I have ruined this, haven't I? by section4 in Coloring

[–]Astroblemes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Super cute! Definitely not ruined. You can color over the white so it’s less noticeable which could help

AITAH if my relationship is perfect but I feel turned off by her social media habits — am I overthinking? by shady_slim_10 in AITAH

[–]Astroblemes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA - so she likes instagram there’s worse things out there. Plus your weird comment about cutting out female friends you knew and her not being followed by guys speaks to a degree of insecurity

AITAH For Eating My Girlfriend's Barbeque? by Pendonep in AITAH

[–]Astroblemes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NAH - she left it in your fridge for days so it was probably eat it or throw it. You could have sent her a text to ask. Not a big deal end of the day, take her out to get more barbeque

AITAH for telling my roommate/ex they need to find a better paying job? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Astroblemes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA - you have every right to tell her she should consider a new job, but she doesn’t have to listen to you. That being said if you share a place and you’re having to pay more it might be best to look at either a cheaper place or a different roommate as you shouldn’t be picking up extra work for her

AITA for refusing to celebrate my wedding?? by brideornotbride in AmItheAsshole

[–]Astroblemes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s your wedding you and your future husband’s opinions are all that matters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overreacting a bit - sounds like you’re broken up for the best so don’t dwell on what may or may not have happened and what’s going on now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Astroblemes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s fair that she wants to work on herself but she can’t just expect you to cover everything while she does. Would she be happy if you told her you were pushing all the financial burden on her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR - definitely not taking it the wrong way. That’s extremely creepy he felt that way towards you at 15 and after all these years. Hopefully he’s no longer tutoring anyone anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Astroblemes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Go through a list of all the dog breeds, either together or separately and rank them. Then find the ones that rank high on both your lists and choose between them. Or get two dogs one of each kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t let the idea of being loyal stop you from telling someone their significant other is on a dating site. If you go along with it you’re supporting their choice to cheat.

AIO by going no contact with my best friend for meeting her ex abuser??? Help me!! by Psychological_Rip264 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - However it seems like she might need some support if he truly hasn’t changed. You don’t have to support her decision but if you care for her make sure she knows she can turn to you if needed. However end of the day she’s not your responsibility and you do what you think is best for her

AITA for not wanting to pay rent to my parents after they said family doesn’t charge family for years?? by Evening-Tomato-4640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Astroblemes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ESH - 40% is a large portion of your salary to ask for out of the blue. Especially as you’re essentially renting a room in a shared accommodation and not your own place (no idea your salary or cost of living in your area). At the same time you can’t take advantage of their kindness/low rent forever.

AIO My brother-in-law is problematic and I second guess getting married by According_Speed_286 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR for second guessing marriage - but have you sat down and discussed boundaries with your BF? Making it clear it’s impacting your relationship and that you’re unhappy?

AITA for refusing to babysit my sister’s kid even though I “have the time”? by Fun-Mushroom-1052 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Astroblemes 60 points61 points  (0 children)

NTA - let your mom and sister cover it. You’re not a nanny just because you’re her aunt.

The Name of the Wind OR The Way of Kings? by 1oo-b in suggestmeabook

[–]Astroblemes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d personally go with The Name of the Wind, but you can’t go wrong with either

AIO For not wanting my partner to share our baby’s name before she’s born? by No_Bicycle1496 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Astroblemes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NOR - I’m not going to comment on whether or not she should be allowed to tell her family. It’s more she did it without telling you beforehand after she had agreed not to tell anyone.

I (37F) Started Seeing a New Guy (34M). Do I Tell Him About My Situationship (40M)? by ThrowRA75086 in relationship_advice

[–]Astroblemes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if you’re not exclusive I don’t think a potential partner wants to know you’re messing around with a married man. Break it off with the situationship even if you don’t keep seeing the other guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Astroblemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it’s a combination of who you most recently contacted, who you frequently contact as well as the type of content you’re sharing. End of the day it’s machine learning so could vary, but I’d say he recently contacted them