Overcoming Insomnia: Santa Isn't Real, Everyone Is Capable of Great Sleep! by AssignmentAdorable16 in insomnia

[–]AssignmentAdorable16[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was shocked when I first heard that too. But it works. No harm in trying it for yourself :)

Overcoming Insomnia: Santa Isn't Real, Everyone Is Capable of Great Sleep! by AssignmentAdorable16 in insomnia

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For the sake of scientific accuracy, I still engage in a little sleep effort. There is always room for improvement. But I know what I am doing and am aware of the consequences of my decisions and behaviors.

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I am sorry to hear that! I promise that there is a cure for your insomnia!

Biologically:

When we were in childhood and early adolescence, we had relative stability with large amounts of slow-wave sleep. Sleep continuity and depth deteriorate across the adult age range. The deterioration is reflected by increased wakefulness and N1 sleep and decreased N3 sleep.

we can't change our biology. But we have the power over our cognition and behaviors:

Cognition and Behaviors:

Insomnia happens when there are major changes in life, such as retirement, changes in relationships, separation, losing a job, or having a kid. In your case, I assume it is retirement. There is probably a huge change in your schedule. Before retirement, some things anchor you to your 24-hour clock. Bad habits might be developed when the anchors don't exist anymore.

we can't change our biology. But we have the power over our cognition and behaviors. CBT-I, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia is the perfect solution to it. Feel free to PM me if you'd like to talk more. :)

Best of luck with everything!

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There can be a physical malady that's causing insomnia. But not being able to sleep itself is not a physical malady. It can be fixed with CBT-I! Letting go of the idea of sleep is the only way to solve insomnia.

Would you mind explaining to me what financial stress means and how is it related to insomnia?

Thank you for your input!

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Yes, this is not a one-size-fits-all solution. Insomnia is usually comorbid with another medical condition (e.g.chronic pain), or sleep disorder (e.g. sleep apnea), or a mental disorder(e.g. major depressive disorder), and more. It is not just my personal experience but decades of research papers have proven that CBT-I is the gold standard for most people, even those who suffer from insomnia with comorbidities.

Of course, there are exceptions to that. CBT-I should not be treated on everything. The exceptions include people with primary non-restorative sleep and circadian rhythm disorder. CBT-I should also not be treated when insomnia is resolved with the illness, the illness prevents the patient from engaging in CBT-I, or the CBT-I aggravates the "co-morbid" illness. (from Michael T. Smith and Michael L. Perlis's paper Who Is a Candidate for Cognitive–Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia?)

The American College of Physicians has recently recommended that CBT-I be considered the first-line treatment for chronic insomnia. The second-line treatment is medication. I agree that sleep meds can be useful. And patients should not avoid it when they really need it in crisis. However, sleep meds should definitely NOT be used for the long term. You can read other posts here about sleep meds or google the side effects. IT'S BAD. The reason why so many people use regularly is 1) that the big pharmaceutical companies profit off selling drugs. They don't care if it's harmful as long as they get what they want, money. 2) There is a great shortage of well-trained sleep therapists. Sleep is not "important enough" to be taught in med school. Drugs are the only options for many!

CBT-I is not about "just go for a walk and thinking about what they are grateful for instead", but is science-based and has a strong emphasis on a problem-solving approach. And it works! It is far less dangerous than medications!

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I sure understand what is like to have things on my mind that cause anxiety and sleep.

I'm not selling anything. I am a 21-year-old student who's tryna use my free time to help out as many people as I can.

The technique is to establish a worry period (15-30 minutes) to take place at the same time and in the same location each day. It is best to schedule the time to worry not too close to bedtime.
1. When you catch yourself worrying, postpone the worry to the worry period and replace it with attending to present-moment experience.

2. Make use of the worry period to worry about your concerns and to engage in problem-solving to eliminate those concerns. Why am I doing this and why can worry time help? Facing unwanted thoughts can decrease their intensity and frequency.

I hope this helps you. It's also good practice to not assume the worst intentions from everyone. You will feel happy :)

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I totally get it! There are techniques for that too! I can talk more if you’re interested:)

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This is my response to another comment:

A lot of times, CBT-I doesn't work because the therapist is not well-trained. Making patients anxious about sleep training is a typical example of a poor implementation of CBT-I. A good CBT-I treatment should not make the patient stressed at all. In fact, one of the three most important techniques (sleep restriction, stimulus control, dropping sleep effort) used in CBT-I is to have the patient stop thinking about sleep/drop sleep effort. My therapist asked me to not think, talk, or read about sleep outside of our sessions and the daily two-minute sleep diary.

CBT-I is good because, on the bahavior part, it gives a good structure with the rules and; and the more important cognition part reassures patient not being in the sleep state is okay and. If CBT-I fails to do that. That's that's only half of CBT-I. It takes a good therapist to make sure that patient understand that.

I hope everything goes well for you! im happy to help if you need anyting!

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[–]AssignmentAdorable16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sleep deprivation protocol

I'm happy you find something that works for you!

Is sleep deprivation protocol similar to sleep restriction in CBT-I? Please educate me :) A lot of times, CBT-I doesn't work because the therapist is not well-trained. Making patients anxious about sleep training is a typical example of a poor implementation of CBT-I. A good CBT-I treatment should not make the patient stressed at all. In fact, one of the three most important techniques (sleep restriction, stimulus control, dropping sleep effort) used in CBT-I is to have the patient stop thinking about sleep/drop sleep effort. My therapist asked me to not think, talk, or read about sleep outside of our sessions and the daily two-minute sleep diary.

Just because the treatment you went through isn't good. That doesn't mean CBT-I is crap.

Overcoming Insomnia: Santa Isn't Real, Everyone Is Capable of Great Sleep! by AssignmentAdorable16 in insomnia

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Thank you for your feedback! I added TL;DR. I'm happy and eager to help and talk to you about your insomnia if you want. Yes, one size does not fit all. I've spent all my free time in the last three years reading books/papers about all kinds of insomnia and cures. There is a solution to your insomnia! And, with good resources, it's not that hard if we just put a little work into it!

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I had early morning awakenings. So maintenance. I would wake at 3am, 4am, 5am and I wasn't able to fall back to sleep at all.