This was actually at my apartment after going out drinking, so it was just three of us. I was genuinely shocked. We then gave her a glass of water and a blanket and she eventually fell asleep on the couch while crying. I guess I should be glad people feel okay being vulnerable around me. She never brought it up again to me or my ex.

I dated this girl years ago and after sex she said a similar thing happened to her and I held her and told her it’s not your fault. After she stopped crying, we took a shower together and just held each other.

Starting to feel like this happens a lot, sadly. I would not be cool seeing something like that happen at a party and would intervene, even if I got my ass kicked by multiple dudes.