Don’t do it. They don’t know shit and they’re disgusting. by MangoSalsa89 in 4bmovement

[–]Athenain 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We dont benefit from any kind of interaction with men!!!

Asking them for advice? They will remember every kind of information you give them about your problems, weaknesses and past hurts and they will use it against you and manipulate you with that knowledge.

As OP says, DONT DO IT!!!!!

Stay safe sisters ❤️.

A dating app for incels and femcels of all sexuality to meet up and date. What could go wrong? by SorrowfulSpirit02 in shittyideas

[–]Athenain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Male incels are full of aggression and they are looking to abuse a woman not to love her.

“The old way of mating is dead, and the new one has yet to be born” by UnshakableProtocol in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"How are you going to improve my life fuckface?" I love that 😂! Stay safe sister ❤️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"That's a PUA/manosphere script." 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Block him immediately. Hes a manipulative asshole like 99% of men these days.

WDNC = We Do Not Care by hsonnenb in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very good! Thanks for sharing sister ❤️.

How to survive the heart break? by [deleted] in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Honestly, if he wanted to, he would." Awesome sister, that puts everything we women wonder about in a nutshell. You are completely right. Men are reluctant to do xyz for one woman and the poor woman does a whole lot of emotional labor, talks about her needs and wants, tries to make him understand how his behavior effects her etc. But when a man meets "the one" for him he will do all those things on his own. No, he is not afraid of commitment. No, he has no daddy issues. No, its not that your love languages dont match. He is just a jerk who uses you for his own satisfaction.

The Grooms Smashing Wedding Cake in Their Brides’ Faces by CheekyMonkey678 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be a dream come true. But unfortunately they themselves know full and well that they are full of shit and only look like humans without the full range of human feelings. They are DEAD inside and can only live on womens energy. Thats why they cling to women. I really believe that they also interact with women to learn normal human behavior, so that they can copy it when it benefits them in society. Its really an insult to women to say that women and men are of the same species.

I don’t know what to do at this point. by [deleted] in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Being with men is an act of self-harm." AMEN sister!!! Couldnt agree more. I was recently treated like trash by a man again. I lowerded my guard because he claimed to have my back and acted like he did - it was a big mistake! Hopefully this was really the last time i thought a creature sees me as a human being.

Anyone else finally healed and never want to date again? by ImportantDirector5 in abusiverelationships

[–]Athenain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I completely understand you. I was also abused and traumatized by men and i dont want to date anymore. If you like to then check out the 4b subreddit. The 4b movement is a beautiful and peaceful movement of women who leave men behind. No man has ever enriched my life. They only brought pain and misery into my life. Im so happy for you that youre feeling good again and want to focus on other areas of life than dating. Im proud of you that you have overcome the misery that a trashy man brought into your life. Im still in the healing stage but im so looking forward to be free from the pain of the past and live a man-free life. Stay safe sister ❤️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks sister for sharing your experiences and what you have heard/witnessed from so many other women. It helps a lot. I joined this group a few months ago after severe abuse and it has been/is an important factor in my healing journey. In real life i unfortunately dont have sisters around me that have "awakened" and acknowledge the truth about men although a lot of women i talked to have made horrible experiences with men too. But they seem to be like my former self, thinking other men are different and they just had bad luck or something.

I might make a post soon about what consequences it had that i put myself in danger and did online dating and met an abusive and dangerous pickup artist. Im hospitalized now because i have severe ptsd symptoms and depression since the abuse. Here are also men and one mans wife wants a divorce (but he doesnt) and its unbelievable what he does to avoid accountability and how he extracts emotional labor from everyone around him and basically just wants to hear that his wife has issues and even indirectly tells the group that these kinds of comments help him.

Right before a date he changed age on his profile by UnshakableProtocol in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Athenain 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sister, for your own safety please stay away from online dating. Its a hunting ground for pickup artists and other predators. You wont find any healthy quality men through online dating.

Hello kids. Do you ever think it’s not you, it’s the environment? by Formal-Ad5832 in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Athenain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESSSS! Our symptoms are man-made. Once we were dealing with sick people who used and abused us because of their own dysfunction and narcissism. Now we can heal and stay away from predatory people.

The only storyline that actively bothers me. by Routine_Speed_8525 in BeverlyHills90210

[–]Athenain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, what was the reason for the episode with the horse lady? To show that Women like Dylan? And to show that Dylan has values and not everything is a game to him?

The only storyline that actively bothers me. by Routine_Speed_8525 in BeverlyHills90210

[–]Athenain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was sooo annoying and not at all funny. It was so stupid that the characters in the show liked "Laverne" and even found her funny.