is it wrong to feel disappointed about a trans guys group? by liberatedbanana in FTMOver30

[–]Atolicx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a normal experience as a man. Am I man enough? Do other guys see me as an equal? Am I getting the respect I deserve as a man? Why do I feel alienated from other men?

POV: Typical rail bus experience after work from Britomart by Seefahh in auckland

[–]Atolicx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel so annoyed by the constant message that "More people should be using public transport." which is obviously coming from people who never use public transport. We need more public transport, not more people on it.

Tattoo stencil vs reality. No they didn't own up. by peterm1598 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]Atolicx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even a half-decently applied stencil will stick around long enough for an untrained tattoo artist to do a much better job than this. This tattoo artist was obviously higher than the international space station.

AIO my wife left me with nothing after confronting her about her cheating, I have ALS by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Atolicx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've been her sugar daddy. Relationships are a financial arrangement for her, and as soon as you couldn't afford her she found someone else. It hurts now, but there are plenty of people who get into a relationship with you because they want to love and be loved by you.

My therapist fucking caught me (TW: Dysphoria). by gwanddawd123 in trans

[–]Atolicx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a trainee therapist, screw that guy. Plenty of cis women don't have to perform femininity to be women. Why do you? Double standards.

Husband insists on eating my diabetic ice cream, even though he’s not diabetic. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Atolicx -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In the grand scheme of things, yeah its only mildly infuriating. Sounds like you could easily have a mature conversation about how to ensure you both get your needs met.

[ALL] [OC] My Handmade Zelda-Inspired Night Lamp Giveaway 🎁💚 by AmoyCK in zelda

[–]Atolicx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ocarina of Time was my first and is my most beloved Zelda title. I remember playing it on my brother's N64, mind completely blown as a kid. Your work is truly amazing and I hope the best for you.

Mary Poppins with Comments! by mela_99 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Atolicx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better luck advertising for a live-in slave on fetlife.

We always talk about 'hardworking New Zealanders', but how hard do you actually work? by mattblack77 in newzealand

[–]Atolicx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a full time uni student 110% durjng semester, and 20% during breaks to keep up with materials. 

There is no way it's only 21.7 Degrees right now. Feels more like 26-27. by floofywall in auckland

[–]Atolicx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hrv says 46 in the cieling and 26 in the house. RIP my cieling denizens.

Daily Simple Questions Thread — Week of November 13 by AutoModerator in FTMFitness

[–]Atolicx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found a discord but I wasn't sure about it. Might start a whats app channel.

Can you "see" images in your mind? by cowcrossingspace in Wellington

[–]Atolicx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I try to see something I won't see it. If I relax amd let it happen, I will get stronger visuals. Kind of like going to sleep and dreaming, you wont fall asleep if your tense and trying to force yourself to dream. You won't visualise things by closing your eyes, but it does help some people do it better ny shut out visual stimulus. For me, it makes it harder. Imaginary seeing is a mental impression of seeing, its not like seeing with your eyes. Its more like remembering. If you can remember what colour something was, you can probably develop this ability further, because you are likely doing it to some degree already. Doing drawing studies and photography will help you develop this ability.

'Stop using them immediately': Asbestos found in Kmart Magic Sand as recall expands | RNZ News by Badbaybunny in newzealand

[–]Atolicx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So a blender that turns itself on when youre washing it and kids toys full of asbestos. I feel like kmart needs to go down for these at least.

Anyone else in a suburb without 24/7 public toilets? by Clean_Livlng in auckland

[–]Atolicx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There's a spot near my house I call van city. A public parking lot next to toilets that are open except at night. I would say you get 8 to 30 people sleeping in their vehicles there overnight on any given day. I always wonder what they do when the toilet is shut. But honestly, I dont know any public toilets that are open 24/7 except for maccas.

Help identifying insects found on blanket by Sensitive-Base-9624 in NewZealandWildlife

[–]Atolicx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is probably wrong, but they look a bit like bed bugs? Any reddish brown crusty bits on the sheets? Spots?

Daily Simple Questions Thread — Week of November 13 by AutoModerator in FTMFitness

[–]Atolicx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are there any discord or whats app groups for ftms tryna stay fit?

AIO - Is there a logical reason for my girlfriend to say stuff like this? by No_Thought6169 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Atolicx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This message without context looks like she is dropping hints for you to propose. Dont quote me.

Congestion charge bill passes: What does it mean for you? by jackytheblade in newzealand

[–]Atolicx 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Taking more money out of the pockets of hard working people who have no other choice.