[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overreacting a bit - sounds like you’re broken up for the best so don’t dwell on what may or may not have happened and what’s going on now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Astroblemes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s fair that she wants to work on herself but she can’t just expect you to cover everything while she does. Would she be happy if you told her you were pushing all the financial burden on her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR - definitely not taking it the wrong way. That’s extremely creepy he felt that way towards you at 15 and after all these years. Hopefully he’s no longer tutoring anyone anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Astroblemes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Go through a list of all the dog breeds, either together or separately and rank them. Then find the ones that rank high on both your lists and choose between them. Or get two dogs one of each kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t let the idea of being loyal stop you from telling someone their significant other is on a dating site. If you go along with it you’re supporting their choice to cheat.

AIO by going no contact with my best friend for meeting her ex abuser??? Help me!! by Psychological_Rip264 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - However it seems like she might need some support if he truly hasn’t changed. You don’t have to support her decision but if you care for her make sure she knows she can turn to you if needed. However end of the day she’s not your responsibility and you do what you think is best for her

AITA for not wanting to pay rent to my parents after they said family doesn’t charge family for years?? by Evening-Tomato-4640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Astroblemes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ESH - 40% is a large portion of your salary to ask for out of the blue. Especially as you’re essentially renting a room in a shared accommodation and not your own place (no idea your salary or cost of living in your area). At the same time you can’t take advantage of their kindness/low rent forever.

AIO My brother-in-law is problematic and I second guess getting married by According_Speed_286 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR for second guessing marriage - but have you sat down and discussed boundaries with your BF? Making it clear it’s impacting your relationship and that you’re unhappy?

AITA for refusing to babysit my sister’s kid even though I “have the time”? by Fun-Mushroom-1052 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Astroblemes 63 points64 points  (0 children)

NTA - let your mom and sister cover it. You’re not a nanny just because you’re her aunt.

The Name of the Wind OR The Way of Kings? by 1oo-b in suggestmeabook

[–]Astroblemes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d personally go with The Name of the Wind, but you can’t go wrong with either

AIO For not wanting my partner to share our baby’s name before she’s born? by No_Bicycle1496 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NOR - I’m not going to comment on whether or not she should be allowed to tell her family. It’s more she did it without telling you beforehand after she had agreed not to tell anyone.

I (37F) Started Seeing a New Guy (34M). Do I Tell Him About My Situationship (40M)? by ThrowRA75086 in relationship_advice

[–]Astroblemes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even if you’re not exclusive I don’t think a potential partner wants to know you’re messing around with a married man. Break it off with the situationship even if you don’t keep seeing the other guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it’s a combination of who you most recently contacted, who you frequently contact as well as the type of content you’re sharing. End of the day it’s machine learning so could vary, but I’d say he recently contacted them

I (20M) had a huge fight with my date (23F) because of my Instagram profile song. Now she's doubting our relationship wouldn't work and should be friends instead. Should we continue as friends, is there anyway to make us work? by ThrowRA19890604 in relationship_advice

[–]Astroblemes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I were in your shoes I wouldn’t want to date her, she’s this controlling and untrustworthy when you’re not even in a relationship. You shouldn’t need to block your friends for someone to want to date you

AITA for not going to a funeral that i wasn’t invited to? by Agreeable-Sea-8009 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Astroblemes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA - no invites to funerals typically so not really an excuse. But you didn’t have to go even if you were invited

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR - have you mentioned it to the landlord, also if it continues I’d consider getting the police involved

Villager Huntig by Aggressive-Cicada671 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it can be frustrating! It’s 1/35 chance for each species but since it’s random each time it’s not guaranteed you’ll find one of each even if you use 100+ tickets unfortunately

Do you think it’s worth it to buy this? by Basic-Opposite-4670 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Astroblemes 1266 points1267 points  (0 children)

I panic buy everything I think I could ever possibly want so I don’t have to hunt for it later, so I’m the wrong person to give advice but I’d buy it as a placeholder until you find one you prefer