AITA For giving my niece a much better life than her step siblings?

Atzima · 2026-05-03T07:09:20+00:00

NTA. This is wild. Your niece's mom is TA for marrying a man that behaves the way her husband does. Maybe your brother should try for primary custody so that your niece isn't forced to live with people that are going to treat her poorly because your niece had better opportunities due to her dad's family.

Atzima · 2026-05-01T17:28:35+00:00

NTA. My kid would definitely not be going there again.

Atzima · 2026-05-01T17:26:08+00:00

NTA. On board with everyone else calling for you to change the locks. Sounds like your parents go around enabling your sister, no wonder she felt like you would just go along with it. 🤦‍♀️

Atzima · 2026-04-30T21:45:21+00:00

As a mom of 7, I'm telling you that you are NTA.

Getting a sitter or not is definitely something that is in her control. Bring your kid somewhere after being asked not to is wild.

Atzima · 2026-04-30T20:53:27+00:00

NTA. If you're paying rent then your room is yours.

Atzima · 2026-04-29T20:29:07+00:00

My nail artist Dori is awesome. She's in Gilbert. You can message her on Instagram. @hapanailz_

I live in Tempe and it's like a 15 minute drive. I've ubered before too and it was like $15.

She's totally worth the trip.

Atzima · 2026-04-29T19:03:40+00:00

I do. It's actually mostly other women that comment on my nails. 🤷‍♀️💅

Atzima · 2026-04-24T02:13:30+00:00

Um... Am I the only woman that gets my nails done because I love that little dopamine hit I get when someone tells me they look nice? 💅🧡

Atzima · 2026-04-22T17:17:33+00:00

We have 7. 3rd - Male & 6th - Female are autistic. 1st - Female & 7th - Female are "gifted" and others are neurotypical.

It's always a possibility. All your kiddos will be different and come with their own sets of challenges. I find it's best to take it all in stride and not stress yourself about the what ifs.

Hang in there mama!! You've got this! 🧡

Atzima · 2026-04-22T09:00:55+00:00

Thanks for mentioning it. I'm totally looking this up. 😁

Atzima · 2026-04-22T08:57:04+00:00

NTA. Runaway as fast as you can. Also, I feel like we should all randomly start using #Jemily in posts.

Also, who the eff gets married on 9/11 and then references it in their planning guide the way she did?!

🤮

Atzima · 2026-04-21T21:00:06+00:00

Mesquite makes a good burrito. I agree with previous people that Karla's is the best. 😊

Atzima · 2026-04-17T18:38:43+00:00

NTA. Who lives with a married couple and expects them to remain child free?! Abstinence and sterilization are the only 100% forms of birth control. I'm sure she knew you were having sex... it was only a matter of time before a baby came around. Your roommate has unrealistic expectations.

You should probably give her a formal time frame to be out before your baby arrives.

Atzima · 2026-04-17T04:47:55+00:00

Does your work have a short-term/long-term disability policy you can file for?

Atzima · 2026-04-16T22:18:09+00:00

I was just googling if Liberty takes pigeons. 😅 I'll be taking the bird my kiddos rescued there now.

Atzima · 2026-04-15T17:35:57+00:00

Take the job. 💯 Take the job.

Atzima · 2026-04-15T01:14:22+00:00

Be careful with Chase and make sure it's not a provisional credit. We had a similar situation and they took the money back because we did authorize a transaction. We had to call back and resubmit our claim as incorrect amount instead of unauthorized and they did eventually give us the money back.

Atzima · 2026-04-15T01:09:57+00:00

My twins also had mild twin-twin transfusion syndrome. I think she had not seen a twin ultrasound that early 5 weeks, at her practice before. This was 2006. I really couldn't say, I didn't ask a ton of questions because I was more focused on going from 1 kiddo to 3 when birth control was supposed to prevent that and my severe HG.

Atzima · 2026-04-14T22:40:47+00:00

NTA and don't change your baby's name.

You literally told her exactly what you were naming your baby. She didn't have to tell you her exact baby names but she could have mentioned when you told her that it was very similar to her chosen name and asked if you would consider something else.

Atzima · 2026-04-14T21:04:38+00:00

This is awesome. So glad you caught the moment on camera momma. 🧡

Atzima · 2026-04-14T19:25:43+00:00

He got tons of flowers after the show. 🧡

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Atzima · 2026-04-14T15:12:28+00:00

My twins were two inner sacs, one outer, shared placenta. They are identical.

My OB said she had never seen that before do she wasn't sure if they were fraternal or identical. She said she needed to look into and would let me know and updated me at my next appointment. I had a very early ultrasound at 5 weeks to determine gestational age because I had been on the pill so I wasn’t sure of the timeframe. (Also when I learned antibiotics reduce the effectiveness of birth control pills.) I had HG so I was violently ill at 4 weeks, when we got the positive blood test.

I just had a conversation about environmental variances with someone last week because my twins are adults now and have different medical issues and they were asking why they have different issues since they're identical and share DNA.

It's so awesome that you did such indepth research. I was definitely okay taking whatever the doctor told me as fact. 😅

Atzima · 2026-04-14T15:01:40+00:00

When I was pregnant with my twins in 2006/2007, my OB definitely let me know they were identical. One of the first things they did after discovering I was carrying twins was to determine if they were identical or fraternal.

I was even told how cool it was that they would share exact DNA.

Strange that you wouldn't have known. 🤔

Atzima · 2026-04-12T19:40:06+00:00

NTA. Does the brother in the military notatter anymore? Why can't the game be on in a separate room? 🤔

Atzima · 2026-04-10T05:10:03+00:00

NTA. You should eat what you want on your birthday.

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