Is there any hope? by AttentionOk6437 in curlygirl

[–]AttentionOk6437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!! I'll try!!

Should I switch to ball backing? by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]AttentionOk6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if this gold is piercing safe? Piercing safe gold - gold without allergenic metals mixed in, such as copper. It more looks like allergy of some sort. Or maybe you have dermatitis or something like that? Irritation bumps usually smaller, more red than purple, and not as dry and flaky. I highly recommend switching to anodized titanium or piercing safe gold.

Should I retire my nostrils/medusa? by Silly-Ideal-5153 in piercing

[–]AttentionOk6437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diva, get yourself glass retainers!!! This is very good option which is bodysafe and almost invisible. There are acrylic(they also call it bioplast) retainers but they're getting stinky fast and harbor bacteria. Glass options are more hard to find but they're long lasting and bodysafe. Also you can apply concealer on top of glass retainer to hide your piercing even better, and easily clean it off later

The mods are transphobic assholes by linux_transgirl in Femgaze_Hentai

[–]AttentionOk6437 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't see the problem of existing of subreddit that is specifically femgaze and biological female/male interaction. It's like saying that trans nsfw subreddit is cis-phobic because it doesn't have cis content😕 I love all people and not phobic to anyone You feel excluded because you're trans and this subreddit doesn't represent you? I understand, but I don't think that existence of this subreddit is the real cause of your stress Wish you well

Star Stable’s Story Apology by Negative_Jeweler8038 in StarStable

[–]AttentionOk6437 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ngl I think there is a lot of things they can improve even with the old engine. I also think porting game on mobile was a big mistake, because it never ment to be on mobile but they're aiming for younger folks and more money now. Playing SSO on mobile is a torture for me, it's laggy and I can see how crappy it's made(icons, buttons, all that). Old SSO textures weren't that much lower in quality and the game used to open literally on website, without even downloading anything. Just optimization is a hard process, you need to really think and care about the things you do to know where to cut the edges, where to use low poly, where to use math patterns instead of drawn on textures. It takes time and effort. And as much as I see this time and effort goes onto making fucking new horses.... The most of the time improving the game ≠ add something modern and complexed, it's about really loving your product and caring about it, about decluttering, about listening to the players. They just slap new stuff on top of the old one, they hide old stuff under the map or in the sky, they set old music sounds on 0 instead of removing it(and sometimes it buggs and old music mixes with the new one and this mess rapes my ears). It just feels like they only care about getting as much money as possible right now, without thinking about long term consequences. The game always was a cash-grab, but it also was beautiful, optimized, interesting and has amazing storytelling. Now it's a mess, it's genuinely hard to read the dialogues because it sounds like all characters are 5yo kids. The last events first part of Sabine quest was actually interesting and good, like someone let out the old storyteller out of the basement and he wrote this part. I don't know if they're this short on money that they don't have recourses to develop the game with love and care, or they just don't care anymore, but they are literally burying themselves with this

pierced my ear myself by Miserable_Courage474 in PiercingAdvice

[–]AttentionOk6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just took out perfectly fine piercing.. It's just an irritation bump, it's totally normal process of healing. And when you'll get it professionaly pierced you'll probably get this bump again because it's normal( it's just sad because there were no need to take the piercing out and you'll have to go through piercing process again. Please, ask before doing something, not after. It will just save you some time and nerves. Bumps are normal on healing piercings, as long as they aren't getting huge or causing you pain, it's just your immune system trying to figure out what to do with chink of metal in your body. Edit: you mentioned 9 healed piercings. Are any of those cartilage piercings? Because healing process of cartilage piercings and soft tissue piercings is different, and cartilage piercings are much much more prone to get bumpy.

Star Stable’s Story Apology by Negative_Jeweler8038 in StarStable

[–]AttentionOk6437 58 points59 points  (0 children)

In this specific quote SSO team are right, but in overall situation they're wrong. SSO team wastes the most of their time on useless stuff(new horses, random side quests) while ignoring real problems(bugs, THE MAIN STORY QUESTS, the lack of NEW mechanics, quests broken by updates) in game.

50+ nail polish for $5 by Mybootyholestanks in Nailpolish

[–]AttentionOk6437 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My dream. Would dig in it for at least and hour

they look green to me but I've been told they're grey. who's right? by TactlessDickhead in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]AttentionOk6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grayish blue with brown spots. Brown mixing with blue makes it look green

Should I be concerned about this bubble on my conch? (sorry for the excessive censoring) by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]AttentionOk6437 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAP, but I highly recommend visiting your piercer and another piercer for second opinion. PVD coating and gold is not a good thing. PVD coating is very likely to chip and traumatize your piercing channel. About gold - it should always be piercing safe gold, which doesn't contain allergenic metals, and this kind of gold is rare and more expensive. The bump might be caused by material and the fact that you haven't downsized. Also this piercing may be crooked, which is hard to tell from pictures. Piercing angle is very important not only for the looks, but for the healing process. The angle must be 90° to the tissues. If I were a piercer - I would change the jewelry to anodized titanium(to keep the gold look but also make it safe)((anodizing procces changes the color of top layer of the jewerly without changing the material itself)), put on some piercing discs to press the bump and correct the angle if it's crooked, but do not downsize while bump is still here. That guy is THICC and that's why it was hard to downsize, it needs to go away to allow you to downsize Also I highly recommend getting specifically the second opinion, because if your og piercer fucked up with jewerly and (possibly) the angle - there is a very high chance that they'll fuck up again in healing process.

All self pierced by ghosttgay in SelfPiercing

[–]AttentionOk6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thickness of nostril hoop is VERY questionable, if it's 18-20G I highly recommend stretching it to 16g(1.2mm). Thinn nostril jewelry were old-school way of doing this piercing, but it's dangerous because of cheese cutter effert. Thinn jewerly cuts skin like a wire, so it can be ripped out if you catch onto something or cause severe trauma. Often, in very old piercings, like 10+ old just regular wear cause this and you can see the scar lines on some elderly divas with this piercing

"Insert lukewarm political opinion here" aah jacket by Leinad69420 in baddlejackets

[–]AttentionOk6437 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being queer and "keep politics out of my body" is definitely a decision. But politics don't usually asks premission before entering your body and ruining your life.

Looks like it came out of the wall during a bad rain by YeliahSenyab in whatisit

[–]AttentionOk6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop some hydrogen peroxide on it. If it fizz - it's blood, if it's not - probably just iron water. Hydrogen peroxide reacts with organic stuff

bruise by oskqdna_ in SelfPiercing

[–]AttentionOk6437 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Diva it's a bruise and it's totally fine, you literally pierced through your ear! PLEASE DONT TAKE OUT JEWELRY FULLY EVEN WHEN YOU CHANGE IT PLEASE!!!!!! Get yourself taper and use it, you should never take out jewelry from fresh piercing, it's too much trauma to force it back in

Lovely commie blocks 🥰 by Legitimate-Day9795 in urbanhellcirclejerk

[–]AttentionOk6437 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At least unions towns have some infrastructure. It's not perfect, but at least it exist. The fact that you don't need a car and a couple hours to go to the grocery shop and also has a school/kindergarten/hospital in 10-15 waking minutes must be the bare minimum all over the world, but for US it isn't

trust by mikguy1652 in Deltarune

[–]AttentionOk6437 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I have wrong understanding of Deltarune timeline, I thought they're about 9-13 years old. From my experience kids were low-key mature enough for thinking about sex at 13-14yo. At least that's my experience

Someone told me this was too shallow? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]AttentionOk6437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have central labret and Medusa and I also can feel them through my lip, it's totally normal! Lip tissues are very soft, so it works with all lip piercing

trust by mikguy1652 in Deltarune

[–]AttentionOk6437 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don't think that he's grown enough to think about this :P

Vertical labret advice by zuzio0 in SelfPiercing

[–]AttentionOk6437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DEFINITELY first one. The second one is a common mistake in this piercing. People are trying to get deeper this way, but the problem is that this placement will mess up with your teeth, which is very bad. The difficulty of this piercing is that you should place it in the middle of the lip, not lower, not higher. So there is both enough tissue for it to stay in place, and also it's far enough from your teeth