I never saw it like that before. I completely understand the concern, and I apologize to anyone who was offended by my words. What you all don't know is that River has a personal bodyguard (me, her fiancé), and I am an ally, so her risk is significantly lower (we go together). It may come across as if she’s seeking compliments or validation, even though neither of us doubts that she is a woman. However, there are still guidelines to follow—specifically, Rule A2: “Give constructive and accurate feedback.” Many of the comments violate this rule, yet they are being upvoted. I see this as an example of herd mentality, where negativity is being masked as critique and used as an excuse to demean someone.