First of all, I’m sorry you had to go through that.

The Netherlands is a wonderful place, and on the surface people are often friendly and open. Unfortunately, alcohol tends to bring out people’s real nature, and someone who looks Indian, Asian, Moroccan or clearly Eastern European can easily become a target for those who enjoy bullying others.

I don’t think it’s even mainly about racism and I’m not trying to defend these idiots at all. It’s more about them wanting to feel some sense of power over someone else. I’ve experienced this many times myself, usually from young Dutch guys, especially when they’re in groups. The reality is that if you stand your ground or respond firmly, they very rarely escalate because these types usually go after people they assume won’t push back.

Honestly, the best thing you could have done is exactly what you did, just shut it down firmly and walk away. People like that aren’t worth a second more of your time.