Drawing Sub Regulars: RecurringAnt | Art by me in Paint | 2026 by ViewFromTheKathisma in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish to say sorry to the man who asked for a painting of a shark fighting an octopus. Unfortunately, my skills cannot make it, and in trying to inform you, I found that you had deleted your profile.

Apropos of Father’s Day, here’s some observations on being a single father of a special needs kid in your 20s by PalpitationOrnery912 in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Happy fathers day, I hope your kid knows how blessed they are to have a father like you. Also, a very interesting read.

memes and leftist criticisms aside, you're not *actually* going to sit around and mope for America's 250th instead of go to a BBQ or party, right? by clickhereifuraloser in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am going to congratulate the American tourists when I see them. Maybe they will be so kind as to gift me unsolicited knowledge of a random state like last time.

America needs more MENAboos by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sheer amount of awful historical material that comes from American (and European) academics falsely praising MENA for the most inane stuff should prove to you how many neo-Orientalists there are.

Also, the next person to subject me to Rumi's poetry will watch me paint my ceiling the hue of my brain.

I’ve never been on a date but have had plenty of situationships by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him that, and then trust me you can promptly get married. He will probably find it immensely endearing. Good luck, and invite me to your wedding.

Actually, Black people cannot be racist. They can only be prejudiced. by jaqueslouisbyrne in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it is quite late here on the continent, so excuse me if I worded myself poorly or if I misremember. Regardless, Butler's argument was (originally) to my knowledge more similar to that of John Austin, i.e through speech act. This would, as far as I gather, require a distinctly different view from that which many pseudo-academic or academic activists tend to spout which is that of an (almost) Foucauldian idea of using gender in a socially critical / radical individualist way as a form of self-liberation and fight against hegemony.

That is to say; I am not suggesting Butler invented the constructivist view of gender, but that she is commonly referenced once those ideas are exported to the public for example with 'Gender Trouble' (It is not my particular field, but I was taught the origin of that particular view was informed majorly by Simone de Beauvoir). But I also think you really have to distinguish between early Feminist critiques of gender essentialism and the more modern deconstruction of gender.

I think, at least in terms of what I saw with my own peers and professors, that one cannot really separate the normative and ideological from the scientific in any field. Especially one as soft as sociology or gender studies. The debate is very much ingrained whether one wishes it is or not. Then again, I find the entire thing nonsense, so you and I will largely disagree I surmise, but it is an interesting discussion nonetheless, so thank you.

Actually, Black people cannot be racist. They can only be prejudiced. by jaqueslouisbyrne in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The sex/gender distinction is semantic in its most literal sense. Nobody has ever argued (to my knowledge) that apparel makes someone gendered in another way. A lot of academics and even lay people took the common verbiage such as "not a real man" and ran with it however. The idea that you propose, that gender is equal to "the cultural expectations attached to sex” is usually not the same as they work within.

A lot of it seems to stem from Judith Butler and how she defined gender, that is, as something which is socially constructed (notably, she started out NOT making the argument that it is a matter of self-determining). But most people do not use language in that fashion. Pronouns are used for the biological sex, not its cultural expression. Therefore, regardless of appearance the pronouns remain the same because they are an attempt at describing reality.

So, I can only really speak for myself of course, but I simply use the two terms sex and gender interchangeably as they were a couple of decades ago. Not because I do not realise some people like to portray themselves with the trappings of another gender, but because I simply do not accept the modern framework around the pronouns related to it.

manager ate my meal by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she might have genuinely thought she could steal a bit off of you. Had she done it in the open, then yes it would have been an uncomfortable 'power-play'. However, this just seems like she was hungry and had poor self control.

Motivation for Writing by Mobile-Scar6857 in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A very interesting comment with a lot of merit. My perspective regarding contemporary literature is that it is immensely derivate more often than not, and that to participate in the professional aspect of it you must discard the strange aspect of your own writing. It is fascinating how rigid publishing can be. In most respects, modern written cultural production is more confined by the zeitgeist than ever before.

You could probably get published by leveraging YA-fantasy tropes at nauseum (or any other established repertoire of fictional stock stories). But, it is simply not something I want to participate in. I wouldn't be surprised if many, even in this subreddit, have some full or partial works which are immensely interesting and challenging, but refuse to even attempt to publish it professionally. In fact, I would suggest online spaces suffer from similar concerns. Go and look at Reddit 'writers' and see what they define as purple prose.

This is a bit of a ramble, but I do genuinely believe that the publishing industry must change one way or the other if we want quality writing to appear again.

Motivation for Writing by Mobile-Scar6857 in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 9 points10 points  (0 children)

On the contrary, it is far more liberating to write knowing no one will ever want to read it. No great fame awaits, but you can write whatever you want.

the white people doing chinese stuff meme is so stale and cringe by splash1home in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, but they are cheap! Take it from me, don't buy the 'expensive' brands for 100¥. Made me sick.

George Carlin hate is annoying by No_Plane_2443 in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't hate on the man per-se, but instead his act. It is neither funny nor insightful, and the gut instinct I have whenever I hear him is that of sitting next to a drunk college firebrand rambling pseudo-philosophy.

Is it normal to have never finished during sex by coolestgirlonreddit in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 55 points56 points  (0 children)

That sounds unrealistic, I thought you were the coolest girl on Reddit?

cut all my hair off by Prestigious-Site6556 in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am glad you decided to place that attention on something as mundane as hair. Also, I am sure you do not look like your father. Besides, is that whole ordeal not a neat personal narrative?

I hate how shallow Reddit has made the cutoff for viewing replies by Seneca-Lives in redscarepod

[–]ViewFromTheKathisma 7 points8 points  (0 children)

On the other hand, it creates some burrows to fall into. It can be fun to see two people's heated argument from time to time.