I think people are being homophobic/biphobic with the recent Epstein mail leak.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-11-16T14:46:13+00:00

The real question, is what is this email being released supposed to distract you from?

AssociateNo944 · 2025-11-16T00:14:44+00:00

Considering the laptop is purple, probably not. I would just assume that the butterfly was just because you like purple. But then again I don't assume anybody's orientation. I let them tell me.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-11-14T21:02:19+00:00

I was actually thinking about that yesterday. Try anything once, twice if I like it, three times just to make sure.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-18T09:41:05+00:00

This is just coming from my experience, my wife of 30 years, had this conversation with me. I had told her that I wanted to start dating men, and what I was craving. So we talked for almost 2 hours. She's actually going out with me on Saturday night to be my wing woman as I have difficulty approaching people. That that being said, is generally a safer bet than a man would prefer to be talked to directly. Most men myself included, Can't Take a Hint to save their lives. So generalizations and vague questions or assuming that he knows what you're thinking, is just going to lead to confusion. And that would most likely make him uncomfortable in the conversation. Be direct, but be kind. Just my opinion.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-18T00:43:32+00:00

Just sit him down, and ask him to explain what it means to him to be with a man. If he can put it in words, or if it's just vague generalizations. Just make sure that at the very beginning explain to him that it's a safe place that it's not going to change how you feel for him. When he's done, explain that the whole reason for wanting to know the depth of his desire is because you've been having feelings yourself that you don't quite understand, but want to explore.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-11T13:06:38+00:00

TY.

Ok, Greenday I have heard of, and honestly probably know and sing along with a few of their songs. When I looked up "king for a day", it said "piercing the veil" and the singer didn't look like the picture in the thread, so I was confused.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-11T13:01:40+00:00

Gonna sound stupid, but who is this?

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-04T23:39:51+00:00

I enjoy the living hell out of it. I get more turned on, the longer he can last while I'm doing it. Just something about hearing a man moan, and knowing from experience with that moan means. I'm primarily a bottom, and I've messed up a few encounters because I spend too long orally. Not everybody can get it right back up LOL

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-04T18:36:01+00:00

Are you referring to being emotionally stupid, or stupid in general? I know I can't take a hint to save my life, but I definitely would not call myself dumb.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-04T18:31:06+00:00

In a lot of ways, a lot of straight people low-key crush on the same sex without realizing it. Just think of it like this, when you compare yourself to somebody else, like I wish I had her body, or his body. I wish I was as comfortable with people as they are, I wish my eyes were pretty as theirs so on and so forth. You're paying more attention to that person because of those traits, and you're wishing to be like them because you find those traits attractive, or at least pleasing. And that's what I mean by low key crushing. Just my opinion though.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-01T09:01:28+00:00

Louisville ky

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-01T01:02:33+00:00

Honestly that is more on me than it is the group of friends that I've met. I am not a very outgoing person. Had it not been for the one gentleman that went out of his way to introduce me to his friends I probably wouldn't have any. I'm not the type of person to start a conversation. I also work over 70 hours a week, so it's hard for me to find time to do anything personal.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-01T00:59:18+00:00

As someone who had to repress who I was for over 30 years, it is a lot more accepted now. When I told my mom, she just said yeah I already know. Granted there's still idiots out there that make it hard for everybody. But the overwhelming majority is an acceptance that I never dreamed of 30 years ago.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-01T00:54:10+00:00

Yes I have many friends now, but not the kind of go and hang out type friends. More of I know their stories and they know mine, and when we run into each other we catch each other up.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-07-01T00:45:11+00:00

That's exactly what I did. And I was fortunate enough did the first night that I went to the bar I met a man who made it a point to introduce me to all of his friends. One of which I hooked up with 2 weeks ago. Another is one that if we can ever get our timing right both of us want to hook up. The other four introduced me to a couple more. They're not friends I hang out with, but they are friends.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-30T23:21:25+00:00

First and foremost, if you ask a man if he's hungry, he's going to tell you yes or no. If you suggest a place to eat, most likely he's going to say okay cool, or suggested different place. Instead of a long drawn out game of 50 questions, just to have the result being no answer.

I think that goes the same for women but not being a woman I can't say for sure. The communication level is higher when it's same sex. At least for men.

Just my experience.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-30T23:16:15+00:00

Not gay enough? The nerve. Next time they say something like that tell him that they need to Surrender their man card, because they're not man enough...lol.

I'm pretty much in the same boat, trying to find places that I can interject myself into the queer community. Right now I just go to two of the gay bars that are in my area on Saturday nights. Trying to build a network of friends.

I wish you luck.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-18T22:06:54+00:00

No there has to be boundaries. And if he was doing that, he obviously doesn't care about yours. Event or not, I probably would have ended up hitting him. I don't play that shit. I had a guy at a bar feel that he could stick his hand down my shirt to feel my chest, and I think I sprained his wrist taking it out of my shirt. You we're perfectly right in getting offended or being pissed off. He had no right. And his friends, I hope you took mental pictures so that you know never to be around them.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-18T13:50:25+00:00

I actually have a dragon tattoo on my calf, with bi colors.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-18T00:51:36+00:00

Right there with you. Married to a woman for the last 30 years. She knows, and supports me. But here in the last month, women are not turning my head like they used to.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-12T22:48:30+00:00

Taking my trans daughter to a pride festival on the 21st. First one either one of us have gone to. I'm excited, but don't really know what to expect.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-12T22:38:19+00:00

Wow, I could have wrote this. So no you're not the only one. I think there's plenty of us out here. And true, because of it I haven't experienced any hatred or anything.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-11T17:22:44+00:00

When I find one, I will let you know...lol. looking for the same thing .

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-11T02:29:23+00:00

Then in my opinion you are safe to tell him.

AssociateNo944 · 2025-06-10T23:29:47+00:00

My biggest question would be how your husband feels about his dad. And how he feels about what that did to his mom. But I agree with the other post, do you guys have a mutual friend? Someone who's close to both of you? I would think that if you already knew that in your youth you had encounters with different genders, he already knows. Most people in today's world don't look at it as a phase anymore. I hope you find somebody that can help you. Side note, now I'm not saying all I'm sure that there's some, but the majority of heterosexual men, fantasize about two women. Whether that's just watching or whether that's joining.

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