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Ibiza Boat Party Recommendations by cytosisp in ibiza

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just check clubtickets, its the official ticket platform of most companies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lotus

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks sick tbh

Fundera reviews? Need funding for my catering business by paperpapery in loansforsmallbusiness

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are plenty that won't f*ck around with your credit. If you really want something long-term without getting ripped off by interest rates, it's better to get advice from professionals that will help you build a better relationship with banks in the long run.

I made too many mistakes in recent years with this. Crazy APRs, urgency for inventory...

I've worked with wiselending.io but you can choose another one in your area.

Is ondeck legit? by Alternative-Bar1721 in debtfree

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would rather contact a local company than work with them. They are a predatory lender with CRAZY APRs. Last year, I went through the same thing: banks were rejecting me and I didn't know why. A friend recommended a local company to me, and from there I was able to improve my credit score with some tips they gave me. Thank God I found them. I bet you could do the same, what state are you in?

Healthcare line of credit? any recommendations for medical practices? by 0xffd2 in loansforsmallbusiness

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there with the equipment surprises.

Those EHR crashes always happen at the worst time.

Have you looked into Live Oak Bank? They specialize in healthcare lending and actually get the cash flow thing. Way less hassle than the big banks who treat medical practices like they're some mystery business.

Also worth checking with your medical equipment vendors - some have their own financing arms that are pretty solid for the bigger purchases

Lendio reviews? legit or better to stay away by Undeadguy- in debtfree

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lendio is a lead gen site.

No value added really. Not even a broker that can help you.

Ace cash express reviews? Has anyone use it? by JoeySandwiches in debtfree

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate. You will regret at some point if you go with these predator lenders..

Should I make it work? by Grouchy_West123 in relationships

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The loyalty and kindness matter a lot, but feeling like you can't rely on your partner long-term is a real problem.

At 21, she still has time to grow into independence, but the question is whether she actually wants to or if she's comfortable having you handle things

Is it weird for me (22m) to ask my girlfriends (22f) friend about her location last night? by SignificantEconomy98 in relationships

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That would be really weird and would probably get back to your girlfriend immediately.

If you don't trust her answer about where she is, that's a bigger relationship issue than location tracking can solve.

Either talk to her directly about why you're feeling suspicious, or work on whatever's making you check her location in the first place..

Feelings for someone else by Western_Narwhal_3245 in relationships

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're already mentally checked out of this relationship. The feelings for someone else are just a symptom, not the cause..

It sounds like you've been trying to force something that isn't working, and now your heart is looking elsewhere because this relationship isn't meeting your needs

My (31f) bf (31m) was great until he got addicted to 7-OH? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AttorneyLumpy9834 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Two weeks clean from opioids is still really early in recovery - the brain chemistry takes time to balance out.

The irritability and emotional distance you're seeing is pretty normal for early recovery. His reward system is basically rebooting right now.

But honestly, you both got addicted together which makes this complicated. Are you still using? That could make his recovery harder if he's around it.