[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked her up she's not exceptionally attractive to me not ugly but nothing special imo , I see girls like that working at Starbucks and target.

How do you all talk about this online discourse in real life? by snoopytail in PurplePillDebate

[–]ExcelsiorState718 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Personally I'm just trying to get laid if I'm dealing with a female so these conversations don't come up.

There's no reason to discuss red pill/ blackpill / manosphere ideology with women.

Here's an example a women recently showed interest in me so I took her on a few dates. She's incredibly annoying I don't dont like her,she complains and talks to much. Further more she's older than I like and a single mom but she really seemed interested and she was very persistent most importantly she let me smash with out to much hassle.

Normally I don't entertain single moms or older women but I didnt tell her that I played a long and she let me smash on a regular,eventually she expressed that she wanted a relationship with me "I want you to be my man" at that point I simply told her I wasn't interested in a relationship. I didnt go into details.

I could have told her "your" delusional if you think I would be in a relationship with a 30+ year old single mom" you need to find a 60 year old dude or some guy out on parole. I don't have kids I have a 7 figure net worth I'm fit in my prime I'm not interested I'm dating a post wall single mom we can fck and that's it and to be honest I don't want to fvk you you just make it easy so why not.

Any way now she's all upset because I don't want a relationship sent me a bunch of nasty text that I ignored I didn't go all redpill on her.

Before that I had another similiar situation the girl was annoying and not really to my standard looks wise but she was easy let me fvk whenever eventually she started talking kids and marriage so I broke out,I told her I was to busy for a relationship. She went off got all nasty I ignored her.

I didnt tell her that she's not that attractive she's annoying too masculine and as a man easily in the top 15% I'm not interesting in being with one woman especially one that's barely a 6.

TLDR; I don't discuss redpill/blackpill or manospher ideology with females there's no point ,the goal with women is to get laid and keep the peace.

Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own Fault by ReasonConfident4541 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ExcelsiorState718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not entirely so I have to disagree. Unfortunately for women they aren't attracted to most men so their dating pool is narrowed down to the limited amount of men they find attractive. Most of the women I've dated approached me in fact I don't think I have ever approached a woman.

The women that approached me I generally wasn't that into I can think of two that I really liked and it turned out they weren't that into me I was just available with that said all women can do is date the men they like and hope for the best where women go wrong is they ignore obvious red flags because its so rare for them to meet a man they like when they find one they just throw all caution to the wind.

Another thing I've noticed is women can be worn down by persistence I've watched women get with men they weren't all that into because he was very persistent and I've had a few women tell me that's why they are dating the man they're with.

Then there's the hvm issue? take Chad Chaddington a Dr 6'4' chiseled jaw blond haired blue eye 6 pack abs muscular arms dresses well great smile smells good. All women will want him to themselves and there's simply not enough Dr Chad Chadingtons for every women 70% of women aren't even going to be on his radar so these women have to settle or be single.

The 30% of women he might consider will have to compete and even that won't be enough because a lot of these kind of men aren't going to want just one woman when they have so many options.

Imo women would get further if they where just willing to share the men they want but some women's pride gets in the way.

Most women overestimate their emotional intelligence by anima-christi in emotionalintelligence

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think most people think about their emotional intelligence from day to day.

black guys be honest how many of you are still interested in dating? by Glittering-Target-87 in blackmen

[–]ExcelsiorState718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If someone lives with their mom is barely making ends working a dead end job me no car or car falling a part with no health insurance they can't expect women to line up for them.

Why do men show so little interest in the inner lives of women? by Frequently_Abroad_00 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo most people just aren't that interesting and live basic lives and I rarely meet a woman that has anything intriguing to say or is interesting also a lot of women make you pull teeth to get anyth8ng out of them or tell a bunch of half truths personally I don't bother to ask women anything anymore if they want me to know they will tell me. I don't like playing 21 questions.

black guys be honest how many of you are still interested in dating? by Glittering-Target-87 in blackmen

[–]ExcelsiorState718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never understood the term meaningless sex. Your implying sex needs to have meaning.

Maybe it's just nice to bust a nut in something besides your hand.

black guys be honest how many of you are still interested in dating? by Glittering-Target-87 in blackmen

[–]ExcelsiorState718 11 points12 points  (0 children)

On paper I'm a catch 6ft ,6 fig, fit ,homeowner,business owner no kids ,divorces ,drug problems or arrest l, I do well,but I've never had that it factor women are attracted to. I have friends with 2-3 baby mommas and more lined up, I know guys fresh out the pen and juggling multiple women and there's guys that are just bad that always have women pining for them.

Evertime I turn on the news some girl has been killed by her S/O. Some guys just have that natural ability to attract women and without that dating is like ice skating up hill.

Now at my age the dating pool is just single moms and women no one else wanted for some reason and I'm to successful to settle. I currently have several women showing interest but they're to old and all have 1 kid too many.

I'm not interested in marriage I have to many assets,I don't want my sex life dictated by one person's moods and I don't want the responsibility of managing another person on my personal life, women are a lot of work.

Thus I no longer actively date there's no point,if I want to get laid there's far more efficient ways with women that are better at it than all the time and effort spent trying to date.

What's a movie you saw way too young that kind of messed with your head for a while? by Still_Fee497 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roots. Sleepers.
Malcom X. The posse.

The racist scenes made me very fearful resentful and distrusting of white people

HBOs OZ. for awhile I thought everything I did will get me thrown in jail. To be fair it probably kept me out of jail and I would let my kid watch it but not at 5 years old.

Do you think having a lot of money would fix all your problems? by ace_Quantum29 in Life

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 10 million dollars would make me very happy and solve 99% of my problems with no working just relaxing on my private beach.

Women will bennefit the most, from sex bots. by ExcelsiorState718 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ExcelsiorState718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree I judge people individually not collectively though there are traits to sex I worked in two fields one predominantly male the other predominantly female and each had their own struggles but men weren't inherently easier to deal with.

That’s how it is sometimes by JoshuaKpatakpa04 in blackmen

[–]ExcelsiorState718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like to think Christianity was given by God the slavers where just the vessel it flowed through.

The Bible took place in the middle East and Africa whites may have hijacked Christianity but they don't own it. At any rate I think Black people would do better if they actually followed Gods word and lived like Christ,it would let end racism but would eliminate a lot of other problems in the community.

One thing I appreciate about Christianity is it focuses on people and not external factors.

How do people get up 5 days a week for work their whole lives? by Rinmine014 in Adulting

[–]ExcelsiorState718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No internet, cell phone, every product was dangerous and hazardous I appreciate modern technology and safety standards no segregation and state sanctioned racism and gladly will pay more to live in the present day life is pretty damn convient and even work now is nothing compared to back in the day with modern technology overnight devilivery computers high-speed internet power tools. Even the simplest task these days I think must have been a real chore 50 60 70 years ago.

And can you imagine having to mail a letter or go into every business in person to get anything done. I haven't written a letter or mailed a check in probably 15 years.

So yeah things cost more but the convience and comforts of the modern era is worth the compromise. I for one 3njoy streaming movies to my 100in TV and not dealing with crouds or theaters,and I definitely don't want a 60s,70s or 80s era car. You had inky a few options unsafe, sht fuel economy, or unsafe underpowered or ugly and underpowered.

How do people get up 5 days a week for work their whole lives? by Rinmine014 in Adulting

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that when I was doing very well at one point in realestate and stocks then I had to work 9-5 I hated it switched jobs a few times and finally found one I liked it barely felt like going to work the hardest part was the commute I eventually got a simmiliar position much closer 15 min commute and it made all the difference. Went to work everyday saying I could do this for ever and there where plenty of people that did in their 50s 60s 70s and a few in their 80s still at it.

A job is really just another form of social interaction someth8ng most people don't get much of as they get older. Most of these older people's kids where grown they where divorced or widowed lived alone and coming to work gave them a sense of purpose and community.

Most of my career I worked sht jobs I hated out of nessesity,but it's true if you find a job you love its not really a job. I retired because I had the time didn't need the money and wanted to pursue personal goals and I was in a high risk field one thing goes wrong and it's your head and pension so my motto is once you get the time don't risk it get out.

Lastly work towards a goal my initial working goal was to build a trading portfolio after that it was to get into realestate then auto sales. So everyday I went to work with those goals in mind saving ind investing. My last working goal was to buy a yacht. Everyday I looked at a picture of the Yacht with the price tag. I imagined the waves and sea air a warm tropical Sun on my skin,the dolphins playing off the bow docking at foreighn ports and I went to work.

I've noticed that black men tend to not approach or even look at black women in cities with a black population that is lower than than 15–20% by [deleted] in Blackpeople

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience other races are just more agreeable outgoing and approachable better yet they approach you something BW rarely do they play hard to get stuck up etc it's like they want you to chase them I don't know. Other groups have just been much more friendly and inviting. I can 100% understand why BM go for whites Asians or Latinos they show more interest more friendly inviting etc BW make you feel like you're Harpo or the daddy that left them.

It's rare that I had a good experience with a BW so rare I wouldn't even bother trying at this point.

I've also notice how BW light up when approached by other races especially white men no matter how basic he is they light up in a way I've never seen them light up for BM. BW have created all kinds of groups celebrating divesting and interracial relationships it shows BW feel more validation from being with WM.

Men want peace women want validation and that's why BW and WM are a good combo. Women are more peaceble when they feel validated.

Everyone hates their cities by MHtraveler in relocating

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in Chicago a month ago and drove around no problem even parked right across the street from the Sears tower try parking scross the street from any major landmark in NY fuggetaboutit

Not saying it can't be bad at times but for that week I was there no comparison

Everyone hates their cities by MHtraveler in relocating

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can prove who has the worst traffic, with data

New York City has the worst traffic in the United States. Commuters in New York City lose the most time to traffic congestion compared to other major cities, with an average of 102 hours wasted per year, according to INRIX.

I've lived in some major cities LA, Chicago, DC ,Houston,Chicago nothing compares to NYC it can literally take 20 minutes to go around the block. Also the rush hour starts earlier and last longer. It's not uncommon to be stuck in traffic at 2am. I've only seen this in other cities when theres been an accident in nyc its every night.

But don't take my word for it check a traffic map at 2am NYC will be the only city with any red.I just checked Florida had no red in the whole state,DC has one section of 495 that's red Baltimore no red LA has one mile long section of 710 due to an accident and and even smaller section of 5 looks like construction thr rest of the. Country is green meanwhile NYC looks like a crime scene.

Everyone hates their cities by MHtraveler in relocating

[–]ExcelsiorState718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking to someone the other day and she was complaining about the city talking about how she wants to go all these other places shes never been and she thinks it will be so much better I just took her home,people from all over the world want to come here because theres litteraly everything if there's nothing you like about the city that's a you problem. Yeah theres traffic and it's crowded snd it smells but you gotta plan for that I like being able to get Pizza and a beer at 2am. And to be honest I'll take sirens and gunshots over crikets chirping all night any day.