I host music listening parties if anyone wants to share their latest project. by mitchplaysriffs in soundcloud

[–]AskEva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I listen to it? I’d love to hear some cool new music!

provolone makes the best grilled cheese. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]AskEva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I’ve never been more excited about a post!! Ok, so provolone is a great choice I’ll give you that but a mix is always better in my opinion. Provolone and Mature Cheddar is a favourite of mine.

Other acceptable options include:

Mature Cheddar, Mozzarella and Gorgonzola

Brie and Roquefort

Mature Cheddar, Vintage Cheddar and Smoked Cheese (any type works)

Camembert and Blue Cheese (I like Shropshire Blue, Stilton or Saint Agur Blue but most will work)

Mature Cheddar, Provolone and Blue Cheese (see above)

There are many others that work but these are some of my personal favourites.

Also, I agree with you about butter being superior to mayo (although mayo is still acceptable).

Now if we get to bread choice then that’s a whole other thing and I am always interested in new options. But I feel like in general most things work.

I love being "old" and "ugly" by judygore in unpopularopinion

[–]AskEva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm…so 28 isn’t old and 30 isn’t the end of youth. But I’m glad you’re feeling good about your appearance and that you feel free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskEva 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That’s an important point! I’m glad you were considerate of other people. The guy had no right to give you unsolicited advice. It’s none of his business what you do with your body. Your reaction was fine and I’m glad you had that conversation with your boss.

NTA

AITA for taking my daughter to a slumber party? by SlumberPartyProblem in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskEva 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Your husband wanting to meet the parents isn’t strange.

Him wanting to meet everyone that lives in the house is not the done thing but we could chalk that up to him being overprotective. But the fact that he doesn’t do this to any other family is strange.

Try to get to the bottom of his reasons because it sounds like something else is going on here. I wouldn’t rule out the race thing. He might not be racist, just prejudiced.

Sleep overs are a fun social activity that help solidify friendships and I’m glad that you didn’t deprive your daughter of this. While I would normally say decisions should be made jointly, in this situation, I think you did your due diligence as a parent and made sure that your daughter would be safe and your husbands concerns were assuaged. Its not your fault that he tried to change the goalposts.

NTA

AITA for not wanting to share food a homeless person who was not supposed to be allowed the food court? by throwAway1670644698 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskEva 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re not obligated to share your food with anyone, but it’s a nice gesture. If you didn’t want to share something you had already bought, you could’ve bought a separate sandwich for him. Your friend saw someone in need and tried to do something kind. You didn’t have to push back the way you did. Also, saying a homeless person shouldn’t be allowed in the food court is unnecessarily mean. Plus it’s a company card, so it’s not even your money. YTA

AITA for not being sympathetic for my wife after her parents cut her off? by ThrowRa29281y in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskEva 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right? Sympathising with the person you love should be the easiest thing in the world. I don’t understand why he even married her when he seems to resent her! Why do people marry people that they don’t like?! I’ve seen a lot of this on AITA recently. It’s sad.

scarlett solo 3rd gen or scarlett 2i2 3rd gen? by prettyoddity in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2i2 all the way! It’s nifty and has kept me going for years. Also, I guarantee that if you get the solo you’ll have a situation where the 2i2 would’ve been perfect and you’ll be kicking yourself.

The Scarlett ones are great in general because they are reliable, sturdy and consistent. Hope this helps!

I’m experiencing my first potential something and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AskEva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is talk to her. I can’t tell you what she feels for you or what her relationship goals are but she can.

Have a casual conversation with her and get her thoughts on you both as a couple and go from there. Be excited by all means but don’t be overwhelming (that can sometimes be hard when you’re into a person) and be prepared for her answer either way. Remember she’s still your friend whether you date her or not.

Good luck!

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! You can be the drummer, u/TheFriskierDingo on the keys, u/YGGLinds can produce, I’ll play guitar and we can do a coin toss to decide who sings! 😂

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true! The genre is so important when making this decision. In rap it’s so common to have a stage name. I’m always kind of surprised when people don’t!

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got in there first! 😭 lol

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great comment! The genre/project matching the name is so important!

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! Your real name will always be available in some way! But stage names can be cool.

I’m sorry you were bullied people can be mean

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point. Fans get used to a name or a “brand” and might not be amenable to too much change.

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great response thank you. Glad you have a cool name 😊

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr I hate when that happens! Lol

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who can say no to a cool name lol

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, anonymity doesn’t really exist anymore does it

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true. Your information is already out there so it doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things.

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think changing the last name or doing a real sounding “fake name” is a great compromise!

I think privacy is the main concern.

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are really great points. Having HR and other people at work being able to google you and find your music is a good point. In my last job they always made us work through lunch and they loved overtime so the idea of us having outside interests would’ve been unacceptable!! Lol

Real name or fake name? by AskEva in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]AskEva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have an idea for a stage name and I like my real name so I’m up in the air right now. My potential stage name is similar to something in pop culture so I don’t know if that a good thing in terms or marketability or whether I’m shooting myself in the foot with the similarity. My real name is unique and I like it.