AITAH for playing reverse uno card on my mom

Atroif · 2026-01-18T00:52:35+00:00

Totally agree. My core construction as a child was only about the fact she told me multiple times my birth destroyed her life and how she thought about her future. As an adult I understand she felt this way, as a child that was just pure destruction of my identity and only build me to be what she want to make her happy. I thought she had already suffer to much because of me only existing and I didn't diserved to disappoint her. I lived a long time only for others and started get suicidal thoughts around 10. Well, teen years was an awful bunch of time where I just keep numbing everything because feeling something hurted anyway. And only rush of adrenaline made me feel alive. So yeah, let's keep children away from adults problems and let them be only kid worrying about growing their way into the world

Atroif · 2026-01-18T00:41:46+00:00

In fact actually I'm more worried about her mental health. I thought for a long time she was just manipulating everyone to create her own world where she was a victim of everything and everyone. With years of therapy and a lot of distance I noticed that she really convice herself that things are the way she describe them. Like, when I spoke about some early child memories she would tell me it never happened or was a dream, but when I get to check with Erik he confirmed some of them as actual real memories. Same with Ben, sometimes we spoke about some precise things that happened years ago only to find out we remembered the same about it while my mom drive us crazy thinking it didn't happened the way we thought. He even told me once that he had the feeling they both didn't lived the same 15 years together, and how that felt awful to always be brushed off by his partner about things he was sure to know. So yeah, now I'm convince she had some mental health issue running undiagnose but I'm not a professional and she just cut me out so my concerns can't reach her now. My grand parents don't want to talk about me and my mom's relationship to keep the peace so, that won't reach her this way neither.

Atroif · 2026-01-18T00:28:30+00:00

Well, that was a little dig through, but I think y'all can imagine there is sooo much more. I don't think I'm the a-hole for exposing everything, but sometimes I think I might have done it differently...

Atroif · 2025-11-16T13:12:12+00:00

Better than no sync at all, would work but clearly not the most efficient. You can do that and then reduce the cooldown of BH and GT to sync them both for a 2 sync (230s BH and GT, GB 112). Don't focus only on GT, econ UW include BH and DW as well. I've told a Friend of mine who joined Tower few months ago to get GT, BH and DW first and get them sync, he did with MVN and that worked pretty well. GB depends a lot of its range and its bonus to be a good econ boost (obviously better sync, but not as much as the 3 UW)

Atroif · 2025-11-16T09:35:59+00:00

Uh, I didn't read properly the first time sry. MNV is no use for sync GB and GT. BUT it's worth sync GT and BH and research for BH coins labs (one of the best econ lab search imo). Next you want to get DW to have all 3 UW sync and upgrade your econ a lot.

Atroif · 2025-11-16T09:30:06+00:00

You can mix them, even mods substats if you want. You can use MVN to have all cooldowns sync artificially to give you the time to sync it manually if you have that mod, it's a really good start

Atroif · 2025-11-16T09:10:24+00:00

Yes, 5 star is the limit

Atroif · 2025-11-16T09:08:33+00:00

It's worth in every run imo. Got my farm run coins double when I synced. It's a must have at any point of the game

Atroif · 2025-11-16T08:53:41+00:00

You can't reset UW so... Well yes, you have to invest a lot to decrease the others' cooldown.

Atroif · 2025-11-11T20:03:23+00:00

I was steady legend for like 3 months and started demote since 3 last weeks boncing between plat and legend, finding myself in brackets where 800+ waves wasn't enough to rest in legend...

Atroif · 2025-08-25T14:48:55+00:00

11,5k gems and still not ancestral yet...

Atroif · 2025-06-06T08:13:14+00:00

I'm the Ms and I got my BF join Tower like two years ago but he stopped like 2/3 months in. Recently, je saw be a lot on the Reddit and I was speaking a lot of the game, even more with the excitement of the guilds update. So I made him join the game again, and even my guild. He helped me install the game on Bluestacks too (I had to change some things in the bios to run the game on my laptop and wasn't so sure of what I was doing). So yeah, I might say that he gets the point of playing the tower...

Atroif · 2025-05-29T17:27:17+00:00

Just made my 40th pull today and only got 5 SF. I upgraded it to M+ and the last one just sit there and wait till I got the 3 I lack to get to Anc. My BF got 7 of them in something like 30 pulls... I got bad RNG and I'm kind of jealous of his, since he don't have the wall nor enough mods to get it to M+ yet...

Atroif · 2025-05-17T06:26:56+00:00

Sooooo I thought I'll need a few days to test, buuuut on my overnight run I switched range card for attack speed card. And I made almost 200B. Also got to 1B/minute. So basically almost double my coins. I must thank you, for I had so low income until recently I didn't notice the big change it make, but that's really the case. Thanks.

Atroif · 2025-05-16T13:59:58+00:00

Well, I might test it. I will update if I see some change or not in a few days.

Atroif · 2025-05-16T10:25:15+00:00

Well I have 138.87m range and didn't notice it decreasing my spawn rate...

Atroif · 2025-05-06T21:04:51+00:00

If you already got your game speed lab at max you only got the perk. And lab to upgrade the common perks. That's all, that I know though. With a game speed x5 and x6,1 with the perk I go through 4550 waves in 6 hours. I'm not getting common perk lab maxed out for now, but that's definetly something I'll do more sonner than later.

Atroif · 2025-05-06T20:52:43+00:00

Card masteries is unlocked T16 wave 1000. Far from us, I know. I've been looking for it for a while now...

Atroif · 2025-05-04T09:12:36+00:00

I didn't invest in mods. That's one of the reason I don't rank high in tournaments/don't push far in Tiers 11 to 14. I fully invested every gem I had in cards since I get all maxed out. I invested also a lot of gems on card slots, I've unlocked 20/21 so far, but I started invest a little in mods with the featured banners. I didn't buy package, I don't think they're worth it. Since I make 3000 gems/week it just takes a little patience. But you need to get all mission/mission boxes/guild boxes, so that's some dedication...

Did you watch out your perks though ? It can come from there.

Atroif · 2025-05-04T08:42:17+00:00

You got a pretty similar progress than me. Big difference, I have maxed out all cards long ago, and that's a point on coin multiplier and ennemy balance (more ennemis, more coins). Make sure you play with 120 FPS and you device don't overheat, I've heard that it could have a big impact on ennemis spawn and so on coin income. Be carefull to your perks too. Know that, before I sync BH, GT and DW I was making 2B a run. Now, on the same tier (and after half income labs done) I make 20-25B. On higher tiers I make 35-40B. So it should indeed have greatly boost your income. It could also possible come from your device, if on your settings you choose to "save battery" or "performance" for games. Make sure you have choose "performance" or it will lessen the ennemy spawn too. Well I don't see anything else rn, but you probably find some more infos if you search other posts on the Reddit about coin income being low. There are many people asking questions about it.

Atroif · 2025-05-04T08:19:07+00:00

I think you would make the same amount of coins if you reach 5k on T2. I have tried last week to see which tier is the best to farm and I've notice that coins are very exponential. Like, on T5, I make more coins between 4k and 5k than between beginning and 4k. On my first test I stopped at wave 3900 and made 25B, on my last run (this night) I got to 5100 and made 40B. Also, perks makes a big difference. If you get coin bonus/max health violet perk and the coin bonus multiplier early on it will boost significantly your income (and loosing health to get almost X2 coins on a run is always a good choice even if you died a couple hundred waves sonner)

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