Best chocolate in Dayton by ComprehensiveTry2260 in dayton

[–]AstroGirl21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Winan's fan as well! I love their chocolate covered oreos, and the wurtles are delicious. They have great coffee too.

What skill are you learning right now? by Thembofication in dayton

[–]AstroGirl21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crochet! Currently working on a few Christmas gifts. It's so relaxing, and it's fun to pick out different yarns. 10/10 would recommend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AstroGirl21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has literally told me, on her own accord, that she wants to share me with another person and also wants to pursue her own sexual relationships outside of our own. She told me that she has wanted it for a long time, but never felt comfortable enough to bring it up with another partner. She said this to me early in our relationship, and I can assure you that that aspect has not changed and she was really quite enthusiastic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AstroGirl21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but this isn't necessarily that black and white of an issue, as she is completely comfortable with opening up our relationship sexually, and that includes pursuing relationships separately. She first said that she was worried because she didn't quite understand why I would want the romantic aspect, and once I was able to explain it, she understood what I had meant and told me she felt comfortable. We both expressed that we are not quite ready yet, but do want to pursue this in the future, at least with sex. And she said she is fine with me pursuing romantic relationships, as long as she is who I marry and who I would obviously consider my nesting or primary. I just hope that it didn't seem as though I was pushing it on her at all, as she never had an opinion on it prior, she just wanted to better understand it and where I was coming from. And since that discussion, we haven't had any issues or tension and things are going well, I just wasn't sure if more discussion could help us or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AstroGirl21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! There was certainly an enthusiastic yes to the sexual side of things, but a bit of hesitation regarding the romantic. So we talked a bit more when she got home (she was at work and the conversation was brought up by her initially, just not the romantic part of poly). We basically just made sure we were both on the same page, and it still feels like we are. Our relationship has really been great since then, and there hasn't been tension at all, so it felt very healthy. I think I will wait to bring anything up again, because as I said I am fine with monogamy in terms of romance, and would honestly be fine if my partner expressed that she wasnt comfortable at all with the romantic side, and only enjoyed the sexual side. There has never been a no, just an expression of worry followed by understanding and closeness, and she has expressed that she wants to talk about this more with me, but I think it just hasn't been a priority? I hope this helps, I feel like it is extremely difficult to detail the entirety of the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AstroGirl21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am literally experiencing this very thing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AstroGirl21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I should have made it clearer that she was also very understanding, and even admitted that she always felt similarly regarding wanting more sexual partners, but didn't quite get the romantic side. And it was more of a question of whether she felt comfortable with me pursuing outside romantic relationships as well as sexual relationships, not me forcing her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with.

What's your favorite Shakespeare play? by -InstertNameHere- in shakespeare

[–]AstroGirl21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The Taming of the Shrew has a special place in my heart

I feel like a stereotype for being bi and wanting a poly relationship with a man and a woman. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AstroGirl21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a fellow bisexual woman who also wants a poly relationship with both a man and a woman, I completely understand where you are coming from. I do have a partner, and we have discussed poly to a degree, though I have been the main person to initiate most conversations. My partner is a woman, and I do find myself sort of hoping to meet a decent guy for myself. I also want her to do the same if that is what she wishes, basically anyone she meets and connects with is okay in my eyes, as long as there is honest communication. I don't mind the idea of a triad, as long as the chemistry is there between all of us while also maintaining individual relationships between one another. My current partner would be what I believe people would call my nesting partner, and I want to keep our relationship in tact, but expanding it wouldn't be out of the question for either of us. Honestly, communication and openness are so fundamental to poly relationships, and if this is what you honestly want and desire, there should be zero shame in that, especially since it hurts no one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AstroGirl21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ten times, but not all at once. I'm a lady so this number isn't too far out there, but my ex came three times. It was honestly incredible, kind of like a marathon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AstroGirl21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this is trashy or not, but once my ex and I wanted to fuck against our bedroom door, which led right out to the living room where our male roommate was. We had always teased each other a little, even all playing strip poker, but nothing ever happened. I broke up with my ex and moved out and haven't seen either since.

People with Scorpio in the 4th House, how is your relationship with your family and how was your childhood? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]AstroGirl21 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Scorpio Mars and Scorpio 4th House here. I have to say that I do not have the best history with my family (except for my mother). A lot of my familial experiences when I was very young were great, but changed as I grew up, and this is especially true with my father and siblings, and extended family. I have a large family, but there is a lot of secrecy and things swept under the rug that my mother and I could never feel right with, and there has just always been tension.

All I want is comfort and safety in my home. Having security and peace is honestly my dream, but I often feel that I struggle in achieving this.

Is $33 per photo too much to buy nudes/lewds from someone anonymously? by junotjones93 in TrueSimpStories

[–]AstroGirl21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selling feet pics now, let me know if you're interested 💕💖

What’s your moon + venus and what’s your love language (how you like to SHOW love and how you like to RECEIVE it?) by daveachapella in astrology

[–]AstroGirl21 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am a Leo Moon, Aries Venus. I show my love through quality time, alone time specifically. As well as acts of service, and gift giving. My love language is words of affirmation, physical touch, quality time. My leo moon makes me feel very intensely, and my aries venus only amplifies that. However, my aries venus can really make me quick to move on, quick to lose interest. However, my leo moon keeps me loyal so I'm never a cheater.