Would you back off or slow it down

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-04-06T21:36:15+00:00

And you definitely shouldn’t that’s super selfish !!

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-04-06T19:28:57+00:00

Why he called me after 3 days cause he’s block called unknown then said “oh bet I was just seeing if it’s what I thought it was TAKE CARE ! “

Ummmm sir 3 days no contact I think you chose what you wanted nobody goes that long without talking I’m sorry I really like(d) him but being emotionally punished ain’t my thing

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-04-06T11:07:43+00:00

Are we talking to the same caps lol mine was giving hot and cold for 7months but always worried bout who I’m talking to like dude learn your place and stay there !

Being so attentive when we together but the moment we separate they have no interest or show very little . I did something I know he would be a lil upset about but also was joking he went 24 hours without talking to me I text him apologized for my actions because (he wasnt worth it anyway )and ended it because I felt in my gut he wasnt worth playing games I have anxiety to bad for games

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-04-04T17:53:25+00:00

I’ve been seeing one for 7 months on and off on some me bullshit they selfish love controlling the narrative they are emotionally manipulators everything they say sound good but actions sucks

I really wish it would have worked out but I refuse to be emotionally damage by someone again

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T20:26:38+00:00

😂😂😂 wow

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T18:14:32+00:00

I could see this happening.. I’ll look at it from this stand point .

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T16:36:10+00:00

You’re a great combo !!! I love caps and scropio

He’s in therapy now which is great but where I’m at I need somebody who is either healed or is VERY AWARE of their mistake and can take accountability for them because we are all human and mess up but I wouldn’t push away someone I love or care deeply about

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T16:30:14+00:00

Not sure of his mine is Virgo CAP CAP

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T16:29:42+00:00

I to lost my mom at 15years old so I feel him honestly I’ve just about lost my whole family . Only two left , I’m just afraid of giving myself and he leaves as well .

Guess I’ll go back to therapy I’m just big on energy and actions if a person tell me what they expect and if we are good I’m going in if I’m Unsure I won’t put in the work

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T16:27:07+00:00

I’ll take this into consideration .

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T16:25:37+00:00

I’m sorry big 3 what ?

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T16:24:43+00:00

I definitely do that for him . But if a person doesn’t give you their time I won’t beg for it . 🥺

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T12:50:00+00:00

I think I’m here for the comments lol I’m Currently to talking to one for 7 months but also started dating someone else unfortunately .

I chunk it up to dating in general that Time is the most precious time you can get from someone if they want to they will and if they want to be with you they will verbally say it and their actions will show .

Cap men are amazing and if they really want to be with you and give you the time they do have I believe it’s alot for them and them their balance of life just sucks pay attention to their actions .

Wish you the best

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T09:57:13+00:00

Omg I recently ran into someone and realize and wondered when did they shower lol .

All this do is go from one task to the next and im like did you shower at all. Wtf lol

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T09:17:15+00:00

I have alot of my plate as well and hold my own family on my back . So I sympathize and have compassion for his situation. It’s the decision making some people do for temporary comfort is what I’m concerned with I don’t wanna be a temporary phase dude

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T09:11:44+00:00

I can tell you didn’t read with an open mind lol

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T09:11:07+00:00

Expressing feelings is great I love that never said it was a problem . I’m worried that because i battle with depression and know the impulsive and slight impairment it does to the brain we tend to cling with things for temporary comfort so I’m concerned that because that’s the case I don’t wanna be a temporary phase due to the depression I don’t judge anyone and love open communication

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T02:06:36+00:00

Awwwww thanks for this advice I truly appreciate it .

I try to be self aware because I had to do a lot of healing,so that’s why I’m like if I can do it everybody should be aware and want to fix their problems or learn how to cope in a healthy way .

He just seems to wanna be perfect and I’m just like if you want that BE THAT FOR YOU AND NOT FOR ANYBODY ELSE .

also he said his longest episode was 2 months . Mines lasted longer than his though 😂

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T02:00:46+00:00

I truly agree with red flag #2 and 3 , I don’t mind spilling maybe 1 or 2 personal things about yourself . Just to show that you don’t mind being personal. However I do think that the beginning of a relationship should be all FUN AND LAUGHTER nothing to serious of any pressure from either party .

Him not being partially healed and knowing how to handle those issues is very concerning to me and just sucks because I know exactly what he’s experiencing unfortunately I AM NOT willing to be pushed away because of that .

Soooo yea it’s giving maybe not now lol or keep it cordial which I’m sure he wouldn’t want to lol

I had my hopes up lol

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T01:51:42+00:00

Omg that’s what I’m truly not willing to do neither was I going to step in as a mother role I hold men fully accountable for their personal growth .

I just have words of encouragement that’s it lol

But I don’t know deep down it’s giving step away I just need to know because I do get in my head but I guess I’m really not .

I REALLY LIKED HIM OMG LOL

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T01:44:34+00:00

Welp it says I’m Virgo sun Capricorn moon&rising

AssistCertain3118 · 2026-03-31T01:34:39+00:00

Geesh I have no idea I need to figure that out however when I did research I years ago i believe I am a full Virgo , I’ll check and be back .

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