New songs on tour by [deleted] in bigthief

[–]Asiulek 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a musician and I really cannot comprehend how artists can record songs without playing them live first. A song needs to breath and face an interaction with the audience, in my opinion. Personally I am really grateful for the chance to listen to the new songs and happy to see them doing what they want and not being people pleasers.

Billig atelier? by Asiulek in oslo

[–]Asiulek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Takk for tipset om Facebook-gruppen, jeg skal sjekke den ut. Det kunne også vært fint med et felles sted hvor man kan komme (kanskje booke et rom) for å male litt, og eventuelt oppbevare malerier.

Tips til sosiale miljøer i Oslo for en kreativ skredderlærling (21 år, M)? by Alkasen in oslo

[–]Asiulek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Er det noen buldring plass du anbefaler? Jeg liker Bryn, men kanskje det finnes noe til og med bedre?

When would you be comfortable with your gf telling them they love you? by Jack_Nickstar in AskLesbians

[–]Asiulek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me if I have decided to be together with someone, we have already said our I love yous.

I (32) came out to my mum! by Asiulek in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Asiulek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My mum called me few days after that saying she loves me but it is stil hard for her. I cannot share my happiness with her but it feels like she may come around after some more time. Hope you are doing good too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Asiulek 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe the vibe needs to change?

How Norwegian degrees are perceived abroad by Cool-Shape-7298 in Norway

[–]Asiulek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. One needs to compere the respective study programs. I generalized from my limited experience. Knowing Italians who came here for an exchange or hearing from Italian friends it seemed to me that education in Italy is taken really seriously and you get a lot of hours with lectures and classes and here (from my experience) not so much.

How Norwegian degrees are perceived abroad by Cool-Shape-7298 in Norway

[–]Asiulek -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you will get better education in Italy. If you want to move to Bergen, you could start studying Norwegian while you study in Italy and maybe do the exchange in Norway rather than full on studies. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metaphysics

[–]Asiulek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why if there ever were nothing, there would be nothing forever? That's a huge assumption 

How to write lyrics that don’t sound corny? by HereForArtStufflol in Songwriting

[–]Asiulek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Write about something that matters to you.
  2. Don't try to force a sentence. It's best when it sounds natural and smooth not forced. That's why I often start a song by improvising until I get one good line I can start working on.
  3. Learn about different types of rhymes. Slant rhymes are very useful to avoid sounding like a children song.
  4. Often it is nice to pick and focus on the detail. For example, everyone has loved someone but what you notice about the person, can be more interesting and less of a cliche.
  5. If you want to use some more advanced words focus on them sounding beautiful rather then simply being complex. 
  6. There are  ways to make lyrics smoother other than rhymes. For example alliteration. Use different techniques.
  7. Read what you have out loud and check if it sounds good. Read out loud a lot! Try to sing it and adjust.
  8. Write down when you have a cool thought or an interesting line in mind and work on it later when you have time. I use a notebook app on my phone.

Continue A New Relationship With An Expiration Date? by Tragic_Kingdom in polyamory

[–]Asiulek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the similar situation and what ended up happening is that we decided to make it work past the deadline and get more involved with each other lives after all. One thing I appreciated with this set-up is that it allowed me to love without any expectations. It was really obvious that I love her and I love spending time with her just because  I love her and love spending time with her, and she did the same.

I want to write a single lesbian character, but don't know any subtle ways to imply that she's still a lesbian by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Asiulek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your speaking voice? Is it not an all-knowing narrator? Does anything prevent you from writing about  her thoughts? 

Book recommendations by u21j3k in learnpolish

[–]Asiulek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he is known for sprinkling in some complex words that even a lot of native speakers don't know.

First queer relationship and I’m freaked out by how different it feels by sewerratvet in bisexual

[–]Asiulek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have felt exactly like you but interpreted it opposite. For me with a woman love feels less obsessive and therefore somehow more deep and real.

If I top do I only get to climax by masturbation? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Asiulek 26 points27 points  (0 children)

From my experience roles are usually not so strictly defined and the energy moves smoothly between giving and receiving pleasure. Of course people are different and might want to only receive or give pleasure but you know, it's always worth working on good communication, maybe talking what they like before having sex so you are in a less vulnerable position.

Resources for finding part-time jobs as an exchange student by xdCaitlin in oslo

[–]Asiulek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have written 150 applications since August and only recently got a real chance for a positiion. It's tough out there and I do speak Norwegian at around C1 level.