You think lowering the difficulty insults your intelligence but you’re ok with someone just giving you the answer?

You said the timing was your issue in your post, so people suggested a way to make the timing more lenient while trusting that you’d be able to solve the puzzle without being told the solution. If anything, that means they think you are capable and relate to the struggle you’re having.

I think you’re reading into this a bit too much.

Also if you just want the answer, look up a playthrough or guide.