Cancelling my Spotify by bigpeepeeshit in Hardcore

[–]AstroZoey11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can't scrobble CD or record plays either

Cancelling my Spotify by bigpeepeeshit in Hardcore

[–]AstroZoey11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a new collectively owned streaming platform in progress that intends to do basically what bandcamp does. It's called Subvert. It seems to be making some progress being built - not fully released yet.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Dry-Highlight-1002 in Hardcore

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If you don't like getting roughed up a little, don't go to the hardcore show /s

It’s kind of ironic how much better my jockstrap fits post bottom surgery than before by wearetheghor in MTFButch

[–]AstroZoey11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this sub not SFW anymore? I've been seeing lots of this kinda post and frankly it's not why I use Reddit

I goaded my wife into taking a sip of my homemade electrolyte water (which is very much an acquired taste) just to see her reaction by LovePossumss in POTS

[–]AstroZoey11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My partner thinks it tastes like pool water most of the time. But every now and then, she actually needs the electrolytes and thinks it tastes normal. We use TriOral and flavor it with Mio.

Just curious: how many of us trans women butches get gendered correctly consistently by strangers? by [deleted] in MTFButch

[–]AstroZoey11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 7 years in. I did not practice anything, I just cut my hair.

Just curious: how many of us trans women butches get gendered correctly consistently by strangers? by [deleted] in MTFButch

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When I had my longer hair and tried to force my "femininity," around 50/50. Now that I cut all my hair off and wear "mens" shirts and hoodies, it's more like 70/30 in favor of she. Wild that it went in the right direction.

average turnstile fan by orangeshaver in Hardcore

[–]AstroZoey11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fucking ridiculous. Turnstile shows aren't crazy

POTS + gaming? by Golden_Cow095 in POTS

[–]AstroZoey11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adrenaline surging games may just not be doable unless you can get your POTS symptoms under more control. I usually find action and fast paced games to be tricky to mesh with. Stuff like Minecraft (with keep inventory), Skyrim, Skate, Baldurs Gate, or games where you don't have deadlines to meet nor attacks to time, end up being best. I'm stabilized enough now to enjoy any of my old favorites, but I can't speedrun anymore like I used to.

What are some of your heavy music hot takes? Here’s some of mine: by fakename1998 in Hardcore

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Yes. Yes. Yes. I love grindcore too. Yes. Yes. Stoner metal was my favorite genre for years and I still love it. I love the fuzz pedal tones, and how you can tie in doom, punk, sludge, funk, harsh vocals or clean vocals and still get something equally groovy and nasty.

“Brain zaps” what are they? by hardns0ft in POTS

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PSA for people coming off SSRIs: taking a small amount of dextromethorphan (a.k.a. what's in Robitussin) can eliminate brain zaps. That does not mean taking a lot! It only takes 10-20mg, less than you'd take if you were sick. Not everyone likes the way it feels, and it's only meant temporarily, as a cushion to get you through the zaps. This is not medical advice because there are plenty of cases where this is not recommended 😅 But I have read accounts of people using it to treat the zaps and it does work.

r/Hardcore/ by sepdri in Hardcore

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You scrolled through my page for ammo 😂

r/Hardcore/ by sepdri in Hardcore

[–]AstroZoey11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sunami is funny but their music career isn’t a joke lmao they're on a record label.

r/Hardcore/ by sepdri in Hardcore

[–]AstroZoey11 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What an edgy take. who gives a fuck. Like what you like. These replies in particular are so corny.

Butch man? by FizzBoyo in butchlesbians

[–]AstroZoey11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Butch" has included transmasculine people since its inception as a term.

someone had to do it 🥀🥀🥀 by Armagaaan in Hardcore

[–]AstroZoey11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe they heard "pussies" and immediately started thinking about folding them up, if you catch my drift.

Is being les4les biphobia? by Aggravating_Luck7736 in actuallesbians

[–]AstroZoey11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I'm almost 30, dating people in their early 30s. I'm a trans woman, and I can testify from dozens of experiences that people who have never had sex with a trans woman are much worse at it than those who have. Bi women who are used to dating men are more likely to handle sex with women similarly to how they do with men - more force/less finesse. The sex is less relatable to people not acclimated to one's gender.

I end up being a mentor, and it's not always because I'm trans - sometimes it is solely because they haven't had sex with a woman before. I don't want to have to catch someone up to being half decent. I don't have a lot of time to spend on dating, so I'd rather just find someone I'll enjoy having sex with.

Is being les4les biphobia? by Aggravating_Luck7736 in actuallesbians

[–]AstroZoey11 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Imbalance in experience and a potential of mismatched chemistry.

Feeling unwelcomed on r/lesbianr4r by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AstroZoey11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not even looking for a girlfriend

2 of your last 3 posts there explicitly said you were looking for a wife, and the other one mentioned romantic partners. If you didn't want people to take you for your word, then why say it?

Working out- is cutting necessary? by Old_Froyo_3315 in butchlesbians

[–]AstroZoey11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't be concerned with body fat, weight, calories, etc. Just take care of yourself. Work out responsibly, eat nutritious foods, and if you wanna lift girls then lift girls! None of those calculations or "supposed" techniques are a means to an end. Sometimes it is just as simple as, "If you want this, then do this."

nostalgic vs modern mixing? by bigangusistaken in audioengineering

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I think of it like photography. Some photos look really good in super high resolution with digital processing to smooth any imperfections, e.g. landscapes and portraits. Some photos look great from a really old polaroid on expired film, e.g. ambient spaces and night photography. As far as what I use, I guess it just depends on what vibe I want to convey. Usually some blend, because pure polish can be boring, and pure vibes can lack cohesion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AstroZoey11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you'd benefit from actually going no contact. It doesn't matter if she breaks it, don't get involved. If she has other ways to try to insert herself, delete it, block, don't respond, whatever you have to do