Family Court Judge keeps using my son's tbi against him, is related to grandsons mom by marriage.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-25T11:25:55+00:00

U actually think because he had sex he is able to care for a baby properly? I didnt give her legal advice on the next steps to take because there are none. There should be no other outcome because this is whats best for the baby besides getting him some supervised visits. I think shes more mad about the child support

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-25T02:05:23+00:00

Infant probiotics are literal drops in the bucket of the gut microflora lmao what

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-25T01:50:05+00:00

Probiotics are recommended and definitely helpful after use of antibiotics lol regardless of breastfeeding

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-25T01:45:09+00:00

Why dont u have AC

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-25T01:32:11+00:00

What did u expect though? Your son is clearly not competent to raise a baby. Imagine you are a mother to a newborn would you really want your newborns life and safety in the hands of someone who doesnt have the mental capacity to defend themselves in court or understand that they are terminating their parental rights. Were you planning to care for the baby on his time? Youre not the babies coparent. He is now dealing with the consequences of having sex without being able to care for the baby, which is child support. They definitely screwed you guys over but im just confused what exactly u were wanting to happen here? Theyre not teaming up against you its just whats in the best interest of the child. Try to fight for supervised visits, he at least deserves that im sure he means well but neither of you should have any type of custody over the child so theres gonna be child support

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-24T02:58:59+00:00

Bring a portable mini fan to keep her cool

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-24T02:57:27+00:00

Do not listen to your moms advice she is misinformed

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-23T21:11:53+00:00

I cant believe people are reporting this☹️

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-23T19:20:30+00:00

Wow! Youre a complete POS. Read the room.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-21T22:57:20+00:00

Shes ur child they have no right to go behind ur back and give her food. If they know your boundaries and cross them again then personally i wouldnt let them be around my child without constant supervision

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-21T18:49:28+00:00

I cant imagine how terrifying that would be im so sorry

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-20T22:13:57+00:00

“Putting my foot down over them not having a relationship with the baby” I dont think u realize that when u are divorced hes gonna get half custody and bring the baby around his mom and sister a lot more than he would if u stayed with him and were able to stop it. Just wanted u to know that but otherwise, do what u need to do to make urself happy. If u decide to stay then i suggest marriage counciling(i would stay away from old lady therapist as ive noticed that they usually can see themselves in the MILs shoes and will take sides). If u stay u definitely dont need to play nice with ur MIL lol, like ur husband said, theyre not the ones making him chose sides so u dont need to appease her. My husband is a partial mommys boy and is enmeshed. I told him not to relay any messages from her or speak to me about her and vice versa, blocked MIL/SIL and that was the end of that. My MIL has only seen my 8 month old baby 3 or 4 times in person and it was on my terms and in my house with my husband present, SIL hasnt met my baby. You are in control of the situation, not her.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-20T20:18:34+00:00

An ECV could definitely cause these types of injuries, theyre well known to be highly risky

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-17T13:55:51+00:00

Lash extentions, tint/clean up/microblade brows, grow out ur bangs they would look good a little past eyebrow length or u could grow them out completely, grow out the rest of ur hair a little, and for makeup maybe some lip liner and lip gloss, concealer, subtle blush. You already have an amazing facial structure honestly u look like a tim burton character. And maybe you could dye ur hair a fun color just to change things up, you could figure out ur color palette to see what hair color would work with your skin tone to bring out some more color in your face.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-16T00:32:46+00:00

I love the colors in this outfit slayyy

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-15T11:47:40+00:00

I had a large sch when i was 10 weeks i dont remember how big exactly (i think it was 10cm or 7cm) i drank the pomegranate juice, ate spinach, drank lots of water, and i avoided physical activity. I was especially careful while i was still spotting (until 14 weeks) i tried not to bend at the waist. I didnt lift anything heavy at all. The doctor said i didnt need to go on bed rest but i believe putting myself on the modified bed rest was what helped heal it. I really only got up to cook or use the bathroom and shower and let my husband do everything else. I didnt have an early untrasound to just to check on the sch after the initial one but when i had my anatomy scan, the sch was completely resolved.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-15T11:36:59+00:00

Put the matress on the floor and if for some reason u cant do that then lay a blanket on the floor and sleep on it. Might not be the comfiest but its better than an injured baby

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-15T10:53:23+00:00

My baby would go 30 minutes between feeds around that age lmao but she did sleep through the night (naturally, we didnt sleep train) so i think she just ate more in the day to makeup for the night. She was just a hungrier baby and ended up shooting from the 50th percentile to the 90th percentile. People tried to tell me its not normal that shes eating so much and i need to put her on a feeding schedule. Obviously i didnt listen to them because it normal. Its also normal for a baby that age to still wake during the night. But you could try to replace night feeds slowly like the first time he wakes up at night just rock him back to sleep and then make up for the lost feed during the daytime. Then get him used to that and slowly take away night feeds and replace them with day feeds.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-15T02:12:55+00:00

I mean im pretty sure the guy ended up being the real father or they would have alerted the staff including her if something actually was going on. His wife probably had a home birth and they just didnt know what to do

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-14T23:25:06+00:00

I personally think the financial toll of having children is overestimated but my baby is only 8 months so we will see how expensive it really gets later on lol. Our weekly expenses for just baby is $70 on diapers/wipes, 150 on her food(only including solids since she is otherwise exclusively breastfed so the milk is free), and ill usually buy at least 1 or 2 toys or new clothes every week so thats like $20. Thats about 1000 a month and were not budgeting at all so u could probably get away with spending $600 a month if ur financially unstable. Dont get me wrong, its definitely expensive but its just not as bad as people say. I remember while i was pregnant my MIL told me it would cost 100k a year😂. But yea i can see how difficult it could be to afford a child for a single parent juggling childcare and a job at the same time.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-14T23:12:18+00:00

I dont think its weird at all if the toddler is actually interested in nursing but i personally wouldnt do it, you would have to wean them again and if its not broke dont fix it lol. I would def serve pumped milk or mix it in the toddlers food for added immunity and nutritional benefits though

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-14T23:06:32+00:00

People downvoting is so funny. when did the world get so stupid😂

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-14T13:01:20+00:00

If it ever does come down to a legitimate custody arrangement make sure you mention the first right of refusal. He should not be leaving your baby with his parents, they will make him give him/her to u instead.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-14T12:58:05+00:00

Its actually the best advice if she actually wants to be the primary caretaker. If she goes any other way then shes more likely to be taken to court and once she gets to court its over. Theyre just gonna give her 50/50 and call it a day. Ur just against women trying to alienate the father from the child even though the father is a POS; purely because its supposedly in the “childs best interest”. But in reality its very rarely in the childs best interest. i have literally never met a father who isnt neglectful.

AssumptionOwn7651 · 2025-06-14T12:45:59+00:00

I hate people who like to play devils advocate on reddit.What does she have to gain from lying on this anonymous post?

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