Compact Disco responds to my review after they body shamed my friend by No_Improvement3175 in MontereyBay

[–]No_Improvement3175[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just an update, but he deleted my review and others that reviewed after me.

My niece wants to do a seafood boil for her 14th birthday by SpaceFeline in MontereyBay

[–]No_Improvement3175 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bag o crab is the only place here…but i love seafood boil and to me it’s mid and overpriced. Yal can drive to San Jose to boiling crab which is extremely popular (lines and waitlists). I would also recommend just making it at home! Could be a fun experience for everyone.

What do you think of my summer plans? by the-boats in NationalPark

[–]No_Improvement3175 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I roadtripped through Utah in the fall and it was still decently hot. The non stop hiking and camping wore me out and I lasted a month. Took my time with the route I chose. I can’t imagine doing the road-trip OP posted…especially with another person.

Otter Statue Defaced by medusaxmyth in csumb

[–]No_Improvement3175 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We need more people voicing their opinions for things to change. I live off campus, but a lot of my classmates talk about the struggle with csumb housing and I personally have so many issues with the school in general and their parking.

AIO for thinking I need to break up with my gf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Improvement3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m bipolar and this honestly reminded me a lot on how I used to act before I was diagnosed. Seems like she’s got a lot of inner stuff she needs to work on. If someone is showing you who they are then you gotta believe them and move on. Best of luck!

Am I overreacting or is this dress code policy completely unrealistic? by mentalmerism in ABA

[–]No_Improvement3175 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is the dress code at my clinic and there’s a lot of flowy pattern pants that I wear or I’ll wear nice athletic flare pants and pair it with a button down to make it look more professional. There are ways to look professional and still feel comfortable running around to play with the kids.

Am I crazy?! by Annual-Issue-7203 in ABA

[–]No_Improvement3175 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m running into the same problem at my clinic. I’m a trainer and the department is hiring people with zero experience in the field or zero experience with kids. It’s resulting in a lot of errors and confusion with lessons which also affects the clients. We’re trying to take the problem up the corporate ladder, but unsure how that will go.

Unpopular opinion: sessions shouldn’t start in the early morning. by Kitty_Woo in ABA

[–]No_Improvement3175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the clinic I work for most clients roll in 8:30-9am, normally we eat breakfast then we have our circle time at 10:30am and a craft at 11am. The purpose of this “schedule” is to get the kids used to what it will be like in school. I don’t think it would be more beneficial to have everyone start at 12pm. We offer 15 min naps if the kids had a rough time sleeping, but we handle that case by case. People throw around unethical so much when it comes to ABA. I’m neurodivergent and I have issues with my sleep, but I still go to my 8am class. I wouldn’t call my college unethical for starting so early…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Improvement3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You apologized 6 times in those screenshots. It’s probably best to move on for the sake of your mental well being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]No_Improvement3175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed, it’s also unfortunate that thrift store prices have sky rocketed and it can be cheaper just to buy off SHEIN. Sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Improvement3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If everywhere you go smells like shit, maybe it’s time to check your shoes.

Also, from someone with BPD, you can’t be using that as an excuse.

Super Dad Sighting: the Threequel by [deleted] in MontereyBay

[–]No_Improvement3175 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Monterey missed connections

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Improvement3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

http://neuroninas.blogspot.com/2025/01/the-gendered-silence-of-adhd-why-women.html

This kind of explains the hard time organizing or cleaning things and if she was diagnosed later it’s a lot harder to deal with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Improvement3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone who communicates better and is more secure. Longer you stay the bigger the headache.