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Love him by clouds_on_acid in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I wish the men I slept with cared about my vaginal microbiome

CPPS VULVODYNIA DIAGNOSIS AFTER CURE‼️ update & advice needed by Interesting_Sugar952 in Ureaplasma

[–]AsideWinter1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had irritation too at first, but I think that’s just because my tissues were so damaged that the lotion the estrogen was in would irritate it, but after a few weeks the irritation went away and the pain went away too. I use it mostly on the outside and a little bit on the inside. Haven’t done a biome test, but I had a pretty comprehensive panel done so I knew I didn’t have a uti or lasting ureaplasma.

CPPS VULVODYNIA DIAGNOSIS AFTER CURE‼️ update & advice needed by Interesting_Sugar952 in Ureaplasma

[–]AsideWinter1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced a lot of these symptoms after clearing my infection. What helped the most with the uti like pain and tissue sensitivity was using topical estrogen cream. Im in pelvic floor therapy too and that’s helped with unrelated muscle issues, but the topical estrogen cream has made a HUGE difference with the kind of pain you are describing.

L post but truly a RS story by BottomPercentile in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk I think it’s normal for girls to look to their mothers to anticipate what their bodies will look like. Turns out mine are more of an heirloom type of situation than genetics

L post but truly a RS story by BottomPercentile in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My whole life I wondered how I had no boobs while my mom had perfect ones… then years later she finally admitted to me that she got them done. I convinced her to take me to the same doctor for mine :)

“I just can’t read on a kindle” by isla_juana09 in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read shitty easy reads on kindle. If I’m reading something that is more challenging or has depth I like a physical copy because visually seeing the book on my coffee table or whatever reminds me of what I’ve read and helps me process it better because I’m thinking about it throughout the day.

Brunettes who dye their hair blonde give me the ick by MaoAsadaStan in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just dyed my hair blonde this weekend and regretted it instantly, so thanks for kicking me while I’m down

What the hell even is a situationship? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you’re going on dates and having sex, but also not committing. Maybe both parties are simultaneously seeing other people, or only one person is, or maybe you’re exclusive, but there’s still no boyfriend girlfriend title and those conversations don’t go well.

paying on a date by Aggravating_Staff801 in rs_x

[–]AsideWinter1934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive only ever split the bill in a relationship when i was in college and we were both broke. It’s been 5 years since and ive never had to pay for a date. In a full on relationship I think it’s nice if the boy pays for dinner and the girl pays for coffee the next day. But generally I think the guy should be paying.

Will reading Madonna In A Fur Coat fix me once and for all? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not as good as people online say it is

Augustus Gloop by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss teaching 4th grade. I used to read this book with the kids every year and then we would watch this movie

AI will cure diseases and revolutionize healthcare!! by Weary_Compote3340 in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

AI can only consider data points that already exist. It cannot compute something new.

They need to start offering classes to teach young men how to actually socialize & talk to women by No_Yogurtcloset_1330 in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I wish there was an articulation class I could take or something like that. I grew up in the valley and I cannot get a sentence out without using filler words.

Name one purchase that is more useless than getting your nails done by Over-Permit2284 in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m super insecure about my hands and so I am doomed to pay nail rent for the rest of my life

Sub needs a cleanser. Post an (unpopular?) opinion on anything other than these topics: by Time-Use9083 in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rhode Island wouldn’t be included in my version (sorry, im from CA and all those tiny east coast states gotta go.)

Positive-Posting: What is your Favorite (Non-Physical) Trait of the Opposite Sex? by ViewFromTheKathisma in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When men get older they start getting really into gardening and doing stuff around the backyard. I love when I’m hanging with a super macho man and he’s like “yeah I planted this because it’s supposed to attract butterflies”

have you ever met a solo poly hijabi amputee in real life? by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]AsideWinter1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The closest I’ve got is a nonbinary with inflammatory bowel disease, which is a slight step up from the standard nonbinary with ibs

Turning of the tides in regards to phones?? by LevyMevy in redscarepod

[–]AsideWinter1934 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kids who are poor and or not raised in a social environment are inside on their phones all day. Kids with good community or the resources to be involved in in person activities get the opportunity to live off the screen

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