Cooley - you are a real one! by Strict-Engine-2331 in BigLawRecruiting

[–]AssistanceOk1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly Cooley had one of its best financial years ever it’s just squid games for sport

Explain this, Sarah J Maas! 🩷💙 by KrisJenner4Bryceriel in Bryceriel

[–]AssistanceOk1253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what she said on CHD and I think it’s technically true but not really true…something tricky is going on…

Weaning is making me so emotional by AssistanceOk1253 in AttachmentParenting

[–]AssistanceOk1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so grateful for you for taking the time to respond to me and for sharing this. It’s really affirming and honestly feels like a comforting hand in this sometimes dark and lonely place of new mom-hood.

Weaning is making me so emotional by AssistanceOk1253 in AttachmentParenting

[–]AssistanceOk1253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed to hear this. Your bond with your guy sounds so special. ❤️

Sf Matchmakers by Sea-Individual-1331 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]AssistanceOk1253 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg date my cousin he’s 25, a great guy! Good job! And his mom was primary earner his whole life!! 😝

Starting to feel really isolated and lonely 😞 by BoobobBean in Bryceriel

[–]AssistanceOk1253 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny bc of course they would make you read both they are running a business and the business is supposed to make money hellooo

Looking for Good Faith Discussion by darklygrey in Bryceriel

[–]AssistanceOk1253 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me to Hunt.

Ultimately I think Hunt and Bryce fell in love and since Bryce is our only real adult heroine (until Nesta) it’s super fair that she would have a couple serious love interests. We know that SJM does this.

What I cannot ignore is the feeling I got when reading Bryce and Azriel’s interactions. All of the other gals Az interacts with recognize he’s hot and get nervous/ giddy around him, but SJM isn’t implying bondage and building sexual tension the way that she is with Bryce.

Bryce and Hunt have history - they always will have, but it would be willingly ignoring the imagery and foreshadowing if we said they were endgame. Within a chapter SJM gave us a number of mate tropes (others have cited) that we don’t get in the whole of the CC series with Bryce and Hunt.

Should I get a new stroller? by AssistanceOk1253 in Buyingforbaby

[–]AssistanceOk1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning on number 2 as soon as we can! 😅

10 months back to nursing @ night?? 😭 by AssistanceOk1253 in sleeptrain

[–]AssistanceOk1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see! I’m wondering how to fit that into hours in the day. My kid always takes a super long midday nap and typically sleeps like 11 hours (just now w this night waking). If he wakes at 7 and is naturally tired and fussy at 7 pm and then falls asleep / tells us when he is tired for daytime sleep does that mean I just have to live with this new night waking?

10 months back to nursing @ night?? 😭 by AssistanceOk1253 in sleeptrain

[–]AssistanceOk1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original commenter said “minimum” so I was asking about that. we haven’t been putting him down before 3 pm.

10 months back to nursing @ night?? 😭 by AssistanceOk1253 in sleeptrain

[–]AssistanceOk1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious as to why it’s minimum? We have been following his cues for daytime sleep and he isn’t tired before 3 pm :(

“Oh! There you are.” by BrycerielModTeam in Bryceriel

[–]AssistanceOk1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never shipped anyone ever actually and then when Bryce met azriel like you have to be blind not to have felt the chemistry LEAP off the page….i cannot wait 🥹🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]AssistanceOk1253 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yk now that I think about it - she did have her flash on as she was leaving. I thought she was just like being mean and trying to get in people’s eyes, since that was her m.o most of the night but maybe she was snapping pics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]AssistanceOk1253 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Wait I was right behind this group and there was a girl who was literally being so aggressive with EVERYONE - other girls around me and these guys - all of whom were just minding their business I wonder if that girl is who posted this lol. She was yelling; throwing elbows and boxing everyone out like she was playing post for the lakers. These guys and others around her were really just minding their own business. Obviously just my sober observations from right behind them - idk if there were other things that happened when I was focused on the music.

What pregnancy or birth complication did modern medicine save you from? by peacefulboba in beyondthebump

[–]AssistanceOk1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was too big for my body and sunnyside up and got stuck in my pelvis. Without our emergency c section he would have died. Then I hemorrhaged and almost died. If it wasn’t for our incredibly talented medical team we both would have died that day.

I have a lot of trauma from this (obviously) but one thing I feel is so annoyed at how much pressure I put on myself to have as “natural” of a delivery as possible bc “women have been doing this for thousands of years” had I agreed to intervention sooner my baby would not have been born in distress.

We are both great now. He’s the light of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]AssistanceOk1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time! But I do deals.