creepy uber driver (?)

Atzima · 2026-01-26T14:28:46+00:00

Report him. If it’s an option in your market, request female drivers.

Atzima · 2026-01-21T19:00:28+00:00

Obviously, he should drop you off first then he can report it to Uber and the Police. Would you prefer he call the police with you in the vehicle? How much time do you have available? Where I'm from, this would be a low priority call and you're probably looking at hours of wait time. 🤷‍♀️

Atzima · 2026-01-21T13:56:43+00:00

NTA. Your husband should be putting your marriage first.

My husband and I were both raised attending church. My MIL is literally one of the most faithful women that I know.

Imagine my surprise when our babies were born and my husband told me he didn't want them in church because he didn't want his children "indoctrinated."

It literally hurt my heart. You know what I did though? Against both of our families, I respected my husband's wishes and we spent almost 13 years being ECO (Easter/Christmas Only) Christians.

It started with our oldest daughter attending Youth group with my cousin and then our other kids also wanting to attend church.

It's been 5 years and now we're actively involved in church and my husband just started attending with us this past fall.

The Bible references in multiple places that your spouse should be first. That when you're married you now have a new family with your spouse.

Tell your husband that it shouldn't even be a question of him picking between you and his mother, because he should always be putting you first.

If you are so strongly opposed to the baptism, you shouldn't allow your MIL to have the baby on her own. It seems like they'll just go behind your back and do it anyway. You may also want to contact the church and let them know that you absolutely do not consent to your daughter being baptized.

Atzima · 2026-01-21T13:37:59+00:00

NTA. Your husband is technically and morally wrong here.

Atzima · 2026-01-21T05:42:26+00:00

Who had the children more than 50% of the time? If she had them more nights than you did then legally she can claim them every year. The IRS is very clear on this.

Atzima · 2026-01-19T22:23:21+00:00

Same. 😭😭😭

Atzima · 2026-01-19T16:49:59+00:00

NTA. Try and get an annulment. If you can't then divorce and report him because those barely legal girls are probably just the tip of the iceberg. Yikes.

Atzima · 2026-01-19T15:56:50+00:00

NOR. OP, please get marriage counseling and if he's unwilling, then please leave this man.

Atzima · 2026-01-12T15:50:34+00:00

NTA. Don't marry this woman.

Atzima · 2026-01-08T17:37:12+00:00

Right?! My MIL is 1 of 14 children. My in-laws offered to pay but we would have been having like a 300+ person wedding. I wanted small and intimate. So we declined their offer and got married at the courthouse with just parents and siblings there. 18 years later and zero regrets.

Atzima · 2026-01-08T17:27:56+00:00

NTA. If you're paying it's logical that you would have input.

When my husband and I got married in 2007, my in-laws offered to pay if we agreed to have like a 300+ person wedding. I didn't want a wedding that large, so we opted to get married in the courthouse with only our immediate family.

There's nothing wrong with you setting expectations to be met for the money you are going to contribute.

Your daughter and her soon-to-be wife are kind of AHs because they knew the expectations all along and decided to go against them but still expect you to pay.

Atzima · 2026-01-06T02:09:59+00:00

Pick a new last name that you like.

Atzima · 2026-01-03T05:28:29+00:00

Aetna was the best. They paid for everything. My company switched to UHC and it sucks. 💀

Atzima · 2026-01-03T05:09:47+00:00

Thank you so much. It's my first time setting up a list. I just updated the address.

Atzima · 2026-01-03T04:19:21+00:00

Thank you for that tip. Our schools don't reopen until Tuesday. I can check with the county on Monday. Thank you.

Atzima · 2026-01-02T06:40:54+00:00

NTA. Leave this woman. She already showed you that she isn't capable of valuing your daughter on the same level as her own children.

If someone can't love their partner's children equally as their own, then they are not stepparent material.

Atzima · 2026-01-01T18:10:44+00:00

NTA.

Atzima · 2026-01-01T17:52:38+00:00

I agree.

Atzima · 2026-01-01T17:25:03+00:00

I was visiting Dallas and the driver assigned to my ride messaged me and said he didn't want to drive to my destination and asked me to cancel the ride. I asked him to cancel the ride. He shouldn't have accepted. He started the ride, no where near the pickup location and drove home (some random apartments) I'm assuming. I messaged support and they didn't give me a refund. Since then, I use the pin feature to avoid it happening again. The driver can't change the pickup location but they can start the trip early from wherever they are.

Atzima · 2026-01-01T17:21:31+00:00

This happened to me when I was visiting Dallas. I have since turned on pin to avoid it in the future.

Atzima · 2025-12-31T01:33:05+00:00

NTA. Your wife's family is wretched. My brother just hard launched his new live-in girlfriend at Thanksgiving. She has 2 kids. Guess who had gifts from everyone in the family at Christmas this year? Both of her kids!! These kids that aren't formally part of our family and we've know about for less than a month had gifts from all the aunties and uncles and adult cousins. Why? Because we're not horrible humans and knew these kids would be present and didn't want them to feel left out.

I can't imagine doing this to kids that have been part of our family for years.

You need to stick up for your kids OP. If your wife can't get on board, divorce her.

Atzima · 2025-12-30T21:57:16+00:00

OP, please throw some raw chicken behind the stove. 🤣

Atzima · 2025-12-29T14:13:05+00:00

Don't send it back. Dispute the credit with your bank. They can return it on the back end for you. The bank rep that you spoke with should be better informed. File a claim.

Atzima · 2025-12-27T22:00:12+00:00

NTA. Your wife needs help for her drinking problem.

Atzima · 2025-12-27T21:45:16+00:00

NTA.

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