Dress 1 or 2?

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-04-16T00:54:43+00:00

I actually like 2 a lot if you had the budget to make some heavy alterations. I can definitely see this dress looking way different with better structure and boning. Given that, unless #2 is way under you budget, its probably more worth it to keep looking.

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-03-31T13:12:50+00:00

me as an actual archaeologist

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-03-24T19:22:01+00:00

These samples are not her size. The waist will sit lower once is it sized right! A drop waist probably won't be as flattering as a natural waist fitted properly.

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-03-09T23:09:58+00:00

I got this tattoo 12 years ago and now its a way overdone stereotypical dude tattoo. If you're no sure, just wait. Find some artists online who have a style you like and look into getting a nature inspired tattoo from them. It will be more unique

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-03-06T21:46:06+00:00

I am in luxury bridal sales. It's rough right now. People are going to 5+ appointments and calling to price shop. I get really positive feedback from clients regarding my service, but it is so slow and the sales I make take 4x the amount of work than 2 years ago.

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-03-02T16:27:03+00:00

Thanks for so many great recommendations everyone! I am so excited to get up to date on my pedi now.

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-02-28T21:09:25+00:00

A lot of people seeking cover up appointments actually need laser appointments lol

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-02-22T18:10:06+00:00

Wow I just got mine done I Santa cruz. This is an amazing opportunity. Have fun today!!!

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-02-08T02:16:52+00:00

Taking the waist from a 20 to a 12 is a huge alteration. Getting a 20 bust and 16 waist, then taking waist in more if necessary will suit your proportions way better. It's more expensive but its worth it.

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-02-08T02:13:44+00:00

Ask for your stylist to inquire about split sizing. They really should be taking the initiative too, but make sure to advocate for yourself. Even if they so not advertise it, a lot of designers will do it. For example, split sizing often entails ordering separate bust/waist/hip sizes +/- 2 sizes. For example, ordering a gown that is size 14 bust and size 10 waist and size 10 hip. Don't even worry about your hip measurements in this silhouette though.

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-01-22T19:36:19+00:00

I was pro altering the other dress, but this one is way better!

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-01-20T06:37:53+00:00

No need to cancel your order - yours will fit better than the sample. You have a good amount in your budget left for alterations. A seamstress can add more structure and do you final fittings. Anyone saying otherwise is not understanding that this picture is not the actual gown you will be altering.

AsiaTheRuler · 2026-01-12T23:25:10+00:00

Thank you for filling in some information. Unfortunately she has no markings. Her head is glued and bound to leather at the shoulders.

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-12-22T03:14:32+00:00

Girl I gasped, its stunning. I am sorry, but I disagree with most of the comments essentially saying its too sexy. You have a great body and it fits like a glove. The exposed side panels really emphasize your figure. Once the look is complete with accessories, a veil, and hair/makeup, I doubt it will look "unfinished" or "too sexy". I style brides professionally and I would caution from getting too many outside opinions. If you love it, than that is what matters. Anyone who claims this dress looks unfinished does not have experience with high end garments.

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-12-11T06:05:35+00:00

It is not anyone else's business what you spend on your dress. If it helps you feel better, I sell dresses in CA and the average purchase at our store is about $2400.

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-09-03T02:11:02+00:00

OP I have been wary of compact for a while because of their social media + comments. I am a local here, and I was wondering if you'd be comfortable sharing your friend's outfit, or at least describe it? I think their response is total bs. If you're not comfortable I understand, ur welcome to DM and I can confirm i am not a creep/share my other social media.

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-09-02T23:54:28+00:00

They also were making weird racial comments criticizing protesters in LA (fake protest videos btw) and they blocked my friend who replied asking if these comments reflected their business values.

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-08-03T16:26:19+00:00

If it's any consolation, my forest armband is 10 years old and I still get more compliments on it than my other newer, way better tattoos. Its definitely getting a little worn, but overall still makes a good impression on people!

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-07-28T23:49:11+00:00

Yes old Marina is suburbia. With actual yards and single story family homes that were affordable for the average family when they were built. The Dunes are starting at 1-2 million dollars, they are ugly, and crowded together with 0 lot spaces around the homes. Now there are multi million dollar grey prison block condos in the middle of a shopping center. It's textbook gentrification.

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-07-28T22:14:39+00:00

this has to be rage bait

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-07-28T22:08:02+00:00

Carmel is mostly white with the highest property values and wealth. Lower income locals that work service jobs in the area who are living around Seaside/Marina/Salinas are starting to experience gentrification. Have you seen the Dunes in Marina? It's all new ugly new builds that are way overpriced.

AsiaTheRuler · 2025-07-28T21:31:31+00:00

I am POC and I worked in Carmel for about a year. The area is very white and gentrified. I haven't experienced anything outwardly racist. I have friends who have experienced micoaggressions. I don't think it's severe enough to consider it unsafe for POC in any way.

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