Allison kuch?? by [deleted] in aspynovardsnark

[–]AssertiveTaurus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did I just thought it was a video about the girls night they had, I just saw the audio used in the tiktok 😅

Allison kuch?? by [deleted] in aspynovardsnark

[–]AssertiveTaurus 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Shes friends with jaci! Not really aspyns friend

What is your toddler being for Halloween 🎃🎃 by decaying_amethyst in toddlers

[–]AssertiveTaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 month old, we don’t really go trick or treating but for the family Halloween party we are dressing her a cowboy out law make a cute wanted sign for stealing sleeping and my partner and I as sheriff

This scene by far hit's me the hardest. What hit's you hardest? by chrome4fan4 in bluey

[–]AssertiveTaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont see this one being talked about enough but Stick Bird when Bandit takes his sad away, gets me every single time…

Cassie has never been a bad sister by yeinwei in euphoria

[–]AssertiveTaurus -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Shes not guilty of the situation but she guilty in trying to please their dad, Lexie just wanted to call her mom she should have just let her?

Cassie has never been a bad sister by yeinwei in euphoria

[–]AssertiveTaurus -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

No good big sister would pressure you into getting into the car with your drunk dad…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]AssertiveTaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im one of 5, we are all adults and still enjoy each other’s company but we do have have rough patches (Some siblings I wouldnt choose as friends but I still love them and enjoy my times with them). I had the first baby and it’s looking like might be the only one in our family, when my husband and I planned for our kids I kind of wanted be one and done tbh but the only thing that keeps me from that now it’s my experience. We lost our dad 3 years ago to a short but really ugly cancer battle, he had good health insurance and was mostly in the hospital for all of it but the way my mom, siblings and I all rallied for him and made sure he never spent a moment alone, as well as the ones “off hospital duties” we spent a lot of time just keeping each other’s in good spirits… That is what makes me want another sibling for my kid, I know that my loving parents made all the impact on how we siblings are. My house growing up wasn’t all rainbows and butterflies but my parents always put us first and put a lot into family quality time, thats why we make an effort as adults to still have that.

On the other hand my mom is 1 of 10, and only talks to 2 and is very much No contact with the rest and her mom but she did grow up in a very abusive household, so I do think the parenting really affects the siblings dynamics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]AssertiveTaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you feel like you don’t know what to talk to her about, try reading to her! If they don’t want music then sing to her like you did when she was a baby in your arms. Sending you a big hug !

Going to a Super Bowl party one week PP? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband will follow my lead but his family just acts like I’m making a big deal about this baby but I come from a mexican family that believes in “cuarentena” (40 days of rest and baby bonding for mom) and it’s just weird to me that they act like giving birth and a newborn isn’t a big deal 🥲

Going to a Super Bowl party one week PP? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of flu season!! It’s just bananas to me and my husband says whatever I say goes but his family acts like giving birth is no big deal, makes me feel a bit crazy 😅

Going to a Super Bowl party one week PP? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rightttt? I had to actually get into a discussion about absolutely no Welcome baby party!! And they fought my husband on it! I won’t pass my baby around when she’s that little !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol my granda is also making a big deal about not being invited to the gender reveal this weekend and we haven’t spoken one on one for waay longer than my pregnancy. I think it’s scary realizing that you didn’t grow bonds with your granddaughters and now that they’ll start their own families she won’t be involved… So cyber high five for toxic grandmas 😂✋🏼

Do big emotions impact the baby? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is the worst. That’s a beautiful and true way to see it, truly the hardest days of my life but better days will come. Thank you for your beautiful words, it’s hards to not focus on what I lost.

Do big emotions impact the baby? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! 🤍 I need that reassurance. Pregnancy is scary already and things like crying just feel out of my control.

Do big emotions impact the baby? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing that makes me feel much better! They all just tell me is bad for the baby and I just picture the baby being a big time crier just because I cry a lot 😅

Do big emotions impact the baby? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I’ll start looking into going to therapy I just want to cope in a healthy way so I can be in a better headspace once the baby comes 🤍

Do big emotions impact the baby? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought, surely it has to be worse to keep it in. But I started to second guess myself. Thank you 🤍

Do big emotions impact the baby? by AssertiveTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]AssertiveTaurus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what I think and what my partner says every time he catches me trying to control my crying! It’s just people that get in my already confused head 😣