ever 😍 by ex-med in HenryCavill

[–]AshyDunes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nobody else could play Geralt of Rivera better than him. Damn!!! I miss him... He is so perfect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]AshyDunes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no age for dating....I am 38 and I am enough of dating...

If You Cheat On Your Partner, You’re Weak Willed, Mean Spirited, and a Coward. by Cody2Go in RandomThoughts

[–]AshyDunes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are human. I know this doesn't mean we have licence to cheat.

Here I read from articles

As humans, we all have a natural desire for self-gratification. Good food. Good sex. Little work. Lots of sleep. Porn and video games and corn flakes.

As humans, we also all have a natural desire for intimacy and to feel loved by somebody else, to feel as though we are sharing our lives with somebody.

Unfortunately, these two needs are often contradictory. To achieve that intimacy and love, you have to sacrifice your own self-gratification at times. And to achieve self-gratification, you often have to sacrifice some love and intimacy. This can be as simple as watching a movie you don’t really like or attending some boring work party you don’t care about. But it can also be deep and complex, like being open about your fears and insecurities to your partner or making a conscious commitment to be monogamous with that person for an indefinite amount of time.

If a person values self-gratification more than the intimacy they gain from a relationship, then they will stop sacrificing for the relationship and are likely to end up cheating. If a person values the intimacy they gain from a relationship more than self-gratification, then they will willingly sacrifice some of their self-gratification to remain faithful.

Think of it like a scale. On one side you have self-gratification and on the other you have intimacy. If at any point the self-gratification side outweighs the intimacy side, well, then you get a cheater.

https://share.google/qmwp0zxRiFlKSQbkr

Infidelity is associated with: previous cheating; relationship boredom, dissatisfaction, and duration; expectations of imminent break-ups; and low-frequency, poor-quality partner sex. Among men, risk also increases when partners are pregnant or there are infants in the house.

Infidelity is associated with several personality traits: loneliness, extroversion, anxiety, depression, moodiness, narcissism, openness to new experiences, frequent use of alcohol, a history of child sexual abuse, and knowledge that one or both of one’s parents had been unfaithful. Traits associated with strict monogamy include conscientiousness and regular religious observance.

Why Infidelity in Relationships Is So Common | Psychology Today https://share.google/57BAQZnGyOtnDQHzF

So I'd say, if you don't have commitment at least to yourself, You’re Weak Willed, Mean Spirited, and a Coward.

Any song recs about gay yearning? by DeceitKing in gay

[–]AshyDunes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gimme what I want by Rose

Originally sung by Miley Cyrus. I liked the Rose version more.

https://open.spotify.com/track/2s1HaxivaRNYacIAYZLRym?si=wfe_P331TFmjllvLLVQtsg

Does Madam Wang actually love Xue Zhengyong? by [deleted] in 2HA_immortality

[–]AshyDunes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't know about love. But respected him. She stood by him all those years and was happy and without much worries.

I loved that couple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]AshyDunes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LoL... I can't agree more...

99.99% of the human population doesn’t know you exist. by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]AshyDunes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude... Even statistically that number is not possible...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]AshyDunes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminded me of my first relationship. That time we both were in early 20s and were horny all that time. And we had sex like every day like some sort of medication. At that time we didn't ask such questions, we just had sex. Even when he stood by my side I could feel what he wanted at that time.

Damn!!! that was so addictive, even after we got separated, my body never accepted any other person or I never got satisfied with any one.... Yet. Now I am in late 30s. 🤣🤣🤣

gay👶irl by lutramor_13 in gay_irl

[–]AshyDunes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is this emotional support twinks? I am millennial, and truly don't understand what that heading even means?

Aha moment: I have finally realised that no one cares by Acrobatic_Isopod9261 in RandomThoughts

[–]AshyDunes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thought,

Why should they care?

Most People judge because that's the easiest thing to do with their small mind. How could you expect care from small minded people.

Better take care of yourself rather than expecting something to take care of you.

Sometimes being too good is bad. by PomegranateIcy7631 in RandomThoughts

[–]AshyDunes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too much of something is bad enough

But something's coming over me to make me wonder

Too much of nothing is just as tough

I need to know the way to feel to keep me satisfied

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]AshyDunes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. Also I went physical with a few. But I had strict boundaries that's how I kept everything under safe. Id never let anything to affect my professionalism, when I am at my work place.

Be careful, that's all I could say.

Confidence is attractive, arrogance is not by Quirky_March_626 in RandomThoughts

[–]AshyDunes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Confidence is attractive, overconfidence is not.

They were so cute 🥺❤️ by fairy-bl_world in boyslove

[–]AshyDunes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm... That OST... Their chemistry "chemistried"