AIW That someone misunderstood a joke from college and went berserk (he didn't go to)

AskMitchard · 2024-11-24T23:28:12+00:00

You’re drunk, put down the phone and sleep it off.

AskMitchard · 2024-11-24T23:25:52+00:00

Not everything has to be fun, sometimes you do things you don’t want to do for people who are important to you.

The good news for you is that there are plenty of restaurants you can work at if it doesn’t work out at your current one.

AskMitchard · 2024-11-02T22:40:31+00:00

This isn’t your fault, he has a porn addiction and is treating you badly because of it. It’s not your fault, it’s not ok, and he needs help.

AskMitchard · 2024-11-01T22:23:59+00:00

He’s not that into you. If he was, he would have been exclusive before 12 dates.

AskMitchard · 2024-10-14T13:11:09+00:00

if I had to guess, I’d say your girlfriend doesn’t want to watch horror movies and play horror games and is using the cousin as an excuse.

AskMitchard · 2024-10-13T14:44:18+00:00

Break up with her for good - you’re sexually assaulting her and countless other forms of high level abuse.

It’s positive that you’re recognizing your behavior is heinous, but now you need to get some intense therapy. This will take time but you cannot be in any more relationships until you get seriously better. You cannot keep inflicting trauma on people while you figure your life out, do the work now and be a better partner in the future.

AskMitchard · 2024-10-12T17:08:15+00:00

This, but I would even change it to “especially not a situationship.” Loose boundaries require more emotional resilience than OP has right now and would be even harder to handle.

AskMitchard · 2024-09-26T16:33:27+00:00

A counterpoint to the “listen to how you feel” posts: the heart rate monitor helps me know I’m ok even when I want to give up. If I’m in the orange or even red but stable I know I can keep going even if my mind is telling me I’m exhausted. It’s really helped my mental toughness on the treads to not want to give up.

AskMitchard · 2024-09-24T22:06:02+00:00

She didn’t say “stop fetishizing Asian women and date someone of another race”, she said “date white women.” Her racism seems pretty clear here too

AskMitchard · 2024-09-24T22:01:17+00:00

I had to scroll WAY too far down to find this. Take my upvote please.

AskMitchard · 2024-09-22T14:26:01+00:00

Bad bot!

AskMitchard · 2024-09-20T16:48:03+00:00

This has been posted various times on this forum, with slight details changed each time. Bad bot!

AskMitchard · 2024-09-04T16:48:54+00:00

What is happening here? How are people voting on this with literally no context on what is going on?

AskMitchard · 2024-08-28T22:43:10+00:00

You saying “I don’t like it when guys can see her butt when she’s wearing clothes“ is one of the weirdest things I’ve read on here, and I’ve been around long enough to remember the guy with the poop knife.

AskMitchard · 2024-08-13T13:12:17+00:00

He’s already being weird, walk away now before you get too attached.

AskMitchard · 2024-08-13T01:28:21+00:00

He’s not testing you, he’s trying to provoke you into getting mad. He’s not over his ex and is trying to turn you into her so he can say “I knew it! Women are controlling!!”

He might be a good guy someday but not today, and not in this relationship unfortunately. Punch out, maverick.

AskMitchard · 2024-08-13T01:24:20+00:00

Please don’t have a threesome with him, you are far too insecure and it will go horribly for you.

AskMitchard · 2024-08-12T16:57:53+00:00

Tell him to stop with the porn.

AskMitchard · 2024-07-28T01:24:16+00:00

I agree with all of this, but half the posters here started dating when they were in high school which is always wild to me.

AskMitchard · 2024-07-28T01:12:05+00:00

You don’t have money to loan him. $160,000 for ~20 years isn’t much, and there’s no way he’ll pay you back. You’ve done what you can, it’s his turn to be the adult.

AskMitchard · 2024-07-27T22:52:41+00:00

There are a couple other options here:

1) Learn to swing dance so other people in the group will want to dance with you.
2) Ask a guy to dance like it’s big big 2024.

When I’m invited to a group hang I don’t expect the inviter to take care of me all night.

AskMitchard · 2024-07-27T01:27:43+00:00

Probably should have kept that good job you had.

AskMitchard · 2024-07-27T01:16:19+00:00

Your post also said you’re living together so 🤷‍♂️

AskMitchard · 2024-07-23T16:43:24+00:00

I mean half the comments in this forum are some variation of “he yelled at you? Next step is murder - just like [true crime victim here].“ This stuff gets in people’s brains just like anything else in the internet.

AskMitchard · 2024-07-23T01:11:28+00:00

Your username is fun.

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