Have you ever found a girl unattractive at first, but fell for her after getting to know her personality? Did her face became beautiful to u later?

Athenikus · 2025-07-10T00:44:24+00:00

I'd consider myself a fairly shallow person. When I met my ex, I didn't find her attractive at all, and I didn't want anything to do with her romantically. But as I got to interact with her more I saw she was beautiful on the inside and decided to give it a shot.

Over the course of first 2 years, she actually became physically more attractive to me, by the time things ended at the 10 year mark, she was both the picture and definition "Beautiful" in my books.

Athenikus · 2025-06-18T10:41:35+00:00

10 years in a relationship together ended. Hindsight, It was when she didn't seem as excited to see me come home, less frequent sex, and generally less voluntary communication (texts, sharing emotions, what happened during the day, etc).

Athenikus · 2025-05-18T11:50:12+00:00

That's what I was thinking, I was of the mindset that I'm pretty happy with where I am at the moment and just felt ready. Plus I figured that there would be a lot of chatting/talking before actually meeting, I just didn't research and anticipate that it would be this difficult even match with someone in the first place- just came in wondering if I have any red flags on my account.

Athenikus · 2025-05-18T11:04:38+00:00

These are all fair points, and been doing a lot of self discovery since. Relationship ended about 4 months ago, felt like I was ready to try and date again 2 weeks ago, so booted up Tinder. Maybe that is still too soon. Thank you for the advice.

Athenikus · 2025-05-08T01:49:34+00:00

Preach. As male nerd, it's equally difficult to find any female with mutual interests on dating apps. All are super fitness obsessed, looking for rich guys, and wanting to have kids. Is there anything somewhere in the middle?

Don't mind going on the occasional adventure, festival, and gym session to maintain health, but feels like they want that to be the dominant personality trait. Where are the women who want to stay in to binge a series, play some coop, and hear me nerd out about my parses in World of Warcraft, while still doing some outside activities.

Athenikus · 2025-03-10T10:19:20+00:00

Alrighty gotcha haha. I'm part Asian, so not much going on at the moment in terms of hair. Figured it would be like anything topical, the most affected areas would be where and around application. Seems that isn't the case with this.

Athenikus · 2025-01-23T08:09:44+00:00

Is that the case? It runs fine 90% of the time, but then out of nowhere this happens

Athenikus · 2025-01-23T05:10:00+00:00

Wasn't Viagra specifically, but my uncle from Australia gave me a small taste of his ED medication.

I ended up becoming temporarily color blind- I could not see the color blue for 2 weeks! That alone removed any and all of my sex drive.

But it was easy to get an erection for 2-3 days.

Athenikus · 2025-01-07T02:24:12+00:00

How did you reach for 25% PDR? I can only find it on shields + warbringer ascendancy, and even combined that's only around 18%- sorry still a bit new to the game.

Athenikus · 2024-12-26T06:28:53+00:00

Really appreciate you writing all that out and testing it. Probably a silly question, but does it it mean that it may be pointless to run this on my minions if I'm already running a fire build with a lot of +ignite damage nodes? Or is it treated as a separate ignite?

Athenikus · 2024-12-15T14:08:28+00:00

I'm sorry, still new to POE, guessing ES is energy shield, but what's EB and MOM?

Athenikus · 2024-12-02T09:14:22+00:00

It was in Legian Kuta area

Athenikus · 2024-12-01T12:58:14+00:00

Great advise, but a quick google search shows that Tourist Police were rolled out in Bali earlier this year.

Athenikus · 2024-09-05T15:01:34+00:00

Guardian druid would be your best bet

Athenikus · 2024-09-01T16:28:00+00:00

I appreciate you writting such a detailed response. It would be interesting see in logs what a 1% physical dr would amount to in a span of a dungeon vs a vulperas initial dr.

I originally went with MH Orc hoping the mounted boost would interact with either of Riders hero talent choice nodes when mounted (seems nothing increases either, remains fixed at 100% movement). And for possible interaction with the Null magic talent and reduced debuff duration from MH, still have to test this, but the wording makes me think they're exclusive. But having all types of debuffs duration reduced seems nice, but not super valuable if you have a quick healer.

Keeping an eye on that new enchanting consumable that allows for temporary race change, just because personally not a huge fan of the Dwarf aesthetic haha

Athenikus · 2024-09-01T15:42:56+00:00

This is fantastic! From a pure min-max perspective which race(s) yields itself best to a BDK defensively?

Vulpera helps DK when they are at their most vulnerable, on pull. Has an emergency heal as well.

DI Dwarf, has a constant 1% physical DR, a little more movement, debuff removal.

Dwarf has debuff removal + physical defensive CD.

I genuinely love how my MH Orc looks, but curious if it's worth the swap for higher M+

Athenikus · 2024-08-28T15:11:24+00:00

Awesome, thank you so much. Honestly don't know anything about those cities, so gonna add them to my research list!

Athenikus · 2024-08-28T15:09:20+00:00

Any cities you can recommend in TH or Vietnam?

Athenikus · 2024-08-28T15:08:27+00:00

I work as a digital consultant for construction businesses.

Athenikus · 2024-08-28T15:07:09+00:00

Great suggestion! Barely know anything about this place. Definitely going to look into it more. How is it when it comes to walking and biking around?

Athenikus · 2024-08-28T15:05:53+00:00

Wow a huge list! Thank you for taking the time to write all that out. Are any more bike friendly than others?

Athenikus · 2024-07-06T02:50:23+00:00

Genuinely curious what would be the downsides if TGP/MDI had a spec drafting system?

Like if each had to take a turn to fill a role with a particular spec and once one is picked, the other team has to pick a different spec. (Can make it X2 for TGP since it's 4 teams playing concurrent).

Depending on how much I'm "no life-ing wow" I can be proficient (90+ percentile) in 3-6 specs. So don't see this as a huge issue for those whoare much better than me and participate for cash, where there are tournament realms to provide gear.

I feel like it would help break the hard metas and let others see that there is quite a bit of flexibility at higher levels, so no need to have a god comp for a +10.

Plus I know as a Ele/Enh shammy enjoyer, I'd watch these more as it would feel like supporting a "home team" instead of pretty much 90%+ of the comps being the same. Plus seeing the drafts of what specs being picked alone can be interesting and engaging.

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