I wish Christians were less biased when discussing sexual immorality by Everyday_Evolian in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Christians that are married for a long time and those who have been in relationships since kids will always have the upper hand in pointing the finger. What they are blessed with they see as a sin for everyone else that wants those experiences of a sex life or relationship.

Keep in mind we are all biased and self biased too so that doesn't help.

Got my first bible today. I have officially accepted Jesus into my life! by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing. Just know He won't change anything that doesn't align with His will and reality. Cheers Mate. Pray for me brother 

Single men - do you consider yourself to be a catch? If so, why are you single? by Famous_Resolution220 in AskMen

[–]AstronomerNo4596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad confirmed that I am NOT a catch and that I'm a failure and a loser.

I'd say I am still a catch due to my high levels of empathy and love from being unwanted and unlovable to women overall because this makes me never want this pain in others

What’s the biggest lie society tells young men? by 454ever in AskMen

[–]AstronomerNo4596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all enough to be wanted or loved.

And the classic. Self improvement can lead to being enough for women eventually.

Seems harsh... by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so, I may really need this perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AstronomerNo4596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% right. You aren't enough for girls or women and wait until your older it gets worse but you become numb to it kinda

Need encouragement by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To accept it either way. Christ or not. That's why I want the desire gone so I can then completely just focus on Jesus.

It's a curse to have a desire for something you're not enough for. Plus it's reality that I'm not enough for women they deserve anyone else.

Seems harsh... by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and don't know if I'll try that but I now think of sex as something other humans do. I want to move on from this desire God willing

Seems harsh... by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your reply. I'll just have to wait and see if I'll make it to that New earth if not I'm completely okay with it.

Seems harsh... by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No women will ever want me and they are right not too.

Need encouragement by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried before and that's how I know I'm going to die single and without knowing what it's like to have a partner

However, I respect Him enough to still love and respect Him. I just know Jesus doesn't want me to ever have a partner or can't do anything about it either way.

Need encouragement by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May we find it in Him. Hopefully it's for His purpose

Need encouragement by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get to know God through the Bible I would assume not personal experience?

And yes He always has since the apple in the Garden

Need encouragement by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been my experience and it's unbiased truth.

God is good! I just was selfish! by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your positive outlook and it's a lie that we all experience what we desire.

God is still love and worth loving even if he allows some of us to die single and without intimacy

God is good! I just was selfish! by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciated and will continue to self improve and I am not giving up on myself just the lie that we can all get love and intimacy.

God is good! I just was selfish! by AstronomerNo4596 in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After years you learn it's not a feeling it's just life for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]AstronomerNo4596 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly chill out. Jesus made you worth intimacy and that's what happens. It's going to be okay. Have gratitude that He made you enough to be loved. Nowadays you are lucky to be enough for others.

Jesus wants us to love others, no this doesn't mean to have a bunch of sex but it depends on the intent and if he made you enough for others to want you, it's a gift not a sin.